· · ·

Minimalism: Get Rid of Clutter, Get Rid of Stress

Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful. —William Morris

I’ve been pursuing a minimalist lifestyle for well over a year now. I’ve had great success in some areas, and massive failure in others.

This past January, I moved into an apartment for a few months while Matthew did some construction. This was an eye-opening experience in terms of my minimalist progress (and lack thereof). The moving process required me to pick up everything I own and transport it from Point A to Point B. There isn’t a better way to take stock of your worldly possessions. Especially when you’re carrying it uphill. 😉 (I was adamant about moving my things myself.)

My takeaways:

I still have too many/too much:

  • clothing
  • cosmetics/make-up
  • beauty items (perfume, lotion, etc.)
  • jewelry
  • books
  • DVDs
  • pens/markers/highlighters

I’ve done a great job of paring down/getting rid of:

  • old notebooks
  • letters/notes
  • photographs
  • cards
  • trinkets & decorations
  • shoes
  • kitchen/cooking tools

I plan to make progress with the “still have too much” list this summer.

A Dumpster on Wheels
The moving process caused me one major headache that I didn’t anticipate. My Jeep became a nightmare. I literally did not clean it from January until June. The outside was gross from months of dirty snow & road salt accumulation. The inside looked like a second, filthy home. There was so much crap in there and I just kept adding to it. Empty bottles, empty bags, sweatshirts, boots, shoes, napkins, books, hats, gloves, garbage. It looked like a dumpster.

While the move added to it, the real problem was me. I simply didn’t take the time to do what needed to be done. And that’s really what minimalism and decluttering is all about it: simply doing what needs to be done.

I can’t quantify the negative impact that having a dirty car had on my health & spirit over the course of six months. Every time I got in my car, I felt stressed. There were countless times when I was mortified for people to even take a peek inside of it. 🙁 All of this unnecessary emotional pain because I was simply too lazy/unaware to take an hour to clean!

No sense dwelling on the past, but I’ve learned my lesson. A couple of weeks ago I emptied out the contents and then took her to the car wash for a thorough scrub down. Afterward, I immediately felt a tremendous weight lift from my shoulders. I am not exaggerating when I say that I could actually breathe easier. Now, getting into my car every day is a joy. And I have been vigilant to ensure it stays this way.

It’s a simple matter of being aware. When you bring something in, bring it back out. Don’t leave anything behind and there will be no clutter. It’s truly that easy.

Simple Ways to Battle Clutter
These tips will work at home, in the office, in your car, and so on.

  1. Designated space. Make sure that every single thing that you own has a designated space.
  2. Keep it there. Keep every single thing that you own in its designated space.
  3. Put it back. When you finish using something, put it back in its designated space.
  4. Quarterly sweep. Do a quarterly sleep of unused possessions. Get rid of what you don’t use. As a rule of thumb, if you haven’t used it for three months, it needs to go.
  5. Three piles method. Use three piles to sort everything out. a. Keep, b. Sell/Donate, and c. Trash. After you’ve sorted, trash or recycle the items in the Trash pile immediately. Then reevaluate the Keep and Sell/Donate piles. Are there any items in the Keep pile that you really should donate or sell? If so, move them to the appropriate pile.

These tips may sound basic, but if you implement them, you will never have to worry about clutter again.

~

Alright, now it’s your turn. Have you ever let your car/closet/kitchen get to such a point? Or am I alone in my shame? 😕

you may also like

  • · · ·

    3 Super Simple Ways to Reduce Stress, Improve Health, & Live Happy

    Want to know how you can cut your stress in half?

    How about if there were two things you could change that would drastically alter your stress levels for the rest of your life?

    Now I bet you really want to know, right?

    What if I told you that doing these simple things will not only decrease your stress levels, but will also make you happier and decrease your risk of heart attack, ulcers, & high blood pressure?

    Ready for this? Four words: Stop Rushing, Take Vacation.

    Yes, that’s it. It’s really quite simple, but the results that you will see if you make these changes will amaze you.

    The Problems
    So why is rushing & a lack of vacation such a huge problem? Well, rushing every now and then wouldn’t really be such a problem. But in today’s society, the reality is that we don’t just rush every now and then. We rush all of the time.

    We are constantly hurrying from one thing to the next, multitasking, with our minds in five different places at once. We browse the Web in multiple Windows. We watch television while surfing the Web. We talk on our house phones while texting on our cell phones/iPhones/Blackberrys. While we’re driving to work, we’re planning our days, who we’ll see at each meeting, and what we’re having for dinner. While we’re eating dinner, we’re checking our email, responding to emails, and thinking about what’s on TV that night. While we’re watching TV that night, we’re thinking about everything we’ve got to do tomorrow. You get the picture…

    The Facts
    The United States is one of (if not the) most stressful, fast-paced, uptight societies in existence. The “American way” of rush, rush, rush has huge negative implications. And sadly, the rest of the world is beginning to follow suit. It’s not a good path to be on.

    Here are some statistics about minimum vacation days around the world:

    Austria — 35 days
    Brazil — 30 days
    Finland — 35 days
    Sweden — 32 days
    Ukraine — 24 days
    United States — 7 days
    (Source: http://nationmaster.com)

    7 days? Really? WTF United States!?!?!?

