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5 Tips for Inexpensive, Socially Conscious Eating

This is a guest post from my friend, Liz. You can find more of her practical advice & beautiful insights at her Tumblr, If It’s Important.

I’d like to preface this by saying that I’m no expert and I don’t subscribe to any particular movement (which is not to say that there aren’t a lot of great movements out there that advocate for these sorts of things). All that I do, and all that I believe, comes from recognizing in myself the simple need to eat well, to live healthy, and to be conscious of the impact I have on the world around me. I don’t take myself too seriously, but I do believe in the importance of these ideas.

The Process of Eating

I am a big believer in the Process of Eating, meaning that I try as much as I can to avoid scarfing down fast, store- or restaurant-bought meals and instead make my own. Most people I know claim they don’t have time to cook, and that’s why they don’t do it. But, I like the time that it takes. There’s something meditative and calming about chopping vegetables, about stirring things, about binding yourself to timers. I believe in food and eating as a process rather than a single event.

There’s more to it than that. I’m pretty conscientious about what I put in my body, and the problem with a lot of the food you buy in stores and restaurants is that you can never be completely sure where its various parts come from. Though buying ingredients at a grocery store isn’t getting as close to the source as I’d ideally like, it’s as close as I can generally get while living in New York City. Because I cook so much of my own food, I like to think that I don’t frequently expose myself to a lot of preservatives or harmful chemicals and all of that. I think there’s some merit to this idea, because ever since I started making my own food consistently I’ve felt healthier as a person. I have almost no health problems and I generally only get sick once a year, if that. And these days, if I eat fast food of any kind, it makes me feel sick and gross almost immediately and usually for hours afterward.

Practicing Fiscal and Moral Responsibility

This sounds like such a white, upper-middle class thing to do. It is! (For the record, though, I’m not white OR upper-middle class.) But I also think it’s important to note that what I do is actually in the end far more cost-effective than what most of my friends do. For example, I buy fancy, locally grown coffee from Whole Foods that seems… like, unnecessarily expensive. But it takes me +/- 2 weeks to go through a whole bag, which means that I pay less than $1 per cup of coffee. And that’s significantly cheaper than buying Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks every day. And, okay, you could make the argument that I could buy really cheap coffee and save even more money. But the goal of what I do isn’t to NOT spend any money, the goal is to find a balance between spending wisely and being conscious of what I buy – where it comes from, and so on. Buying really cheap coffee means doing so at the expense of potential exploitation of farmers and/or workers, or the environment, or whatever else.

Anyway, same with food. For example, I made a whole pound of pasta the other day with an inventive sauce quickly put together using jarred pasta sauce and ground beef and basil and some other things. I think I’ve gotten five or six meals out of this. I’m not exactly sure of the math, because that’s not my strong point but I THINK it comes down to like… $3 a meal. I’m being generous, too (it’s hard when you think about the fact that some ingredients you use are leftovers from other meals, as the basil was). And again, as much as possible the food I buy is organic or locally grown or free range.

It’s not a perfect system, but I think the point of all of this is just to say that it’s not impossible or even very difficult to eat and live in an inexpensive but socially and environmentally conscious way.

5 Tips for Inexpensive, Socially Conscious Eating

1. Be aware of where the food you currently buy comes from – is it imported from overseas or across the country [think of gas & fuel used to get it to you], or does it come from local farmers?

2. Identify 2 – 3 quick, easy, and healthy recipes for food that stores well. The leftovers can be spread out throughout the week as lunches to take to work or quick dinners on busy nights.

3. Force yourself to take the time to cook at least once a week if you don’t already. It’ll save you money, but you might actually find that it can be really enjoyable.

4. Instead of going out with friends, have everybody chip in to make a meal together on a weekend night. Everyone can give money to split the cost, or people can be responsible for making different parts of the meal, or bringing alcohol. In the end it will be a lot cheaper than going out, and just as fun.

5. Whenever you can, make your own instead of buying it. That goes for coffee and lunches, but also consider cooking instead of buying pre-packaged meals, too.

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    The Courage to Confront Your Dream

    What is a personal calling? It is God’s blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. —The Alchemist

    Are You Aware of What You’re Doing?

    I’ve been thinking a lot about dreams lately (as if you hadn’t noticed). One of my most urgent ambitions/dreams is to live an entirely purposeful life. I see people around me everyday, sleepwalking through life, on autopilot. Alarm clock, shower, breakfast, commute, zombie work, commute, dinner, television, sleep. Repeat. Day in and day out. It breaks my heart. What hurts more are the moments (sometimes hours) when I catch myself falling into that terrible haze. Of course I snap myself out of it as soon as I realize it’s happening. The way that I snap out of it is simple enough: I ground myself. I literally take notice of my feet on the Earth, carpet, tile (wherever I am). I recognize my breathing. I acknowledge that I am a human being walking the Earth, beneath the sky, on a great big planet, floating in the Universe. It’s really important to do that, to ground yourself in reality at least once a day, probably more. If you don’t do it you will get caught up in the trivial — the fight with your spouse; the disappointment over your kid’s report card; the scratch on your new car; the ever-growing pile of papers on your desk; your unappreciative boss — you get the picture.

