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Cut the Fat, Transform Your Life

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Chaos, sloth, toxicity, greed, gluttony, rage, envy. How often do you experience feelings like this? If the answer is anything but rarely or never, then you need to consider altering your lifestyle.

The reality is that in today’s world there are endless opportunities to feel bad. We’ve got climate issues, population issues, crime issues, financial issues. The list goes on. If you are not satisfied with complaining about the problems that you do have, you can always get upset about the things that you don’t have. Just turn on the TV. It will remind you that you don’t have a supermodel wife. You don’t have a fleet of $90,000 cars in your driveway. You don’t have the money to take your dream vacation to Fiji. This list goes on, too. In fact, if you really want to be miserable, my friend Tim has got a whole post about how to do it at his blog The Discomfort Zone.

But, this post is not about being miserable. This post is actually about being happy. It is about taking all of the crap that makes you miserable and cutting it out of your life. The process is a lot more simple than you might think. And more importantly, I guarantee that if you make these changes today, you will be happier tomorrow. All you’ve got to do is cut the fat.

Surroundings
You’ve probably been hearing this everywhere lately. The concept is huge, the results are life-changing. It’s all about minimalism. Simply put, minimalism means cutting out the excess in your life. Your surroundings are a great place to start.

You are sitting at your desk about to start a very important project (a painting, a novel, a proposal, an estimate, anything really). Now imagine two scenarios:

In the first scenario your desk is a mess. There are papers everywhere. You have sloppy notes scribbled on everything. There is a stinky banana peel to your left. There is a half drank can of cola to your right. The trash bucket is overflowing at your feet. You are so distracted by the mess that you can’t even think straight.

In the second scenario your desk is immaculate. You have only the items that you need in front of you. Everything is organized. The air in the room is fresh. You have a clean slate. Your creative juices begin to flow.

In which of these two scenarios are you going to be more productive? In which case do you have a better chance of completing your task and reaching your goal? Of course it is the second scenario. In the same way that minimalism improves your ability to work at your desk, it can improve the overall quality of your life.

Home is where the heart is but it’s also where the junk is. The first step to creating harmony in your living space is to get rid of the stuff that you don’t need. Start slow. Work through one room at a time. Take inventory of your possessions. What items are just taking up space? Is there a sofa that has been covered in boxes for the last six months? Is there a broken television that hasn’t been switched on since the late 90’s? If you have things that you do not use on a regular basis (at least once every few months) get rid of them or put them in storage. It is not healthy to be surrounded by things that you do not need or use. Those items can literally drain you of energy and positivity simply by their unnecessary presence.

If you have things that you are guilty about getting rid of, give them to friends, donate them to a charity, or have a yard sale. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure — but first you’ve got to get rid of that trash and let it become another man’s treasure.

Your home should be your sanctuary. You should be surrounded by things that make you feel calm, tranquil, productive, and happy. Once you have conquered your home, move on to your car, your yard, your office at work. Keep going. Practice minimalism everywhere that you exist and the joy of your existence will multiply.

People & Places
Are there vampires in your life? You know what I’m talking about — the people and the places that suck the life out of you everyday. How can you stop it? How can you kill the vampires? Just cut the fat.

Okay, I know that it is not always easy to end relationships. Sometimes there are people in our lives — friends, lovers, even family members — that have been slowly killing us with their toxicity for years. It is not easy to let go of them. It is not easy to cut them out of your life. But, if you want to change your life, if you want to experience joy on a level that you did not think possible, you have to do it, even if it just means limiting contact.

“If someone is not treating you with love and respect, it is a gift they walk away from you. If that person doesn’t walk away, you will surely endure years of suffering with him or her. Walking away may hurt for awhile, but your heart will eventually heal.” —Don Miguel Ruiz

In the same way that people will drag you down, places will too. If every time you stop at the corner bar you end up with a hangover from hell the next day, stop going. If every time you eat lunch at the diner up the street you get bloated for five days, stop going. If every time you spend the afternoon at the shopping mall you max out your credit card, stop going.