    Every year Expedia.com launches an intense Vacation Deprivation survey to gather the facts & the effects of American Vacation Deprivation.

    Check out these stats:

    Notice that despite earning the least amount of annual vacation days, Americans will still leave an average of 3 days unused! This goes to show that so many Americans don’t even use the little vacation time that they get! Not good.

    Why is Vacation So Important?
    Let’s talk about mental health.

    • 34% of Americans say they come back from vacation feeling better about their jobs and are even more productive.
    • 53% of employed U.S. adults say they come back feeling rested and rejuvenated after vacation.
    • 53% of employed U.S. adults say they come back feeling reconnected with family after vacation.

    It’s no big secret that work can be stressful. Even if you absolutely adore your career, you still have the occasional (or frequent) challenging day. If you refuse to take a breather every now & then, you are putting your mental health and your relationships at risk.

    Obesity, heart disease, high blood pressure, ulcers, anxiety, depression, and so on are all symptoms of stress. Stress causes cortisol to build up in your body, the cortisol is then stored as dangerous fat. In addition to all of the physical symptoms of stress, there is the issue of rushing around. When you are rushing nonstop from place to place, it’s easy to stop for fast-food because you don’t make the time to cook nutritious meals for yourself and your family.

    If you look at the rates of obesity around the globe, you probably won’t be shocked to see where the United States fits in.

    That’s right, numero uno. Not a good place to be in this case. Americans are the most obese individuals in the world. A sad fact to note considering that we are also some of the richest people, with some of the most vast & diverse availability to nutritious & wholesome food. (Please watch Food, Inc. for more information on this topic.)

    Turning the Tide
    The facts are straightforward. Constant rushing & vacation deprivation will cause you harm. Here are 3 super simple ways that you can combat these harmful habits.

    1. Practice efficient time management. Keep a calendar and don’t overbook yourself, no exceptions. We all have a ton of stuff that we want to get done, but we have to prioritize. Choose the tasks that mean the most to you and will provide you with the best ROI (return on investment). Don’t commit to anything that doesn’t benefit you, your career, your family, or your friends in a big way. Your time is precious and you should treat it as such.

    2. Use your vacation time, all of it. No matter how many days that your company allots for vacation, make sure and use it. If your company tends to be on the real stingy side with vacation, don’t be afraid to set a confidential meeting with your HR director to point out the importance of sufficient vacation time. Sufficient vacation time is mutually beneficial — you will feel better and thereby, your performance will improve. Win – Win!

    Likewise, if you work for yourself, make sure to pencil in enough time for R & R.

    3. Breathe. When you are rushing, you are most likely breathing shallow. Shallow breathing causes rapid heart rate & conversely, deep breathing causes a slower heart rate. Take time to observe your breathing throughout the day. If you find yourself shallow breathing, take a deep breath in through your nostrils. Let the air flow through your chest & deep into the pit of your stomach. Allow your stomach to expand, like a balloon, as it fills with air. Then slowly exhale through your nose and expel all of the air from your body. Breathe in deeply again, allowing the air to fill your stomach as before. Each time you inhale, take in the positive energy & light around you. Let it fill & calm your soul. Each time you exhale, push out your negative energy & fear. Continue to do this until you feel calm.

    * — * — * — * — *

    Slow down, be in the now.

4 Comments

  1. Our “clean out the excess” activities have usually been associated with a move from one home to another. In our dread of all the “stuff” that needs to be moved, we do a pretty good job of sorting what stays, what gets donated and what gets trashed.

    Now that we have lived here in lovely Charleston, SC for 12 years, we have been good at doing the Spring and Fall clean up of clothes for donation, but, have let other “stuff” sorta gather and gather and gather some more. Most of it is my Rotary stuff, flags, banners, brochures, handouts, etc. But, we are both guilty of letting other things pile up and get stuffed away in a closet or a drawer.

    My goal in July is to take a couple of weekends and get what we need to keep a bit better organized and dump/donate the rest. If clothing hasn’t been worn in a year, out it goes. If books have been read and not going to be kept to read again, to the library they go. We even have wrapped presents that we have to give away that just set on a shelf, out they go to Goodwill.

    I will say that we both keep our cars spotless on the inside and usually keep the outside washed regularly. We both hate a messy car so that is the approach we have to take to the house. It isn’t messy or cluttered as most of the “stuff” is in drawers and closets, but, there is just too much of it.

    We’ll compare notes by the end of July and see how we’re doing…it will be a “de-clutter challenge” just for fun. 🙂

    1. You’re on, Lou! July De-clutter Challenge it is. Let’s check in every week or so to monitor progress! 🙂

  2. I enjoyed your blog and I am new to this minimalist lifestyle. But, I’ve already gotten rid of 200 things in my house this weekend. I went through every closet, drawer and room. i am so excited and I feel so much better. It is new for me, so I am struggling with emotional attachments to things. I am really going to try to have everything have a purpose and a “home”.
    Thanks for your posts.

    1. Hi Angie! Wow, 200 things? That’s amazing. Sounds like you are on the right path. I love what minimizing does for the soul. I totally understand about emotional attachments to things, though. That is always one of the hard parts for me, too. Have you checked out zenhabits.org. Leo has a few really helpful posts on that topic. Best of luck & keep in touch! Let me know how your journey progresses. 🙂

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *