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Thoughts on Food

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I’ve been meaning to make a post about my thoughts on food for awhile now. I talk about food a lot — both here on the blog & in my every day life. It’s a topic that I am truly passionate about. When it comes to food, I am a huge advocate of local, sustainable, and organic. These are the things that I value for myself and for my family. I’m not sure if I’ve ever defined these things in terms of what they mean to me, so I’m going to give it a go today.

Sustainability has to do with the farming practices in place when food is grown. Sustainable farming practices enhance the environmental quality and natural resource base upon which the agricultural economy depends — as opposed to unsustainable practices which are destructive to the environment and its natural resources.

Sustainable and local often go hand-in-hand. Aside from the practices used to grow food, another big reason why most food is not sustainable has to do with travel. For example, imagine the impact of the tens of thousands of pounds of food that are shipped from South America into the United States every day. This long-distance movement of food, in many cases, saves companies money. The cost of employing workers in third world countries is significantly lower; the environmental protection laws are lesser, or non-existent; and so on. Then the company moves this food long-distances, which in turn uses an incalculable amount of natural resources (fuel) and creates a further incalculable impact on the environment (automobile pollution, etc). When these facts are taken into consideration, it’s easy to see why local is, in many cases, more sustainable.

I also buy and support organic food when possible. Here are some key differences between traditional and organic farming practices.

Traditional: Apply chemical fertilizers to promote plant growth.
Organic: Apply natural fertilizers, such as manure or compost, to feed soil and plants.

Traditional: Spray synthetic insecticides to reduce pests and disease.
Organic: Spray pesticides from natural sources; use beneficial insects and birds, mating disruption or traps to reduce pests and disease.

Traditional: Use synthetic herbicides to manage weeds.
Organic: Use environmentally-generated plant-killing compounds; rotate crops, till, hand weed or mulch to manage weeds.

Traditional: Give animals antibiotics, growth hormones and medications to prevent disease and spur growth.
Organic: Give animals organic feed and allow them access to the outdoors. Use preventive measures — such as rotational grazing, a balanced diet and clean housing — to help minimize disease.

When looking at traditional vs. organic practices, it’s easy to see why organic practices might be better for the environment and for our health.



All of these facts are only pieces of a very large puzzle. As with anything in life, there are pros and cons to all of the decisions that we make. These are just a few of the reasons as to why local, sustainable, and organic products are my first choice for my family. Now, with all of this being said, I want to point out that we do not always eat local, organic, and sustainable food — not by a long shot!

First of all, we are spoiled and there is a lot of food that we eat year-round (for example bananas) that does not grow in the States all year, let alone hyper-locally. Secondly, no matter how you spin it, organic food is almost always more expensive than non-organic food. Although it’s easy to see why this is the case — that doesn’t make it any easier to swallow for a family that lives on a budget.

In my case, I would say that the food that I purchase and prepare for our family is about 50/50 when it comes to organic vs. non-organic and about 70/30 when it comes to local vs. non-local (70% being non-local). (Update: As of May, 2015 we now eat about 90% organic. We’re still working on eating more locally, as well.) The latter shifts drastically in the summer and autumn months when farmer’s markets are open and I am visiting local farms frequently. During those times our local vs. non-local consumption is at least 50/50, if not more (in favor of local).

I buy organic and non-organic produce. We occasionally eat packaged food that contains preservatives. I shop at Walmart sometimes! I am so far from perfect — not that there is even such a thing. It’s just really important to me to be clear that just because I support a certain lifestyle, doesn’t mean that I am capable of living up to some unrealistic standard of perfection. We’re all doing the best that we can and I believe that supporting causes even some of the time — or as much as possible within reason — is a huge step in the right direction for our society.

The truth is that I would love to eat only local, sustainable, organic food — but, for the reasons I’ve already mentioned, it’s not practical 100% of the time. I do it as much as possible and I feel good about that. At the end of the day, I believe that what’s important for all families is educating ourselves about our options and doing the best we can with what we’ve got.

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    How to Overcome Fear & Stop Resisting

    “To offer no resistance to life is to be in a state of grace, ease, and lightness.” —Eckhart Tolle

    Stop resisting the will of the Universe. I’ve said this to myself thousands of times. It is perhaps one of the most powerful tools that has led me to peace of mind.

    In the past four years, I overcame depression, anxiety, and I lost sixty pounds. When you overcome a lifetime of anxiety & depression, a lot of things change. For one thing, you begin to enjoy life. Simple things that you hadn’t noticed before fill your heart with joy—Spring, a cold glass of water on a hot day, a good workout, a kind word, a smile. When you are overcome by the effects of anxiety & depression, you do not have time to notice these simple pleasures. (They are often overshadowed by the negative, irrational thoughts swarming inside of your head.)

    Happiness begets happiness, as I like to say. However, even in my increased state of happiness, I knew that something still wasn’t right. It took me awhile to realize what it was. Only after months of careful self-observation did I realize what was happening.

