10 Tips for an Awesome Interview

A few interesting facts about me. By the time I was twenty-two, I’d had twenty different jobs. I’ve never been fired from a job. I’ve received a raise or a promotion at every job I’ve ever had. And, finally, I have received a job offer after every single interview that I’ve ever been on.

It could be luck (even though I don’t believe in luck). It could be charm. In fact, it’s probably a little bit of both, but it’s also definitely something else: Preparation.

Even if you are not especially charming. Heck, even if you are the shyest person on the planet, there are ways to make sure that you will shine during your next interview. Here are my tips—from common sense to magic techniques!


1. Be early. Vince Lombardi said that five minutes early is ten minutes late. And when it comes to interviews, this is the golden rule. This seems pretty basic, but it’s critical. Running late for an interview is not only foolish, it’s disrespectful.

Expert Tip: Plan to be at your destination a half an hour before your scheduled interview time. That gives you a buffer in case there’s traffic.

2. Research. Find out as much about the company and the interviewer as you possibly can. Read the company’s website and look for its Mission and/or Vision Statement. Mention a key takeaway during the interview. “I noticed that Company X is really focused on ethics. I actually did my dissertation on Employee Ethics within Small Businesses. I would love to learn more about Company X’s approach to ethics within the industry.”

Expert Tip: Do a Google search for the person who is interviewing you. You might find a brief bio. Look for common ground and bring it up during the interview. “Thank you so much for having me today. By the way, I noticed that you went to Texas A & M. My brother is an alumni there, too. Go Aggies!”

3. Bring questions. The format for interviews generally runs like clock work. The interviewer gives a brief spiel about the company, then goes into detail about the position, then asks the candidate some questions, and finally announces: “Alright, well that’s about all I’ve got. Do you have any questions for me?”

Now it’s great if you’ve thought up a few questions during the interview, but it’s still smart to come prepared with a few generic questions in case you draw a blank. Do a Google search for “good interview questions” and you’ll find tons of great options. Don’t forget to write them down. Even the simplest things can slip your mind in a high-pressure situation like an interview.

4. Prepare to answer questions. After you’ve picked out the “good interview questions” that you want to ask, take some time to answer them as well. Write down your answers and bring them with you and also practice saying them out loud.

5. Prepare for the curve ball. This is my favourite of the tips because it was so much fun to execute back when I was conducting interviews. Most people prepare for all of the standard interview questions — “What is your greatest strength/weakness? What will you bring to our team? Tell me about your work history, etc.” — but few people prepare for a real curve ball, a question so unexpected that it really catches you off guard.

My curve ball questions varied, but a favourite was, “Do you believe in intelligent life on other planets?” Now mind you, this had absolutely nothing to do with the job at hand, but it’s a great way to get a feel for a person’s true self.

If you get thrown a curve ball, the best thing you can do is remain absolutely calm. You can smile at the jest of it, but answer the question. I found that some candidates would get so nervous, refuse to answer the question, shrug their shoulders and say, “I just don’t know.” That really turned me off to a candidate. I wanted to hear something, anything really. I wanted to see that the candidate could “act on his feet.”

Expert Tip: When thrown a curve ball, remain calm and give an answer. One candidate enthusiastically responded to my intelligent life question with, “I’m on the fence about life on other planets, but I loved the movie E.T.!” I loved her answer… and she got the job.

6. Posture. From the moment you come into the room to the moment that you exit, your posture must be excellent—even when you are sitting down. Poor posture (like slouched shoulders and a low-hanging head) are perceived as signs of weakness, laziness, and a lack of confidence. Keep your shoulders pulled back and keep your chin held high.  You will give the illusion of confidence and capability.

7. Sitting and seat placement. There are two things to remember when it comes to the seat. First, when you enter the interview room, you should always reach out to the interviewer for a handshake while introducing yourself. Then, you should wait to be invited to sit. The interviewer will motion you toward the appropriate seat. Sitting before you are invited can be interpreted as rude.

Once you are seated, ensure that your body and your legs are facing the interviewer but allow for your legs to angle away slightly, no more than a couple of inches. This gives the appearance of being open and connected; but not intimidating or arrogant. Keep both feet flat on the ground. Avoid crossing your legs which can make you appear closed off. And finally, do not tap your foot or bounce up and down in your seat. Fidgeting makes you appear uninterested and easily distracted.

