5 Tips for More Energy

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5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

The last seven months of my life have been incredibly transformational. It all started a year ago, when I restarted my yoga practice in February of 2018. For me, yoga is a game-changer. It provides me with a completely different way of life–wellness physically, mentally, and spiritually. It is something that I had been longing for, for so long, especially since becoming a mother and facing major upheaval in my life post-motherhood, including moving houses three times, a divorce, and so on.

Even after I began my love affair with yoga, there has been a lot of trial & error as I’ve struggled to find a balance between work life, mom life, and yogi life. I’ve often found myself praying for just a little more time in the day, or at the very least just a little more energy. It seems that both of these things are in short supply for for many of us. With all of that said, I have found a handful of things that have been super helpful in giving me more energy. I am excited to share them with you today.

Sleep — Let’s start with the most basic component of energy, sleep. Every person is different when it comes to how much sleep they need to function optimally. This is a matter of biology. My father is an example of a person who does not need much sleep. He functions best with 4-5 hours of sleep per night, and if he gets more than that, then he feels tired. It’s mind-boggling to me and I am forever disappointed that I didn’t get that gene! Disappointing though it may be, I am like my mother and I function optimally with 8 hours of sleep each night.

Unfortunately, for those of us who function best on 8 hours of sleep, that can be difficult to attain. There are a lot of factors that are outside of our control, such as what time we need to get up in the morning for work/school or whether our children sleep through the night or not. As much as we’d love to have more control over those things, we don’t. So what we need to do is to change what is within our control as needed. In terms of sleep, the main thing that we can control is when we put ourselves to bed.

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

For me, it’s rare that I sleep later than 6 am. Therefore, in order for me to get 8 hours of sleep, I must fall asleep by 10 pm. Knowing that it takes me a solid half hour to wind down and fall asleep, that means I need to be in bed by 9:30 pm. Now a lot of people will say that getting to bed at 9:30 pm is impossible and I get that, I really do. I used to feel that way too. But eventually I realized that, ultimately, it’s a matter of prioritization.

I have had to make a lot of major adjustments to make it happen. Dinner happens earlier, bedtime routines begin earlier, chores are finished earlier (or pushed to the morning), and so on. It isn’t easy, and it sure doesn’t happen every night, but for me, the effort is worth it.

It all comes down to self-care. If I make my sleep a priority, I am making my wellness a priority. I am setting myself up to be the best version of myself and therefore the best possible mother to my children, the best creator for my audience, and so on. You cannot pour from an empty vessel. How you prioritize your life and your time is up to you alone, and perhaps, it is one of the most important choices that we make each day.

Hydration/Diet — After sleep, diet and hydration are the next biggest factors for me in terms of my energy levels.. Again, optimal nutrition varies from person to person, depending on lifestyle and many other factors, but there are some basics that apply across the board.

First of all, it is critical that you stay hydrated. Dehydration not only leads to exhaustion and illness, but it also leads to overeating and lethargy. I aim to drink a minimum of 2 liters of water a day. I always have a large reusable water bottle with me wherever I go. Having the water nearby to sip throughout the day makes it that much easier to stay hydrated. Another critical piece of advice in terms of hydration and energy is avoiding alcohol. Alcohol is so detrimental in terms of health because it dehydrates you, it decreases your quality of sleep, and so much more.

In terms of eating, the best course of action is to eat small, healthy meals throughout the day. Fresh fruit, vegetables, and other real whole foods are where it’s at. Do not eat by the clock! Eat when your body tells you that it needs fuel. Most days I practice intermittent daily fasting, wherein I do not eat from 7 pm each night until about 12 noon the next day. I highly recommend looking into it as an option for yourself if you are seeking increased wellness.

Exercise — I’ve talked a lot about yoga in this post, but I realize that yoga isn’t for everyone. When it comes to exercise, I think the most important thing is that you find something that you love. For years, I forced myself to exercise in ways that I hated, namely cardio and weightlifting. It was such a nightmare. I dreaded going to the gym and I loathed the time spent doing those things. It was so foolish and it led to me wasting money on gym memberships that I hardly used and eventually giving up altogether more times than I can count.

Now, I go to yoga class between 2-3 times a week (I want to work up to 4-5 soon!) and I am in the best shape of my life. I also walk or hike outdoors several miles a day when the weather is good. I absolutely love yoga and walking. These things bring me joy and wellness–the best combination. Best of all, of course, is the increase in energy that comes with exercise.

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

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5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

Superfoods — I try to include superfoods in my family’s diet at least a couple of times a week. I am always looking to add things like chia seeds, raw cacao, and acai berries to our smoothies, salads, muffins and cereal to give us that little extra boost to keep us going strong through our days.