    Proactive vs. Reactive Living

    When you ground yourself, you pull yourself from the depths of the trivial, unimportant, little details that tend to take control. When you ground yourself, you become aware. The only problem with grounding yourself this way is that it is reactive rather than proactive. There is actually a much better way to avoid autopilot and that is proactivity. I am going to start talking a lot on this blog about reactive vs. proactive thoughts and actions. So let me take a moment to define what I mean by each of these terms.

    Reactive—Something happens and triggers you to take action.

    Example 1: You get on the scale one morning to realize that you’ve gained ten pounds. Your reaction is to begin a diet and start breaking your back in the gym until you lose the ten pounds.

    Example 2: Your marriage has been falling apart for the last two years. You fight with your spouse daily or more. You are both unhappy. You put everything before each other — work, friends, hobbies, etc. The marriage is your last priority. As a last resort you decide to attend marriage counseling.

    Proactive—You consciously prepare and act in ways that will produce certain desired outcomes in your life.

    Example 1: You are aware that you want to be physically healthy. You continually live a lifestyle that promotes health. You always take the stairs instead of the elevator. You run a mile each morning before work. You feed your body foods that it craves & needs and avoid “junk” whenever possible.

    Example 2: Your marriage is one of your top priorities. You make “alone” time and set dates with your spouse at least once a week. You plan vacations together to explore places you’ve never seen. You participate in each others favourite hobbies. You fight, as all healthy couples do, but you practice open communication and work through arguments before they become significant problems.

    If you analyze all of the actions and thoughts in your life, you will find that each one is either reactive or proactive. The goal is to make all of your thoughts and actions proactive. The problem with practicing reactive thinking or action, is that it is usually too late. And even when you do succeed, it is usually a short-lived success because reactive thoughts and actions do not treat the causes of problems; they only treat the symptoms.

    Let’s take the reactive approach to the extra ten pounds for example. You notice the excess weight, you starve yourself, you go to the gym religiously — within a few months, the pounds are gone. You feel great for a little while, but soon you go back to your old habits. A few months later and the pounds are creeping back on. On the other hand, if you had made a decision to begin taking a permanent proactive approach to maintaining your health, you would have achieved long-lasting, sustainable progress and results. These same principles would apply to the example of the troubled marriage and any other example that you could think of.

    Proactivity is a crucial element to a happy, fulfilling, successful life.

    Follow Your Legend, Confront Your Dream

    Now, I am going to tie this whole thing together and tell you how you can live a life of constant proactivity and sheer joy. Ready? Have another look at the opening lines to this post. What is a personal calling? It is God’s blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. (If you are not religious, replace the word God with the word Universe. What is a personal calling? It is the Universe’s blessing, it is the path that the Universe chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. To me, the words God & Universe mean the same, beautiful, powerful thing.)

    That’s it, my friends, if you want to live proactively, if you want to live the life of your dreams, all you have to do is confront your dreams and follow your legend.

    Ask yourself these questions: What fills me with enthusiasm? What is the one thing that I could wake up and do happily every single day for the rest of my life without even being paid? When you have the answer, then you have your personal calling. It is the path that is meant for you. When you do this thing, you will follow your legend and you will confront your dreams.

    Next month, it will be one year since I discovered my own personal calling. I will never forget the moment. It hit me like lightning — to help people by sharing my journey & the lessons I’ve learned along the way — so simple, but so amazing. That is what compelled me to start this blog eight months ago. That is what has kept me going ever since. And I know what you are thinking now: Dena, I can’t do it. You are making it sound so simple, but it’s not. I can’t afford to quit my job. I have a mortgage to pay. My mother is sick. I am not talented enough. I’m too old. It’s not practical. And the list of excuses will go on and on and on. Well, I am sorry, but none of your excuses are good enough! No matter how stuck you think you are — no matter how dire your circumstance might seem — there is a way out!

    Take it from me. I was depressed and anxious for the first half of my life. I spent much of that time wanting my life to end. I was seventy pounds overweight. I was $40,000 in debt. How much further down could I have gone? I could have used a lot of excuses to keep myself in that state; but I didn’t. I made a decision to change my life. I lost seventy pounds. I overcame anxiety and depression. I’ve cut my debt in half and continue to pay it down every day! I figured out my personal calling and I am doing it. I am following my legend, confronting my dreams. I am making it happen — and you can do it, too.

    Before you get started with your excuses again, I’d like you to imagine something. Imagine being born a young girl in Alabama in 1880. Imagine then growing up to understand French, German, Greek, and Latin. Imagine then going to Harvard, at a time when few women from your town did anything other than get married and raise kids. Imagine then writing a book that was translated into twenty-five languages and inspired two Oscar-winning movies. Imagine then meeting every President in your lifetime and being awarded the highest civilian honor—the Presidential Medal of Freedom. That would be some accomplishment, wouldn’t it? Now imagine doing all of that whilst being blind, deaf, and barely able to talk for your entire life.

    It’s not impossible, friends. In fact, it’s very possible and there is a woman who did all of that, her name was Helen Keller. She accomplished all of those things, and more, because she believed in herself and she had a good teacher. (Taken from How to Be Rich & Happy.)

    “Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It’s perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we’ve learned something from yesterday.” —John Wayne

    Every single day is a new opportunity for us to begin living the lives of our dreams. Today is called “the present” because it is a gift. Take it and do something with it!

    I would love to hear your thoughts about this post. What is your personal calling? What obstacles are standing in your way? How are you going to overcome them? What can I do to help you get there? Let me know in the comments.

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