8. Eye contact. Eyes are the windows to the soul. During an interview, your eye contact will play an important role in establishing your connection with the interviewer. Hold eye contact while answering questions, especially difficult ones. It is alright to look away for a moment while thinking or to glance down at your paperwork; but do not avoid eye contact. Avoiding eye contact or shifting your eyes away from your interviewer frequently can be perceived as shady behavior.

Expert tip: People often wonder what amount of eye contact is the right amount of eye contact. The best way to decide how much eye contact to use, is to follow the lead of your interviewer. There is no magic number, but the key is to follow the leader. If the interviewer seems to enjoy eye contact (is open, friendly, smiling) then use as much eye contact as she does. However, if the interviewer seems more reserved or even shy, and keeps her gaze away from you, use much less eye contact.

9. Mimicry. Like making eye contact, you should also follow the lead of your interviewer while speaking. If the interviewer is loud and outgoing, then you should be a bit louder and more outgoing, too. Not louder than her, but not shy or soft-spoken either. Likewise, if the interviewer is quiet and reserved, you should be a bit quiet and reserved, too.

It is proven that human beings like people like themselves. The more that you can mimic your interviewer, the better your chances are that she will like you. Of course, you want to be yourself, too, but being likable often means using some imitation.

10. Hands on table. During your interview, the best place to keep your hands is on the table in front of you. Do not twiddle thumbs, tap, flip your pen, or put your hands in your pocket. Simply keep them on the table casually. Pick up your pen occasionally to take notes or write down questions.

Keeping your hands on the table conveys confidence, openness, attentiveness, and professionalism.


Bonus Tip: Visualization. My final tip is my number one piece of advice for preparing for an interview. It is to practice visualization. Visualization is simply the act of imagining. The night before your interview, eliminate all distractions and spend five minutes visualizing. Close your eyes, steady your breathing, and imagine the interview room. Imagine walking in, introducing yourself, shaking your interviewer’s hand, and sitting down. Imagine how great you look. Imagine how confident you feel. Imagine answering the interviewer’s questions with eloquence and ease. Imagine your ideal interview experience.

Taking the time to visualize your perfect interview will truly prepare you to put your best self forward. Take a few minutes to visualize the scenario again on your way to the interview. By the time you get to the actual interview, you will be super-prepared. If you feel yourself getting nervous during your interview, close your eyes, take a breath, and remember your visualization. You will feel relaxed and collected again.


Now it’s your turn! Give me your best interview advice in the comments. And, if you’ve got an interview lined up, best of luck. Let me know how it goes. 🙂

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    Review: Tribes by Seth Godin

    On a recent flight, I began reading Seth Godin’s Tribes. On the return flight, I finished it. It was my introduction to Seth Godin—no idea why I hadn’t found him sooner!—and what an introduction it was. The book blew me away. It is the best book on leadership and change management that I’ve ever read. While the content is sure to inspire change of the greatest sort within any organization—from business to church, non-profit to learning institution—it is also of incredible value to individuals.

    In this post I want to share some of my favourite pieces from Tribes as well as some of my own insights.

    Whether you want to create positive change in the world, in the workplace, or simply in your own, I recommend that you read the book for yourself. It is a relatively easy read, spliced up into short, digestible chapters. I got through it in a few hours. But it is absolutely packed with revolutionary ideas, suggestions, and real-life examples of people making a difference and leading tribes in today’s world.

    Many people are starting to realize that they work a lot and that working on stuff they believe in (and making things happen) is much more satisfying then just getting a paycheck and waiting to get fired (or die).

    I’ve begun to think of my generation as the Fight Club generation. Tyler Durden said it best, “We’ve all been raised on television to believe that one day we’d all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won’t. And we’re slowly learning that fact. And we’re very, very pissed off.” I think Tyler and Seth’s sentiments are one and the same. Our parents (or maybe you) were raised to believe that you needed to grow up, go to school, get a job, and stay there. Work hard, save money, vacation once a year, and retire as soon as possible.

    Well, the Fight Club generation doesn’t want to hear that nonsense. We want gratification now. We don’t want to spend 40 hours a week miserable just so that we can collect a paycheck twice a month. We don’t want to spend half a lifetime at a job that we hate just so we can get fired or die one day! We believe that we can be happy now. We can pursue our passions, make a difference in the world, live out our dreams, and be successful all at once. And… we are right. We can do it. There are people doing it every single day. I love Tribes because it tells the stories of those people and more importantly, how they got there and how we can do it, too.

