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Paris: Day 4

The Seine River at night

I genuinely enjoyed each of the five days that I spent in Paris. The entire trip was like a dream come true—each day better than the next. It is difficult to choose a favourite day, but if I had to choose, I would pick day 4. It was so full of magick & wonder that I will forever remember it as one of the best days of my life.

On day 4, I woke up and called my friend Jass where he was staying in the dwarf house. We made plans to meet later in the day. I traveled by bus & metro to Montparnasse, had a quick lunch, and then explored the Catacombs of Paris. But I already wrote about that, so let’s start with meeting Jass.

Jass and I had been internet friends for awhile. He just-so-happened to be traveling from Northern Europe to the south of France for grape-picking. But this isn’t unusual for Jass because he is always traveling–at least for the past few years anyway. See Jass is what some people would call a vagabond. Although he doesn’t like that term. Instead, Jass describes what he does as — deeply confused, working the bloodclots out of existence, writing, exploding, meandering, squandering good fortune and drifting sometimes with purpose and sometimes without — which is really a much better description than mere vagabonding.

So when I finished exploring the catacombs I headed to Montparnasse Cemetery to meet Jass. I greeted him with my most genuine hug. Even at first sight, he is an obvious traveler of the world—bright red trousers and a hat with a feather like Robin Hood or Peter Pan. We wandered through the cemetery without a silent moment between us.

The cemetery is the final resting place to such legends as Charles Baudelaire, Simone de Beauvoir, Samuel Beckett, and Jean-Paul Sartre. We didn’t have much luck locating graves though, the cemetery guide was atrocious & didn’t make much sense. Still, we had the most lovely time strolling about.

Jass snapping a photo with a pinhole camera
Making friends...

I have no idea of how much time passed there, but eventually the groundskeeper signaled that the gates were going to be locked and we rushed for the exit.

We headed toward the Luxembourg Gardens. We arrived as the sun was setting. It was one of the most stunning visions I have taken in my lifetime.

Bee Boxes, Luxembourg Gardens

We parked our aching legs on a bench and conversed as though the end of the world was coming and we had to say it all. Eventually we departed and made our way toward Le Notre Dame. When we got there, the sun had set, but was still casting watercolors across the sky—golden, raspberry, and sea-green light. The sky was electric infused & the buildings & treetops loomed upward like spilt ink across the watercolor sky.

Breathtaking colours in the sky near Notre Dame

In the Notre Dame square, we listened to a man play bagpipes that sounded like a mystical, half Scottish & half Middle Eastern wood instrument. Then we saw fire-dancers spinning like fireflies through the night.

We walked across the Ile de Saint Louis bridge. All of the bridges over the Seine were lit up & glittering on the river like fairy-dust. There, the breath caught in my throat & my heart fluttered. In the distance we could see the Eiffel Tower lit up against the black, Parisian, night sky. Is this real? I wondered.

After wandering the edge of the Seine, we moved back toward Notre Dame in search of the vegetarian restaurant we’d discovered earlier. We had a lovely dinner and then headed for the metro. Jass was kind enough to accompany me all the way to Fontenay-sous-Bois as I am not comfortable traveling the streets alone after dark.

I arrived again at my host’s place for some light chatting and then quickly fell into a deep, deep sleep. My legs really hated me at this point. And that was the end of day 4.

Only one more day to go!

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    Let Go of Your Goals & Unleash Your Dreams

    Dreams are Just as Important as Goals

    I’ve written quite a bit about setting & accomplishing goals; overcoming fears; and making the best out of difficult situations. But what I haven’t written enough about is flat out—unleashing your dreams.

    Goal setting is a very mathematical process. It goes something like this: Define your goal. Map out the steps necessary to achieve it. Research, develop, act. Work until you get there. This is great, it makes sense, it gets things done. However, goals are full of limitations. In order to accomplish Z, first I need to do X and Y. If I want to be in this place by this date, then I’ve got to accomplish X, Y, and Z by this date. And so on and so forth it goes. We plan and work and strive.

    Yes, goal-setting & goal accomplishment are crucial elements to success; but sometimes we have to just let go of our goals and start unleashing our dreams! Throw caution to the wind and go for it. But how?, you ask. Well, you start by defining your dreams & broadcasting them to the world. Today I am going to define my wildest dreams & share them with you.