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I hope that this post has been helpful to you, friends. These are some of my favorite tips and I thank you for allowing me to share them with you. If you have your own tips for optimizing energy, I would love to hear them!

Wishing you wellness and joy, now and always.

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    Tired of Conflict Bringing You Down?

    Dealing With Conflict

    Conflict takes many forms—misunderstanding, frustration, ignorance, hatred, envy, and so on—but despite the cause, the result is largely the same: someone walks away with hurt feelings.

    The truth is, however, that this is not necessary. You can choose to be unaffected by conflict. It is not an easy thing to accomplish. You have, after all, lived your life believing that conflict equals pain. But with practice & patience you can learn to live above conflict in a place of true peace.

    “True peace can not be disturbed by gain or loss.”

    The reason that conflict hurts us is because we allow it to. Most pain comes from another person(s) or from our own minds. The key to being unaffected by conflict is to understand that anything that another person says to us (out of anger, frustration, etc.) is actually a reflection of her feelings about herself and is rooted in fear. Likewise, anything that our mind says to us (self-criticism, self-hatred, etc.) is also rooted in fear. All forms of discomfort—sadness, anxiety, worry, rage, hatred, envy, and so on—are rooted in fear.

    When you accept that angry words are actually reflections of fear, it makes them much less painful to tolerate. Even the angriest and most cruel of arguments is based in fear & insecurity.

    For example, you have a large project due at work. You bring it into your boss’s office an hour prior to the deadline. She notices that it is riddled with errors. Her face turns red and she begins to scream. “You idiot! How could you be so stupid? This is unacceptable. I can not believe I ever hired you. Get out!”

    On one hand, you are devastated. Her words have stung you at your core. You are insulted, sad, angry, afraid. But if you really stop to analyze the situation, why do you think she acted this way? Most likely, she is afraid. Most likely, she is terrified about the way that your “failure” is going to reflect on her. After all, wasn’t it her who hired you, gave you this assignment, failed to give you proper instruction, and so on? What will her boss think when she turns this project into him? Her explosion was based in fear.

    Another example, it is Saturday afternoon and you are sitting on the couch. Your husband comes in the door and notices that you have not swept the floors. He begins to speak angrily, “Haven’t you swept the floors? Didn’t you see this dirt? You’ve been so lazy recently.” You are crushed and devastated. How could he be so mean? But then again, you stop and analyze. The lawn is not mowed, the gutters are uncleaned, there are piles of crap strewn about the yard. Your husband is insecure about all of his unfinished chores and is projecting his self-frustration onto you. His remarks were based in fear and insecurity.

    If you take the time to truly analyze, you will find that almost every conflict is rooted in fear. Therefore, the vast majority of hurtful things that are ever said to you actually have absolutely nothing to do with you. This is an incredibly liberating concept (not to be confused with the rare scenario when you are actually wrong by the way). Still, just because the other person’s (or even your own self-inflicted) anger is based in fear, that still doesn’t make it right. Yes, perhaps both your boss and your husband were entirely out of line. It is alright for you to tell them so, but what is more important is the way that you process the conflict within yourself.

    Most people internalize the conflict. In any case, you take what was said and push it deep within yourself. Perhaps you believe the other person words. “Yes, I am lazy, stupid, ugly, etc.” The conflict turns into emotional pain and festers within you eventually becoming depression, anxiety, and so on. But as I mentioned at the start, none of that is necessary.

    You must accept the conflict (words) for what they are—someone else’s (or even your own mind’s) fears and insecurities. Fear is nothing to be afraid of or affected by. Most fear is completely unnecessary (read more about that).

    After the conflict, words, and judgments have passed, simply allow all of it to pass through and around you like water or air. Understand that it is something outside of you, that has nothing to do with you at all. It is not inside of you, it did not come from you, and you do not have to absorb it. Simply let it pass and then move on.

    Holding onto the pain of conflict is insane and unnatural. What do the birds do after the great storm has passed? They sing, of course! You will never hear the birds singing so sweetly and so loudly as they do after the storm has passed and the sun shines again. They do not mourn the broken nest, the wet feathers, or the lost supper. They simply sing and praise the light in gratitude. They rejoice that the sun has come again.

    In his book, The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment, Eckhart Tolle talks about his observation of duck fights. Two ducks approach one another. They squawk in anger for mere seconds. Then they turn away from one another, flap their great wings a few times, and swim on as if it never happened. This is true wisdom, true peace, in action. There is so much that we can learn from this simple observation.

    There is really no need to hold onto anger or discomfort. There is really no need to suffer. In life, you will find many reason to suffer. But a good reason to suffer, you will never find. Let conflicts pass through and around you. Do not hold onto them. You will almost always find that it never has anything to do with you anyway.

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