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Do You Have Anxiety? Get support from BetterHelp

Do You Have Anxiety? Get support from BetterHelp
According to the AADA, 40 million adults in the United States suffer from an anxiety disorder per year. Even so, some people don’t have a diagnosis, whether that’s due to financial barriers to diagnosis or not recognizing the signs that they could have an anxiety disorder. How wouldn’t you know, you might ask? Anxiety symptoms go beyond worrying, though excessive worry is one of the most major characteristics of Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD). Sometimes, those symptoms are confusing or even scary, and since some of them are physical or have the potential to mirror other conditions, they don’t always register as something that has to do with mental health.

Symptoms Of Anxiety
Since not all symptoms of anxiety disorders are obvious, you might be wondering what to look for if you think you have anxiety. Symptoms of anxiety may include:

  • Excessive worry
  • Panic attacks
  • Sweating or shaking
  • Irritability
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • A sensation of impending doom
  • GI issues
  • Nausea
  • Heart palpitations or a rapid heartbeat
  • Hypervigilance
  • Trouble sleeping or insomnia

Types Of Anxiety 
Generalized Anxiety Disorder is not the only anxiety disorder there is, though it is common, and if you have it, you are not alone. In addition to Generalized Anxiety Disorder or GAD, someone might struggle with panic disorder, specific phobias, or social anxiety, for example. It is possible to be diagnosed with more than one mental health condition. For example, someone might struggle with both depression and anxiety. The good news is that anxiety is highly treatable. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is one of the most well-researched and effective treatments for anxiety disorders like GAD. CBT is a non-invasive treatment. It’s often short-term, and it can be conducted both online and in person.

Do I Have Anxiety?
Anxiety is a very common condition. It can impact your ability to function or engage in daily life activities, and though some hide it well, it is still painful and difficult to live with if left untreated. For a diagnosis, you must see a medical doctor such as a psychiatrist or primary care physician. A psychiatrist is not the same as a therapist or counselor; they are able to provide a proper evaluation for a mental health condition and prescribe medication if needed. Many people choose to see a psychiatrist and a therapist or counselor, but you don’t have to. If you notice any of the symptoms of anxiety in yourself or believe that you may have an anxiety disorder, reach out to your general doctor or primary care physician for a referral to a mental health professional.

Helping Someone You Love With Anxiety
Perhaps you don’t have anxiety, but a friend or family member does. If that’s the case, it’s natural that you want to know how to support them. If they speak openly about anxiety and have asked you for support, one of the best things that you can do is to ask. Anxiety affects everyone differently, and different things work for different people, both in terms of social support and otherwise. When someone’s mid-panic, it’s generally best to ask easy-to-answer questions such as yes or no questions like, “would you like a glass of water?” or questions that require a single-word answer such as, “do you want me to sit with you, or do you prefer to be alone?” Letting your loved one know that you’re there to listen is often the best thing that you can do. It may seem simple, but it’s a great way to show that you care, and the chances are that they’ll appreciate it tremendously.

Balancing Mental Health And Family Life 
For those with a family, it can be challenging to make the time to prioritize mental health care. Online therapy is an excellent option for those with busy schedules or who have families and are unable to commute to sessions at times. Some people simply prefer it. After all, online counseling is typically more affordable than traditional face to face counseling, and often, it’s easier to get paired with a therapist, counselor, psychologist, or social worker faster. Many therapists who have private practice businesses offer remote sessions as well as face to face sessions, and online therapy websites like BetterHelp are an excellent option, too. No matter what route you choose, the important thing is that you get the support that you need. Your mental health matters, and you are worth it.

Try Online Counseling
Whether you see a counselor therapist in person or online, the proper mental health support can change your life. People see counselors for a variety of concerns. You don’t need to be diagnosed with a mental illness to see a counselor or therapist. People also seek therapy for stress, situational anxiety, difficulties with interpersonal relationships, familial issues, or trouble with life obligations like work or school. Online therapy and online counseling are often less expensive than traditional in-person counseling, and an added bonus is the fact that you can connect with your provider at any time from anywhere with a reliable internet connection. If you’re interested in trying online counseling through BetterHelp, head to the BetterHelp website or app to learn more and get started.


Today’s post is a guest post by Marie Miguel. Marie has been a writing and research expert for nearly a decade, covering a variety of health- related topics. Currently, she is contributing to the expansion and growth of a free online mental health resource with BetterHelp.com. With an interest and dedication to addressing stigmas associated with mental health, she continues to specifically target subjects related to anxiety and depression.

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    The Courage to Confront Your Dream

    What is a personal calling? It is God’s blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. —The Alchemist

    Are You Aware of What You’re Doing?

    I’ve been thinking a lot about dreams lately (as if you hadn’t noticed). One of my most urgent ambitions/dreams is to live an entirely purposeful life. I see people around me everyday, sleepwalking through life, on autopilot. Alarm clock, shower, breakfast, commute, zombie work, commute, dinner, television, sleep. Repeat. Day in and day out. It breaks my heart. What hurts more are the moments (sometimes hours) when I catch myself falling into that terrible haze. Of course I snap myself out of it as soon as I realize it’s happening. The way that I snap out of it is simple enough: I ground myself. I literally take notice of my feet on the Earth, carpet, tile (wherever I am). I recognize my breathing. I acknowledge that I am a human being walking the Earth, beneath the sky, on a great big planet, floating in the Universe. It’s really important to do that, to ground yourself in reality at least once a day, probably more. If you don’t do it you will get caught up in the trivial — the fight with your spouse; the disappointment over your kid’s report card; the scratch on your new car; the ever-growing pile of papers on your desk; your unappreciative boss — you get the picture.

