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Paris: Day 4

The Seine River at night

I genuinely enjoyed each of the five days that I spent in Paris. The entire trip was like a dream come true—each day better than the next. It is difficult to choose a favourite day, but if I had to choose, I would pick day 4. It was so full of magick & wonder that I will forever remember it as one of the best days of my life.

On day 4, I woke up and called my friend Jass where he was staying in the dwarf house. We made plans to meet later in the day. I traveled by bus & metro to Montparnasse, had a quick lunch, and then explored the Catacombs of Paris. But I already wrote about that, so let’s start with meeting Jass.

Jass and I had been internet friends for awhile. He just-so-happened to be traveling from Northern Europe to the south of France for grape-picking. But this isn’t unusual for Jass because he is always traveling–at least for the past few years anyway. See Jass is what some people would call a vagabond. Although he doesn’t like that term. Instead, Jass describes what he does as — deeply confused, working the bloodclots out of existence, writing, exploding, meandering, squandering good fortune and drifting sometimes with purpose and sometimes without — which is really a much better description than mere vagabonding.

So when I finished exploring the catacombs I headed to Montparnasse Cemetery to meet Jass. I greeted him with my most genuine hug. Even at first sight, he is an obvious traveler of the world—bright red trousers and a hat with a feather like Robin Hood or Peter Pan. We wandered through the cemetery without a silent moment between us.

The cemetery is the final resting place to such legends as Charles Baudelaire, Simone de Beauvoir, Samuel Beckett, and Jean-Paul Sartre. We didn’t have much luck locating graves though, the cemetery guide was atrocious & didn’t make much sense. Still, we had the most lovely time strolling about.

Jass snapping a photo with a pinhole camera
Making friends...

I have no idea of how much time passed there, but eventually the groundskeeper signaled that the gates were going to be locked and we rushed for the exit.

We headed toward the Luxembourg Gardens. We arrived as the sun was setting. It was one of the most stunning visions I have taken in my lifetime.

Bee Boxes, Luxembourg Gardens

We parked our aching legs on a bench and conversed as though the end of the world was coming and we had to say it all. Eventually we departed and made our way toward Le Notre Dame. When we got there, the sun had set, but was still casting watercolors across the sky—golden, raspberry, and sea-green light. The sky was electric infused & the buildings & treetops loomed upward like spilt ink across the watercolor sky.

Breathtaking colours in the sky near Notre Dame

In the Notre Dame square, we listened to a man play bagpipes that sounded like a mystical, half Scottish & half Middle Eastern wood instrument. Then we saw fire-dancers spinning like fireflies through the night.

We walked across the Ile de Saint Louis bridge. All of the bridges over the Seine were lit up & glittering on the river like fairy-dust. There, the breath caught in my throat & my heart fluttered. In the distance we could see the Eiffel Tower lit up against the black, Parisian, night sky. Is this real? I wondered.

After wandering the edge of the Seine, we moved back toward Notre Dame in search of the vegetarian restaurant we’d discovered earlier. We had a lovely dinner and then headed for the metro. Jass was kind enough to accompany me all the way to Fontenay-sous-Bois as I am not comfortable traveling the streets alone after dark.

I arrived again at my host’s place for some light chatting and then quickly fell into a deep, deep sleep. My legs really hated me at this point. And that was the end of day 4.

Only one more day to go!

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    Is Your Resume a Hallmark Card?

    This is a guest post by David Pinkley, The Resume Sage.

    How do you describe yourself in your resume: team player?…quick learner?…detailed oriented? Do you really believe those self-proclaimed descriptions? Consider this: so does everyone else. That’s the problem. When it comes to describing ourselves we use the same words as everyone else. I know this because in 15 years working as a professional resume writer and executive recruiter I’ve seen nearly 40,000 resumes. Virtually all of them used works like: high energy, results oriented, uniquely qualified, detailed oriented, out-of-the-box thinker…and the list goes on. I call these Hallmark words.

    What is a Hallmark word? Example: You go to the store to buy a greeting card for your Sweetie whose birthday is approaching. You are overwhelmed because there are so many cards to choose from. You select your first one and it says something like: “May you experience all things bright and beautiful on your special day. Happy Birthday.” It’s a nice try but the message is contrived so we put the card back and pick another. The second one says: “Here’s a card just for you. You’ve always been tried and true. Happy Birthday.” Again, nice words but the message isn’t meaningful. (Who writes this stuff!?) You repeat this process numerous times until you find one with a message that resonates: “It just always felt right…and it always will. Happy Birthday.” Found it. You’re done.

    Hallmark words are words that look great on paper but don’t have any real meaning. It’s the same with resumes. Certain words look great on resumes but they are meaningless. If everyone says they’re a quick learner those words become diluted. (Whether it’s true or not is irrelevant.) Using Hallmark words on your resume will make it seem just as contrived as most greeting cards. The reader (i.e. hiring manager) won’t believe your message and will continue reading other resumes in search of one that resonates.

    The reality is we really don’t know how to describe ourselves. So we borrow words from other resumes and convince ourselves that these words really describe us. We don’t realize they have no meaning. Great resumes find authentic ways to communicate familiar themes. How do you do that?

    If you are really honest with yourself – you probably don’t know what you really do anyway. The only way to discover exactly what makes you unique is to look closely at your job. This takes introspection and self examination; a process most people dread because it seems like hard work – hence why most resumes are homogeneous. This is difficult to do for yourself. Self examination is much easier if you do it with someone else. But that’s another post.

    Blow the dust off your resume and take a look at the words you’ve used to describe yourself. Are they Hallmark words? If they are, you need to recognize that you are not saying anything unique. And no matter how true they are, they are not as meaningful or impactful as you think.

    Have questions? Contact David Pinkley at (704) 358-6000 or david@theresumesage.com. To learn more visit: www.TheResumeSage.com

    David Pinkley is the founder of The Resume Sage, a custom resume writing service. The Resume Sage critiques and writes resumes for accomplished professionals and executives. Those who work with The Resume Sage are purposeful about navigating their careers. They need more than just strong writing skills; they are seeking insights about how to differentiate themselves from their peers/competitors.

    David is a sought-after public speaker and has been featured on local news and NBC’s national news. He earned a B.S. degree from the University of Michigan and started his career in Chicago as a CPA at Ernst & Young and at Bank of America. He has lived and worked as an executive recruiter for 15 years in Charlotte, Raleigh, New York and Hong Kong.

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