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4 Incredibly Inspiring Female Bloggers

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Have you ever read something and then felt as though you were kicked in the stomach—but in a good way? I’m talking about something that picks you up, turns you over, and then shakes the life out of you—something that opens your eyes, permanently alters your perspective. You know what I mean, right?

I’ve been blogging for two and a half years and in this time I’ve met & started to follow some truly incredible people. Today I want to share four of my biggest inspirations with you. You know that feeling that I was talking about above? These ladies give me that feeling. If you’re not following them, you should be. These women are in possession of the three most important character traits: authenticity, generosity, & brilliance.

Andra Watkins
Blog: Andra Watkins

A favourite quote: “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” —Albert Einstein

Advice for creating a life of light: Creating a life of light, for me, is a set of decisions: to embrace the moments it throws my way, even if it means I’m acting with five-year-old glee; to shut down negative thinking as soon as it crosses my mind; to see the good in the past instead of things I regret; and to take risks to accomplish what matters to me.

I love her because: Andra and I met back in September when I was doing research for my trip to Paris. She was incredibly helpful & reassuring that I would have an amazing time. I thought our friendship might end there—as so many online friendships do—but I was very wrong. Andra kept in touch & became one of my very best virtual friends. I fell in love with her blog & with her. She is one of the most genuine, authentic people that I’ve ever met. She has been there for me through thick & thin. 2010 was a beautiful & trying year for me and Andra was there for support every step of the way.

The thing that I love about Andra’s blog is her ever-present positive outlook & her hilarious sense of humor. This woman has spunk! She is clearly a seasoned & legitimate professional, but she can make me laugh for days. Be sure to check out The Accidental Cootchie Mama & connect with Andra on Twitter.

My favourite Andra post: The Things You Taught Me in 2010


Jeannie Mark
Blog: Nomadic Chick

A favourite quote: “Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you’re a man, you take it.” —Malcolm X

Advice for creating a life of light: Taking action means delaying short-term pleasures (impulse purchases, expensive outings) for long-term goals. If you keep focused on your goals, they won’t run away. I recommend placing power in a talisman, a necklace or charm to keep you tethered to action. Even placing a meaningful picture as your screen wallpaper at work or on the fridge stops you from straying into inertia. My motivator was putting up images of the very first place on my itinerary – India. Dream up yours.

I love her because: In her late thirties, Jeannie was stuck in an unsatisfying desk job and courting a growing resentment towards the North American lifestyle. After swearing to change her life on a file folder, she sold her earthly possessions and set off in June 2010 to travel the world.

She just finished an incredible stint as a volunteer at an orphanage in India. I eagerly await all of her updates. Jeannie’s posts are eye-opening and liberating. I love her writing because she is so incredibly real. There is nothing fancy, poetic, or edited about her work. She tells it, and shows it, like it is. She is such an inspiration to would-be women travelers everywhere.

My favourite Jeannie post: The 7 Stages of Unplugging from the Cubicle


Gala Darling
Blog: Gala Darling

A favourite quote: “To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.” —Oscar Wilde

Advice for creating a life of light: Gala believes in pink lingerie, sequins, stardust & candy-coloured Cadillacs. She believes in making mischief & the triumph of magic over the brute. She believes in short skirts & lip gloss & bringing about the radical self love revolution. She believes life doesn’t have to be serious, that you create your own reality & that beauty is all around us.

I love her because: What’s not to love?! Gala’s blog is the first that I ever subscribed to way back when I first entered the blogosphere. I immediately fell in love with her ever-present positivity, energy, and spirit. Gala’s blog is about style & beauty, but it is also about living your best life. She has recently launched an insane & amazing Radical Self Love revolution which I can not get enough of. Gala is a bright pink firecracker of love, light, & pixie dust. If that sounds good to you, you’ll love her blog as much as I do.

My favourite Gala post: Radical Self-Hate? Stop The Madness!


Danielle LaPorte
Blog: White Hot Truth

A favourite quote: “Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don’t want.” —Abraham Hicks

Advice for creating a life of light: Genius is about making connections … between ideas + strategies, desires + beliefs, between that flame in your heart and your full potential.

I love her because: Danielle is the queen of authenticity. She is also devilishly good at crafting the written word. Her blog posts tend to burst through my computer screen, smack me around a bit, and then encourage me to make GREAT things happen.

