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Day 10: Best Trip of Your Life

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I have been blessed to have a number of incredible travel experiences in my lifetime. There has always been a deep wanderlust flowing through my veins. When I was a young girl, my family took a couple of trips to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina to visit family. Even then, I knew that I loved to travel. When I was a little bit older, we took a family trip to Disney World in Orlando. That was probably my favourite trip of my childhood. I especially loved the “Around the World” exhibit in Epcot — where you could walk around a big lake and visit different countries, sample the native foods, and browse in the native shops. Then in high school, I traveled to England and Wales to sing in cathedrals with my high school chorale. It was my first international trip & I knew that I wanted more. During college, I took my first “solo” trip, flying across the country to Seattle, Washington. That trip was special to me in that it was my first time traveling alone. During my last year of college, I enrolled in a study abroad program that would take me to Kenya, Africa. After college, I had several jobs that required me to travel quite a bit. I visited the various regions of the United States, but typically only got to see those places from the inside of hotel conference rooms and rushed taxicab rides. In 2010, I decided to travel to Paris, France. There was no one in my life that wanted to go with me, so I decided to go it alone. Over the past ten years, I’ve also traveled to Bermuda and several spots in the Caribbean, including Jamaica; Cozumel, Mexico; the Cayman Islands; the Bahamas; and Grand Turk.

Amidst all of this travel, Kenya stands out as the best trip of my life. It really was extraordinary. We spent five days at Kenyatta University in Nairobi; two weeks on safari; and five days on the coast in Mombasa. I wrote fairly extensively about the journey in this series so I won’t rehash all of the details here. The other trip that stands out to me was Paris. It is extremely special to me because I overcame immense fears during that trip (traveling alone internationally to a place where I could not speak the language; traversing the catacombs; and more). Again, I’ve already written about that trip and you can check that out here. My other favourite trip was to Jamaica. It was the first trip that Matthew & I took together and it was wonderful in so many ways. I completely fell in love with the Jamaican people and their culture (and their food!). If I were to pick any place in the world to live outside of the states, Jamaica would rank high on my list. I know that the country is plagued with political problems as well as poverty, but their is a deep, rich happiness to that island that stretches far beyond the shallow tourist scene that most travelers get to experience.

So, there you have it. The best trips of my life. I am not sure when the next one will happen. Sadly, I’ve developed a terrible fear of airplanes in my late twenties that I’ve not been able to shake. My next big trip will be a road trip in which I will, hopefully, finally get to see my own great nation in all of its glory.

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    Let Go of Your Goals & Unleash Your Dreams

    Dreams are Just as Important as Goals

    I’ve written quite a bit about setting & accomplishing goals; overcoming fears; and making the best out of difficult situations. But what I haven’t written enough about is flat out—unleashing your dreams.

    Goal setting is a very mathematical process. It goes something like this: Define your goal. Map out the steps necessary to achieve it. Research, develop, act. Work until you get there. This is great, it makes sense, it gets things done. However, goals are full of limitations. In order to accomplish Z, first I need to do X and Y. If I want to be in this place by this date, then I’ve got to accomplish X, Y, and Z by this date. And so on and so forth it goes. We plan and work and strive.

    Yes, goal-setting & goal accomplishment are crucial elements to success; but sometimes we have to just let go of our goals and start unleashing our dreams! Throw caution to the wind and go for it. But how?, you ask. Well, you start by defining your dreams & broadcasting them to the world. Today I am going to define my wildest dreams & share them with you.

    “Achieving life is not the equivalent of avoiding death.” –Ayn Rand

    Why Are We Afraid to Expose Our Dreams?

    To be honest, I am a bit nervous about this. I feel like I am exposing a part of myself that I’ve kept hidden. When you keep your wildest dreams to yourself, you’re safe. If no one knows what you want, then no one can hold you accountable. For example, if your best friend has no idea that you dream of moving to Costa Rica to collect butterflies in the rain forest—then she isn’t going to check in with you once a month and ask where you’re at. If you’re father doesn’t know that you dream of quitting your job to build collectible trains and sell them on Ebay—then he isn’t going to be hounding you with questions about it at the holidays. And when you are not faced with those questions you are safe. Your dreams can stay on the back burner while your life passes you by. You are not held accountable. You don’t experience pressure. But, my friend, today is the day that you must realize something critical: It is pressure that makes diamonds!

    Broadcast Your Desires to the Universe

    Steve Pavlina recently wrote a post called Broadcast Your Desires. In the post, he explains why broadcasting our desires & dreams to the world is the best way to make them a reality. If you can’t broadcast your desires, it’s fair to say that you don’t own them yet. In order to make your desires become real, you’ve got to speak up about them. If you’re going to receive them, then let it be known. If you find it necessary to hide what you desire, that suggests you aren’t ready to receive.