This is a simple concept but for some reason (usually guilt or fear) we fail to grasp it. If you do not spend time with that toxic person, that toxic person can not hurt you. If you do not visit that toxic place, that toxic place can not hurt you.

Possessions & Consumerism
Like I mentioned at the beginning of this article, if you turn on the TV you’ve got a whole bunch of reasons why your life sucks. But what if you didn’t? What if you actually didn’t turn on the TV? What if you didn’t have to see the stick thin models, the women being overtly sexualized, the luxury car commercials that make you believe that you need to spend $50,000 to get from Point A to Point B? What if you picked up a book that taught you that you are beautiful exactly as you are? What if you read an article that taught you that this society will chew you up and spit you out if you let it? What if you really stopped buying into all of the marketing B.S.? What if you understood that there is nothing outside of you (no car, no fitness equipment, no jewelry, nothing) that will make you happy? What if you finally realized that you can not seek happiness, you must live it?

Two years ago, I was swimming in credit card debt. One time I paid over $300 for a pair of Gucci sunglasses that were scratched and bent within a matter of weeks. When I think back on that lifestyle, my stomach turns. In December of 2008 I moved into a small house bordered by a state forest. Slowly, I started getting rid of my material poss
essions. I subscribed to Netflix. I downgraded to basic cable and stopped watching TV except for Discovery and the news every now and then. No longer do I turn on the television and lust after the hottest trends. I wear the clothes that I have in my closet. I recognize that my beauty exists within me and within the good that I put out into this world. I have never been happier and I have never been more free. I want you to experience this joy. I hope that this post starts you on this journey. Let me know how I can help you get there!

“It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently.” —Anthony Robbins

Cutting the fat, and the toxicity, from your life will be a slow process. Have patience, remain strong, and stay focused. Remember that the universe is conspiring with you and so am I.

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    3 Simple Changes That Will Save Your Life

    This post could save your life. These 3 simple lifestyle changes saved mine. Today I am going to simply share facts with you. These facts (if you let them) will dramatically improve your quality of life. Making these changes can even increase your life span.

    1. Stop Smoking

    FACTS: According to the American Heart Association, cigarette smoking is the most important preventable cause of premature death in the United States, accounting for 440,000 of the more than 2.4 million annual deaths.

    Cigarette smoking causes lung cancer. In fact, smoking tobacco is the major risk factor for lung cancer. In the United States, about 90% of lung cancer deaths in men and almost 80% of lung cancer deaths in women are due to smoking. People who smoke are 10 to 20 times more likely to get lung cancer or die from lung cancer than people who do not smoke. The longer a person smokes and the more cigarettes smoked each day, the more risk goes up.

    Smoking also causes cancer of the voice box (larynx), mouth and throat, esophagus, bladder, kidney, pancreas, cervix, and stomach, and causes acute myeloid leukemia. Source.

    FACTS: One year after passing smoking bans, communities in North America and Europe had 17 percent fewer heart attacks compared to communities without smoking restrictions, and the number of heart attacks kept decreasing with time, according to a report in Circulation: Journal of the American Heart Association. Source.

    FACTS: If you quit smoking, you will:

    1. Prolong your life. According to the American Heart Association, smokers who quit between ages 35-39 add an average of 6-9 years to their lives. Smokers who quit between ages 65-69 increase their life expectancy by 1 – 4 years.

    2. Reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease. Quitting smoking reduces the risk of repeat heart attacks and death from heart disease by 50 percent or more. Quitting smoking also reduces your risk of high blood pressure, peripheral artery disease and stroke.

    3. Reduce your risk of developing a variety of other conditions including diabetes, lung cancer, throat cancer, emphysema, chronic bronchitis, chronic asthma, ulcers, gum disease and many other conditions.

    4. Feel healthier. After quitting, you won’t cough as much, have as many sore throats and you will increase your energy.

    5. Look and feel better. Quitting can help you prevent face wrinkles, get rid of stained teeth, improve your skin and even get rid of the stale smell in your clothes and hair.