My favourite Danielle post: the manifesto of encouragement

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    Letting Go of the Past: Forgiveness

    Last week, I finished listening to Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now. It had been on my “to-read” list for years, when by a stroke of fate a dear friend offered to lend me her audio copy. I plan to do a full review of the book in the coming weeks but for now I want to focus on one important element—forgiveness of the past.

    Recently I started thinking about the first twenty-five years of my life. In The Power of Now, we learn that to live in the future or the past is to suffer. The only way to exist in true harmony is to live in the now. After all, the past is not real, the future is not real. The past and the future only exist in our minds. The only thing that is truly and completely real, is the now.

    The challenge with this, however, is that until we can accept, understand, and move on from the conditioning of the past, we can not experience true freedom. And in order to truly accomplish this, we must experience true forgiveness of the past—forgiving others & ourselves completely.

    As I reflected upon these truths, I realized that I have been holding on to a tremendous amount of pain from my own personal history. There is so much past that continues to haunt me and impact me in the now. One of the greatest sources of pain revolves around my former lifestyle.

    I spent so much of my life caught up in a false sense of self. I spent incredible amounts of money on material possessions that I now perceive as worthless (clothes, jewelry, useless electronics, etc.) For some reason, I fell into the marketing. I bought it—all of it. (You can read more about my journey into financial prison and my subsequent journey out in previous posts.)

    But that’s not really the point, the point is that I ended up here. I can sit around and feel sorry for myself, angry that so much of my life was wasted, frustrated that I’ve only paid off a fraction (albeit a substantial fraction) of my debts so far; but if I did all of that where would it get me? It wouldn’t get me anywhere except maybe on a private jet to my own personal pity party. No thank you.

    Instead of wallowing, I am grateful. Grateful that I have come this far. Grateful that I’ have learned these lessons and changed the direction of my life by the age of 25 (soon-to-be 26). Grateful to be surrounded by a community of people that support me and believe in me. Grateful to have discovered my life’s true purpose and passion. Grateful to be doing what I love (even if only part of the time). Grateful to be safe, secure, healthy, strong, and beautiful.

    As I move through these emotions of gratitude for what I have now and what I am now, I find that the pain of my history slips away. I believe that I am finally on a path toward true forgiveness of the past. The reality is that it happened. I made mistakes, like all fallible human beings do. However, without making those mistakes, I may never have come to this place, to this now.

    The past grants us wisdom & grace. The memories that haunt us the most, are usually the memories that taught us the greatest lessons. Forgiveness will come from acceptance. So, the trick to true forgiveness is true acceptance. Once we can accept our past unconditionally, we can live fully in the now.

    I am making my way on this journey slowly. For most of my life, I focused almost entirely on the past—heart breaks, mistakes, errors in judgment, loss, failures, and so on—but that was a tragic mistake. What I now know is that the past is gone, the only thing that matters is now. And likewise, the future is a distant place that exists only in my mind. The only thing that matters is right now.

    Transforming the way that I think has been a challenging process, but I have come a tremendous distance already and I will keep on pushing forward, always.

    Now I ask you, reader, what pieces of your past are you holding on to? Are you willing to accept those pieces unconditionally so that you may truly forgive and live in harmony & light? Will you join me on this journey?

13 Comments

  1. Dena, first of all, thank you for your glowing commentary. I’m crying happy tears.

    Thank you also for introducing me to more uber-women to follow and get to know. I am honored to be included with this spectacular list of ladies.

    1. @ Andra – You are ever-so-welcome! I could not ask for a better friend & inspiration. Thank you for being exactly what you are: incredible. 🙂

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  7. Dena, I’m bowled over. Your glowing write-up of my site and person made me smile through the sick. 🙂 The #1 reason I started Nomadic Chick was to encourage people to take freedom and live their dreams whatever their dreams are. Thanks! And thanks for introducing me to some great female bloggers.

    1. @ Jeannie – I am so glad that you enjoyed the post and that the write-up made you smile. Every word is true. You are a true inspiration. I’ve been thinking of you non-stop. I hope that you are healing. XOXO

  8. Thank you for the websites and the wonderful kind words that you mentioned about each young lady. I will take a look at their blogs based of the words mentioned above.

  9. Thanks for sharing this information. i have also started a motivational blog last month. By the way, your blog looks awesome. keep posting such great stuff

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