    Proactive vs. Reactive Living

    When you ground yourself, you pull yourself from the depths of the trivial, unimportant, little details that tend to take control. When you ground yourself, you become aware. The only problem with grounding yourself this way is that it is reactive rather than proactive. There is actually a much better way to avoid autopilot and that is proactivity. I am going to start talking a lot on this blog about reactive vs. proactive thoughts and actions. So let me take a moment to define what I mean by each of these terms.

    Reactive—Something happens and triggers you to take action.

    Example 1: You get on the scale one morning to realize that you’ve gained ten pounds. Your reaction is to begin a diet and start breaking your back in the gym until you lose the ten pounds.

    Example 2: Your marriage has been falling apart for the last two years. You fight with your spouse daily or more. You are both unhappy. You put everything before each other — work, friends, hobbies, etc. The marriage is your last priority. As a last resort you decide to attend marriage counseling.

    Proactive—You consciously prepare and act in ways that will produce certain desired outcomes in your life.

    Example 1: You are aware that you want to be physically healthy. You continually live a lifestyle that promotes health. You always take the stairs instead of the elevator. You run a mile each morning before work. You feed your body foods that it craves & needs and avoid “junk” whenever possible.

    Example 2: Your marriage is one of your top priorities. You make “alone” time and set dates with your spouse at least once a week. You plan vacations together to explore places you’ve never seen. You participate in each others favourite hobbies. You fight, as all healthy couples do, but you practice open communication and work through arguments before they become significant problems.

    If you analyze all of the actions and thoughts in your life, you will find that each one is either reactive or proactive. The goal is to make all of your thoughts and actions proactive. The problem with practicing reactive thinking or action, is that it is usually too late. And even when you do succeed, it is usually a short-lived success because reactive thoughts and actions do not treat the causes of problems; they only treat the symptoms.

    Let’s take the reactive approach to the extra ten pounds for example. You notice the excess weight, you starve yourself, you go to the gym religiously — within a few months, the pounds are gone. You feel great for a little while, but soon you go back to your old habits. A few months later and the pounds are creeping back on. On the other hand, if you had made a decision to begin taking a permanent proactive approach to maintaining your health, you would have achieved long-lasting, sustainable progress and results. These same principles would apply to the example of the troubled marriage and any other example that you could think of.

    Proactivity is a crucial element to a happy, fulfilling, successful life.

    Follow Your Legend, Confront Your Dream

    Now, I am going to tie this whole thing together and tell you how you can live a life of constant proactivity and sheer joy. Ready? Have another look at the opening lines to this post. What is a personal calling? It is God’s blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. (If you are not religious, replace the word God with the word Universe. What is a personal calling? It is the Universe’s blessing, it is the path that the Universe chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. To me, the words God & Universe mean the same, beautiful, powerful thing.)

    That’s it, my friends, if you want to live proactively, if you want to live the life of your dreams, all you have to do is confront your dreams and follow your legend.

    Ask yourself these questions: What fills me with enthusiasm? What is the one thing that I could wake up and do happily every single day for the rest of my life without even being paid? When you have the answer, then you have your personal calling. It is the path that is meant for you. When you do this thing, you will follow your legend and you will confront your dreams.

    Next month, it will be one year since I discovered my own personal calling. I will never forget the moment. It hit me like lightning — to help people by sharing my journey & the lessons I’ve learned along the way — so simple, but so amazing. That is what compelled me to start this blog eight months ago. That is what has kept me going ever since. And I know what you are thinking now: Dena, I can’t do it. You are making it sound so simple, but it’s not. I can’t afford to quit my job. I have a mortgage to pay. My mother is sick. I am not talented enough. I’m too old. It’s not practical. And the list of excuses will go on and on and on. Well, I am sorry, but none of your excuses are good enough! No matter how stuck you think you are — no matter how dire your circumstance might seem — there is a way out!

    Take it from me. I was depressed and anxious for the first half of my life. I spent much of that time wanting my life to end. I was seventy pounds overweight. I was $40,000 in debt. How much further down could I have gone? I could have used a lot of excuses to keep myself in that state; but I didn’t. I made a decision to change my life. I lost seventy pounds. I overcame anxiety and depression. I’ve cut my debt in half and continue to pay it down every day! I figured out my personal calling and I am doing it. I am following my legend, confronting my dreams. I am making it happen — and you can do it, too.

    Before you get started with your excuses again, I’d like you to imagine something. Imagine being born a young girl in Alabama in 1880. Imagine then growing up to understand French, German, Greek, and Latin. Imagine then going to Harvard, at a time when few women from your town did anything other than get married and raise kids. Imagine then writing a book that was translated into twenty-five languages and inspired two Oscar-winning movies. Imagine then meeting every President in your lifetime and being awarded the highest civilian honor—the Presidential Medal of Freedom. That would be some accomplishment, wouldn’t it? Now imagine doing all of that whilst being blind, deaf, and barely able to talk for your entire life.

    It’s not impossible, friends. In fact, it’s very possible and there is a woman who did all of that, her name was Helen Keller. She accomplished all of those things, and more, because she believed in herself and she had a good teacher. (Taken from How to Be Rich & Happy.)

    “Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It’s perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we’ve learned something from yesterday.” —John Wayne

    Every single day is a new opportunity for us to begin living the lives of our dreams. Today is called “the present” because it is a gift. Take it and do something with it!

    I would love to hear your thoughts about this post. What is your personal calling? What obstacles are standing in your way? How are you going to overcome them? What can I do to help you get there? Let me know in the comments.

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