    6. Improve your sense of taste and smell.

    7. Save money. Source.

    FACTS: What Happens When You Quit:

    After 20 minutes
    o You stop polluting the air
    o Your blood pressure and pulse decrease
    o The temperature of your hands and feet increases

    After 8 hours
    o The carbon monoxide level in your blood returns to normal
    o Oxygen levels in your blood increase

    After 24 hours
    o Your risk of heart attack decreases

    After 48 hours
    o Nerve endings adjust to the absence of nicotine
    o Your ability to taste and smell begin to return

    After 2 weeks to 3 months
    o Your circulation improves
    o Your exercise tolerance improves

    After 1 – 9 months
    o Coughing, sinus congestion, fatigue and shortness of breath decrease
    o Your overall energy level increases

    After 1 year
    o Your risk of heart disease decreases to half that of a current smoker

    After 5 – 15 years
    o Your risk of stroke is reduced to that of people who have never smoked

    After 10 years
    o Your risk of dying from lung cancer drops to almost the same rate as a lifelong non- smoker
    o You decrease the incidence of other cancers — of the mouth, larynx, esophagus, bladder, kidney and pancreas

    After 15 years
    o Your risk of heart disease is reduced to that of people who have never smoked

    If you smoke again (called a relapse) do not lose hope. Seventy-five percent of those who quit relapse. Most smokers quit three times before they are successful. If you relapse, don’t give up! Review the reasons why you wanted to become a nonsmoker. Plan ahead and think about what you will do next time you get the urge to smoke. Source.

    2. Maintain a Healthy Body Weight

    QUESTION: How many people get cancer by being overweight or obese? How many die?

    FACTS: In 2002, about 41,000 new cases of cancer in the United States were estimated to be due to obesity. This means that about 3.2 percent of all new cancers are linked to obesity.

    A recent report estimated that, in the United States, 14 percent of deaths from cancer in men and 20 percent of deaths in women were due to overweight and obesity.

    Colon cancer occurs more frequently in people who are obese than in those of a healthy weight. An increased risk of colon cancer has been consistently reported for men with high BMIs.
    Source.

    FACTS: Research has shown that as weight increases to reach the levels referred to as “overweight” and “obesity,” the risks for the following conditions also increases:

    * Coronary heart disease
    * Type 2 diabetes
    * Cancers (endometrial, breast, and colon)
    * Hypertension (high blood pressure)
    * Dyslipidemia (for example, high total cholesterol or high levels of triglycerides)
    * Stroke
    * Liver and Gallbladder disease
    * Sleep apnea and respiratory problems
    * Osteoarthritis (a degeneration of cartilage and its underlying bone within a joint)
    * Gynecological problems (abnormal menses, infertility) Source.

    3. Eat Whole Foods, Not Processed

    FACTS: The statistics are alarming:

    – One in three people will get cancer at some time in their life

    – Heart disease is the leading cause of death

    – Poor nutrition and physical inactivity together are the second
    actual cause of preventable death in the United States

    On the other hand new evidence shows that:

    – Eating five or more fruits and vegetables per day cuts cancer
    risk in half

    – People who eat more fruits and vegetables have a 30% lower risk
    of premature heart attack than people who eat a few

    – About 25% fewer strokes are projected for adults who eat 8 or
    more servings of fruits and vegetables per day

    – Fruits and vegetables may help keep blood sugar down and control diabetes.” Source.

    FACTS: Processed meat consumption results in 67% increase in pancreatic cancer risk.
    Source.

    FACTS: Inorganic phosphates are found in a variety of processed foods, including meats, cheeses, beverages and bakery products. They are added to increase water retention and improve food texture. Studies suggests a diet high in inorganic phosphates could speed growth of cancerous tumors and contribute to the development of tumors in those predisposed to the disease. Source.