    Well, I am ready to receive! I hope that by taking this step in my own life, I will inspire you to take it in your own. Here I go…!

    My Dreams

    1. Grow evolution you
    I want to take this blog to great heights, attract thousands of readers, inspire people around the world. I want to monetize it so that I can devote myself to improving people’s lives full-time. And as a result, I want to become location independent so that I can travel the world, spreading love & light where ever I go.

    2. Write a book
    I haven’t quite worked out the details of this one yet—it’s a bit ever-evolving. I’ll pin it down soon enough, for now I am just dreaming wildly!

    3. Travel to the Great Pyramids in Egypt
    I feel intimately connected to the people of ancient Egypt. Perhaps it is the beautiful & mysterious way that Ancient Egypt is depicted in films & literature, whatever the cause, the very idea of it thrills me. I have long dreamed of visiting & exploring the ancient pyramids for myself.

    4. Learn to speak French

    5. Spend time living & working in Europe
    Italy, France, and Belgium all seem such lovely places to me. I’d like to spend at least a few months in each place.

    6. Safari in Africa
    This is the only dream on the list that I already accomplished. In the Summer of 2006 I studied abroad in Kenya, studying, on safari, and touring. It was a truly incredible experience and I’ll be making a post about it soon.

    7. Live in the wilderness
    I am insanely attracted to nature. In fact, I am quite convinced that I am a tigress/she-wolf/mermaid trapped in the body of a human woman. I feel most at home in nature—in the mountains, near the sea, anywhere wild. I’ve long dreamed of escaping the civilization circa Into the Wild. It would certainly not be a permanent thing; but I’d love to experience it at least for a few weeks to see how long I’d last.

    8. Have or adopt a baby
    Last February my sister gave birth to me beautiful Godson, Brian. Ever since then, I’ve heard the ticking of my own biological clock a tad louder than before. I am not in any rush, as you can see I’ve got a lot I want to do before I am quite ready to “settle down” but it is definitely an enormous dream of mine, some day.

    9. Spend time on a Native American reservation
    I’d like to spend some time living or at least working/volunteering on a reservation. I am passionate about Native American culture and it would be a great honor to serve the Native American people in some capacity and to learn first-hand their cultures, traditions, and needs.

    10. Serve on the Board of Directors for a prominent wildlife conservation foundation

    11. Visit a Buddhist monastery in Tibet

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    These are not all of my dreams, not nearly, but the list could go on and on. For now, these are the ones that I am working toward—in the near & distant—future. It was not nearly as difficult to share them as I thought it would be! This list will be ever-evolving and I will update it as my dreams are accomplished and as they change.

    Alright, I did my part. Now it’s your turn! I would love to hear about your big dreams in the comments or if you make your own big dream post please let me know about it.

10 Comments

  1. I wanted to say my honeymoon (2003) or the trip my wife and I made to Aruba in 2001, but they are both a close 2nd to …. when Alison and I went on a Caribbean Cruise just after we got engaged in the summer of 2002. BEST trip ever!

    1. The Caribbean is amazing, isn’t it? It is definitely one of my favourite vacation spots, I don’t think I’ll ever tire of it. 🙂

  2. You’ve been so many places! That’s so amazing. My anxiety makes me never want to go anywhere new/meet new people, so I’ve never traveled anywhere. Jamaica has always been on my list of places I want to go!

    1. Travel can definitely be a huge anxiety-trigger. In fact, there was a point in time where I would get physically sick (from nerves) every time I traveled. Luckily when I overcame my general anxiety, the major travel anxiety went away, too.

  3. Tim is OBSESSED with Jamaica! You can stay in gorgeous houses for relatively cheap if you go off the beaten track. Our two contenders for our vacation in March was Hawaii and Jamaica. In the end we did Hawaii because it was much shorter plane and travel time with the kids. I think Jamaica should be a “kids-free” trip for us in the future. I also have a deep fear of flying. I take drugs and I still cry before I have to board a plane! Every time I do it I swear “never again!” and then I always do it again, lol. But seriously, never again *serious face*.

    1. We are in the same exact boat. I take the strongest drugs that my doc will give me and I am still a bundle of nerves. Ugh. I hate it. I haven’t been on a plane since I was a couple of months pregnant. I really don’t know if I can do it again. At least I have so much of the states to explore yet which can be done by car/train.

  4. I love that you’ve traveled alone! I would totally do something like that: )

    We went on a cruise a couple years ago and Jamaica was one of the stops and it was so so nice! You’re right, the people there are just so happy. We’ve talked about going again.

    1. Yea, solo travel definitely has its good points & its bad. I loved the freedom to do exactly what I wanted whenever I wanted to. On the other hand, it does get lonely and sometimes it’s hard not to have someone to share all of the special-ness with. I’m still really glad that I did it though, great experiences. 🙂

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