    Somewhere along the way, perhaps when twenty thousand Ford workers lost their jobs in one day, or when it became clear that soft drink companies were losing all their growth to upstarts, the factory advantage began to fade.

    The reason why the “school-job-suffer-retire” model worked for so long was because it was safe, it was comfortable. Human beings like to feel safe. It feels good to know that you will get a check once every couple weeks. It feels safe to know that you can walk into the office every morning and the lights will turn on and the computer will turn on. The peace of mind in trading your hours for dollars seems worth it when you have to put food on a table and a roof over someone’s head. But, guess what, that model isn’t really proving to be so safe after all.

    The recent tanking of the economy has really shaken things up. People are losing their jobs at rapid rates, unemployment is way up. Ethics have been violated, corruption runs rampant, and people don’t feel safe anymore. We want to take matters into our own hands. We want to create the lives of our dreams and be completely independent. We are doing it every day.

    In unstable times, growth comes from leaders who create change and engage their organizations, instead of from mangers who push their employees to do more for less.

    Now, more than ever, each of us has an opportunity obligation to become a leader, to create change, and to make a positive difference. The ever-evolving world of social media and the Web—Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Wikipedia, Google—give us instant access to an unthinkable quantity of information and resources. When we learn how to leverage those resources we can become unstoppable. When we teach others to leverage those resources our tribes can become unstoppable. It is a great time to be a leader, and it is also the right time.

    Leadership is scarce because few people are willing to go through the discomfort required to lead. This scarcity makes leadership valuable. It’s uncomfortable to propose an idea that might fail. If you’re not uncomfortable in your work as a leader, it’s almost certain you’re not reaching your potential as a leader.

    Change = pain. If there is anything that I have learned over the past three years, it is this. Human beings are creatures of habit. When asked why things are done a certain way, most people will always respond the same way: “Because that’s the way we’ve always done it.” It is safe, it is comfortable. Our profits may be plummeting, our staff may be miserable, our customers may be disgusted—but this is the way we’ve always done it! Don’t try to mess with our traditions! Right? Wrong!

    Success takes dedication, hard work, persistence, and change. Dedication, hard work, and persistence can be painful. Some people are cut out for it and some people aren’t. The people that are, are the leaders. Being a leader is not comfortable and it’s not supposed to be. Being a leader takes character.

    Believe it or not, anyone can do it. “No one is born charismatic. It’s a choice, not a gift” (Tribes).

    Change almost never fails because it’s too early. It almost always fails because it’s too late.

    The time for change is now, my friends. If not now, when? There has never been a time where the need for positive change was more urgent. If you do not realize that this moment is all you have, then you do not have anything. This is it. After this moment, nothing is promised—not tomorrow, not next week, not your 81st birthday. You have this moment and you alone get to decide what you do with it. Yes, you can surf Facebook for a few more hours and stalk out your ex-boyfriend’s life for awhile more. You can also sit on the couch with a six-pack and watch The Jersey Shore marathon on MTV. …But if you asked me, I’d tell you that you’ve got more important things to do. Whether you’ve been waiting to pitch a great idea to your boss, waiting to take a proactive approach to your health, or waiting to embark on that 6 month “vagablogging” journey; stop waiting!

    There is really nothing in your way. There are no problems and no obstacles. Any anxiety that you might have stems from your past or your future; but your past and your future are not real! The only thing that is real is this moment, right now. The past and the future are in your head. No matter what you think is standing in your way, you can find a way around it. If you can’t get on the next flight to Melbourne (to start your career as a kangaroo-catcher) then sit down and figure out how you are going to make it happen. Right now.

    I’m frequently asked about getting credit. People want to know how to be sure they get credit for an idea, especially when they have a boss who wants to steal it. Or they want to know how to be sure to give me credit for an idea in a book or a blog post of their own.

    Real leaders don’t care.

    If it’s about your mission, about spreading faith, about seeing something happen, not only do you not care about credit, you actually want other people to take credit.

    There’s no record of Martin Luther King, Jr., or Gandhi whining about credit. Credit isn’t the point. Change is.

    Stop worrying about the obstacles and start taking action. Stop worrying about who is going to get credit and start making a difference.

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    What I loved most about Tribes is that it left me feeling like anything and everything is possible. The book is full of stories about ordinary people who did (and do) extraordinary things every single day. These people don’t let fear stop them. They become leaders and they create & inspire change. Every person is capable of this. You are capable of this! What do you want to do? Are you ready to become a leader? I say yes. Yes you are!

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