    A hard day at work = I was disgusted, angry, plagued by head aches.
    A frustrating experience at a car dealership = I was furious.
    An upcoming flight and travel arrangements = I was anxious, worried, sick to my stomach.

    I was continually allowing my mind to make me angry, sick, sad, frustrated, etc. Yet, after each of these experiences I learned some valuable lesson or something really important & meaningful happened as a result.

    Hard days at work always lead me to clarity about how myself and my team could be more efficient.
    The frustrating experience at the car dealership actually prevented me from making a terrible mistake and purchasing the wrong car.
    Recent travel and trips have brought me incredible successes in my personal & professional life.

    Upon observing all of this, it hit me. Even when things seemed terrible, even when I was really upset, eventually the pain of the situation would subside. Moreover, I would come out on the other side wiser, stronger, and grateful. Every thing that happened (happens) to me is a direct result of the will of the Universe (you can call that God, fate, destiny, or any other name you’d like to give it, no matter). Yes, every thing that happens is a direct result of the will of the Universe and an opportunity to learn and grow. In order to live true happiness, I had to stop resisting the will of the Universe. Once I did this, my life changed in incredible (and previously unimaginable) ways. When I stop resisting and simply “go with the flow” I find that I am constantly filled with a deep calmness in my soul. I do not worry or suffer. I simply exist and let all scenarios play themselves out. I understand that even pain is necessary and that ultimately it will carry me to a place of light & peace.

    Fear is Unnecessary

    At the root of every single feeling of discomfort, lies one emotion: fear. Fear is the emotion responsible for all forms of suffering. Sadness, anxiety, worry, rage, hatred, envy, and all other forms of suffering are rooted in fear. However, once you stop resisting the will of the Universe, you will understand that fear and suffering are actually not necessary at all.

    The vast majority of fear and suffering is a result of living in an unreal world and/or allowing negative, irrational thoughts to control our minds. The unreal world is the world of sky rise buildings, electricity, paper money, McDonald’s, television, marketing, vanity surgery, reality TV, etc. The real world is the world of trees, dirt, sun, stars, wind, rain, whole foods, self-love, generosity, family, love, etc. Can you see the difference? Once you remove yourself from the suffocating chains of the unreal world, and begin living in the real world, you will find that most of the fears that you experience are completely unnecessary. The vast majority of anxieties that we suffer from are made-up.

    – fear of judgment
    – fear of failure
    – fear of humiliation
    – fear of public speaking
    – fear of making a mistake
    – fear of travel
    – fear of forgetting something
    – fear of being alone and so on

    Once you realize that these fears are made-up in the unreal world, they can hold no power over you. All of the above are irrational anxieties. None of those things would actually put your life in danger or expose you to any harm. The only place that they can affect you is in your head. But you must remember that you have control over what goes on in your head! You can use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to end the suffering.

    Eventually, you will realize that true fear might have a place in your life, but that is only when you are truly in danger. Perhaps while being chased by a bear or masked murderer, while falling from a cliff, etc. Yes, in those instances, your fear is justified and it can help you by creating adrenaline, increased strength, quicker reflexes and cognitive ability. But other than those “real” true fear situations, there is really no need for fear and certainly no need for emotional suffering.

    Live Without Resistance or Fear

    Once you learn to stop resisting the will of the Universe and to live without fear, you will experience an entirely new & improved sort of living. You will find that all of the things that you once desired, but were afraid to seek, are actually within your reach. For example, I was emotionally crippled by irrational anxiety for the first half of my life. This made it impossible for me to speak in front of people. I could not ask a question in a class of twenty, let alone get up in front of a group of people to speak. My anxiety over public speaking was so great, that it crippled me. I once experienced a debilitating panic attack at a dinner party of five family friends! But… that is ancient history.

    Now, my former self is hardly recognizable. I have spoken in front of groups of sixty people or more with grace and confidence. I know that my fear is irrational & unnecessary, so I overcome it. Sure, my heart rate may increase, I might sweat a bit—but I do not let it stop me! I remind myself that that the fear is not real and I move forward to success.

    You are entirely capable of achieving the same same sort of success in your own life—personal & professional. Whatever your fear is, you can overcome it.

    “You’ll seldom experience regret for anything that you’ve done. It is what you haven’t done that will torment you.” —Wayne Dyer

    To allow fear to rule your life, is not to live at all. So stop resisting the will of the Universe and stop allowing fear to rule your life. Begin living, truly living, right now. There is nothing in your way. What is your greatest fear? Can you believe that it is unnecessary? What would you do if you had no fear in your heart at all? How different could your life be?

    The only time you run out of chances is when you stop taking them!

    I am now offering personalized coaching sessions to individuals suffering from anxiety &/or depression. If you are interested in scheduling a session or would like to learn more, please contact me at denabotbyl[@]gmail[.]com for details and rates. Include CBT Session in the subject line.

7 Comments

  1. I would have loved this recipe book for babies when my son was wee! As it was, I pretty much pureed whatever I was having for dinner for him too, much to my mom’s dismay, ha!

  2. It would be nice if we would all get back to growing our own food just like my grandparents did – healthier and better for the planet.

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