    FACTS: Carcinogens in foods that may be naturally-occurring, caused by preparing or cooking certain foods, or added to it, include safrole, estragole and benzene. Processed foods such as sausages, bacon and canned meats contain high amounts of the preservative nitrite, another known carcinogen. Other carcinogens to look for in food products include:

    * acetaldehyde
    * acetamide
    * azo color and compounds
    * benzidine
    * bis (2-Chloromethyl) ether
    * cadmium
    * chlorinated parraffin waxes
    * 3,3-dichlorobenzidine
    * dichloromethane
    * hexachlorobenzene
    * polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons
    * polychlorinated dibenzodioxins
    * polychlorinated dibenzofurans
    * sillica
    * trichloroethylene

    Though it is impossible to avoid every known carcinogen, to decrease risk of cancers and other illnesses, a balanced diet with more unprocessed, whole foods can decrease risk of some cancers and other diseases such as type two diabetes and heart disease. Source.

    FACTS: Nutrients in Whole Foods that Protect Against Cancer:

    1. Vitamin A: Strengthens the immune system. Essential for mineral metabolism and endocrine function. Helps detoxify. True vitamin A is found only in animal foods such as cod liver oil; fish and shellfish; and liver, butter and egg yolks from pasture-fed animals. Traditional diets contained ten times more vitamin A than the typical modern American diet.

    2. Vitamin C: An important antioxidant that prevents damage by free radicals. Found in many fruits and vegetables but also in certain organ meats valued by primitive peoples.

    3. Vitamin B6: Deficiencies are associated with cancer. Contributes to the function of over 100 enzymes. Most available from animal foods.

    4. Vitamin B12: Deficiencies are associated with cancer. Found only in animal foods.

    5. Vitamin B17: Protects against cancer. Found in a variety of organically grown grains, legumes, nuts and berries.

    6. Vitamin D: Required for mineral absorption. Strongly protective against breast and colon cancer. Found only in animal foods such as cod liver oil, lard, shellfish and butterfat, organ meats and egg yolks from grass-fed animals. Traditional diets contained ten times more vitamin D than the typical modern American diet.

    7. Vitamin E: Works as an antioxidant at the cellular level. Found in unprocessed oils as well as in animal fats like butter and egg yolks.

    8. Conjugated Linoleic Acid (CLA): Strongly protective against breast cancer. Found in the butterfat and meat fat of grass-fed ruminant animals.

    9. Cholesterol: A potent antioxidant that protects against free radicals in cell membranes. Found only in animal foods.

    10. Minerals: The body needs generous amounts of a wide variety of minerals to protect itself against cancer. Minerals like zinc, magnesium and selenium are vital components of enzymes that help the body fight carcinogens. Minerals are more easily absorbed from animal foods.

    11. Lactic Acid and Friendly Bacteria: Contribute to the health of the digestive tract. Found in old fashioned lacto-fermented foods.

    12. Saturated Fats: Strengthen the immune system. Needed for proper use of the essential fatty acids. The lungs cannot function without saturated fats. Found mostly in animal foods.

    13. Long-Chain Fatty Acids: Arachidonic acid (AA), eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexaenoic acid (DHA) help fight cancer on the cellular level. They are found mostly in animal foods such as butter, organ meats, cod liver oil and seafood.

    14. Co-enzyme Q10: Highly protective against cancer. Found only in animal foods. Source.

    In closing: I truly hope that you will begin living these simple lifestyle changes. If you are non-smoker, not obese, and already eating whole foods, then I challenge you to help to spread this message to as many people as you can. All of the suffering and the disease mentioned above is not necessary. It can be prevented.

5 Comments

  1. Great… great great post. Absolutely agree and love your concepts… Your spot on… Keep up the good work…

  2. @Meandering Bohemian – Thank you so much for your kind words! It means so much to me that you enjoyed the post.

    @Laura – You know what, it doesn't matter when you did it. It only matters that you did it. I am so proud of you.

    @Josh – Thank you for your compliments. I intend to! 🙂

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