    “Achieving life is not the equivalent of avoiding death.” –Ayn Rand

    Why Are We Afraid to Expose Our Dreams?

    To be honest, I am a bit nervous about this. I feel like I am exposing a part of myself that I’ve kept hidden. When you keep your wildest dreams to yourself, you’re safe. If no one knows what you want, then no one can hold you accountable. For example, if your best friend has no idea that you dream of moving to Costa Rica to collect butterflies in the rain forest—then she isn’t going to check in with you once a month and ask where you’re at. If you’re father doesn’t know that you dream of quitting your job to build collectible trains and sell them on Ebay—then he isn’t going to be hounding you with questions about it at the holidays. And when you are not faced with those questions you are safe. Your dreams can stay on the back burner while your life passes you by. You are not held accountable. You don’t experience pressure. But, my friend, today is the day that you must realize something critical: It is pressure that makes diamonds!

    Broadcast Your Desires to the Universe

    Steve Pavlina recently wrote a post called Broadcast Your Desires. In the post, he explains why broadcasting our desires & dreams to the world is the best way to make them a reality. If you can’t broadcast your desires, it’s fair to say that you don’t own them yet. In order to make your desires become real, you’ve got to speak up about them. If you’re going to receive them, then let it be known. If you find it necessary to hide what you desire, that suggests you aren’t ready to receive.

    Well, I am ready to receive! I hope that by taking this step in my own life, I will inspire you to take it in your own. Here I go…!

    My Dreams

    1. Grow evolution you
    I want to take this blog to great heights, attract thousands of readers, inspire people around the world. I want to monetize it so that I can devote myself to improving people’s lives full-time. And as a result, I want to become location independent so that I can travel the world, spreading love & light where ever I go.

    2. Write a book
    I haven’t quite worked out the details of this one yet—it’s a bit ever-evolving. I’ll pin it down soon enough, for now I am just dreaming wildly!

    3. Travel to the Great Pyramids in Egypt
    I feel intimately connected to the people of ancient Egypt. Perhaps it is the beautiful & mysterious way that Ancient Egypt is depicted in films & literature, whatever the cause, the very idea of it thrills me. I have long dreamed of visiting & exploring the ancient pyramids for myself.

    4. Learn to speak French

    5. Spend time living & working in Europe
    Italy, France, and Belgium all seem such lovely places to me. I’d like to spend at least a few months in each place.

    6. Safari in Africa
    This is the only dream on the list that I already accomplished. In the Summer of 2006 I studied abroad in Kenya, studying, on safari, and touring. It was a truly incredible experience and I’ll be making a post about it soon.

    7. Live in the wilderness
    I am insanely attracted to nature. In fact, I am quite convinced that I am a tigress/she-wolf/mermaid trapped in the body of a human woman. I feel most at home in nature—in the mountains, near the sea, anywhere wild. I’ve long dreamed of escaping the civilization circa Into the Wild. It would certainly not be a permanent thing; but I’d love to experience it at least for a few weeks to see how long I’d last.

    8. Have or adopt a baby
    Last February my sister gave birth to me beautiful Godson, Brian. Ever since then, I’ve heard the ticking of my own biological clock a tad louder than before. I am not in any rush, as you can see I’ve got a lot I want to do before I am quite ready to “settle down” but it is definitely an enormous dream of mine, some day.

    9. Spend time on a Native American reservation
    I’d like to spend some time living or at least working/volunteering on a reservation. I am passionate about Native American culture and it would be a great honor to serve the Native American people in some capacity and to learn first-hand their cultures, traditions, and needs.

    10. Serve on the Board of Directors for a prominent wildlife conservation foundation

    11. Visit a Buddhist monastery in Tibet

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    These are not all of my dreams, not nearly, but the list could go on and on. For now, these are the ones that I am working toward—in the near & distant—future. It was not nearly as difficult to share them as I thought it would be! This list will be ever-evolving and I will update it as my dreams are accomplished and as they change.

    Alright, I did my part. Now it’s your turn! I would love to hear about your big dreams in the comments or if you make your own big dream post please let me know about it.

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