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Habits: Meal Planning & Meal Prepping

In my last post, I talked about my recent success with habit tracking and scaling back habits. Today, I want to dive into a habit that is going very well, but previously had been a long-time struggle for me—eating too much takeout. The negative health and financial impacts caused by eating too much takeout are devastating.

The average American household spends thousands of dollars a year on dining out. It’s wildly expensive. To turn a profit, restaurants charge an average 300% markup on the food that they serve. On top of that, there is the cost of the tip (for the server or delivery driver), plus additional surcharges. In most cases, you’ll easily pay $15 for a restaurant meal that you could make at home for $5.

On top of that, eating at home is vastly more healthy than eating restaurant food. Restaurant meals typically contain higher amounts of sodium, saturated fat, total fat, and overall calories than home cooked meals. In most restaurants, food is loaded with salt and cooked in toxic seed oils. At home, you make the choice about what goes into your food and into your body.

Eating at home clearly makes the most sense in terms of money and health. But it’s not that simple. Life is busy and eating out is both satisfying and convenient. In order to make eating at home a habit, we have to make it just as satisfying and convenient. In Atomic Habits, James Clear says there are Four Rules of Behavior Change that we can use to build better habits: 1. Make it obvious. 2. Make it attractive. 3. Make it easy. 4. Make it satisfying. When it comes to eating at home, the best way to achieve this habit, in my experience, is to meal plan and meal prep.

Here are the 4 steps that I take each week to plan & prep my meals.

1. Keep a running list. Make a list of meals and recipes that you want to eat. Notice how I emphasize “want” here. If health is a major concern for you, I encourage you to be mindful that meal planning & prepping is work. In order to be successful, and to be consistent with this habit, it has to be attractive and satisfying. So build the habit first by choosing meals that you will eat and enjoy. If the food bores you and you don’t eat it, it will be a waste and you’ll have no motivation to continue. Later, once you’ve consistently established the habit, you can take it up a notch and make your meals even healthier.

I love using Pinterest to build my lists. I keep several boards for inspiration: a Food Inspiration Board, a Meal Prep Board, and a Veggie Inspiration Board. You can create your own Pinterest board, keep a running list in the notes section of your phone, or keep an old-fashioned notebook. Just keep building that list so that you have a solid pool of go-to meals to choose from.

Finally, make sure that the meals on your list store well and can be easily re-heated. This will give you the most bang for your buck and the most output for your effort. Casseroles, soups, curries, and rice dishes are all great options.

2. Keep a calendar of meals. Make a calendar for the week and plug meals into each meal spot. I recommend planning out 5-7 days at a time. In my case, I fast most mornings, so my meal plan for each day includes: brunch, mid-day snack, and dinner.

3. Get your groceries. Make a grocery list using your calendar of meals. You know what you’re going to make, now you need to know what you’ve got on hand and what you need to buy to make each meal. Staples like salt, pepper, spices, and olive oil, you may have on hand. Other things you will need to purchase. Make sure that your list is thorough and you get everything that you need. If you forget an ingredient, that will be an easy excuse to break the habit and order a pizza before you even begin—so be thorough.

4. Batch prep and cook. Choose a time to prep and cook. I like to do this every other Sunday afternoon. I carve out a few hours and just get it done. Cook all of the things that you can freeze or store for 5-7 days. Prep the things that you’ll want to throw together during the week. For example, you can pre-chop salad and veggies and store them so that they’ll be easy to toss into a salad or a quick stir-fry. Everything else will be cooked and ready to go. You can keep larger dishes (like casseroles and quiches) in large containers and cut out pieces when you’re ready to eat. Or you can pre-portion your meals and store them in small containers—an excellent portion control hack. I love these Pyrex casserole dishes. You can cook in them and then store without dirtying anything extra.

Sure, taking a few hours out of your Sunday afternoon is a time and energy commitment. But for the cost savings and the health benefits, it is incredibly worth it. I tried to meal plan for years unsuccessfully. Meal planning alone just wasn’t enough. You can make the plans but when the reality of a busy day hits, it’s just so much easier to open an app, tap a few buttons, and have whatever your crave delivered right to your doorstep. Only once I started meal planning and meal prepping, did I find success. This method can work for anyone.

I will say it again because I want to be real with you, meal planning & prepping is time-consuming, especially in the beginning as you’re finding your groove, but it’s incredibly gratifying and effective. You can save thousands of dollars each year and you can take inches off of your waistline, improving your health and your finances all in one shot. Talk about ROI! When you meal plan and prep, there are no longer excuses during the week. Healthy, affordable, homemade food is ready for you to eat. It’s just about as easy as opening an app at that point. You open the fridge, heat up what you want to eat. No fuss. And it’s a hell of a lot healthier and cheaper than restaurant food.

Here are a few of my favorite meal prep tools:

Always Pan
Perfect Pot
Oven Pan
Casserole Dishes
Glass Meal Prep Containers
Silicone Meal Prep Boxes
Ninja Air Fryer

I hope that you found this post helpful, friends. If you have anything to add or have questions for me, let me know on Instagram: @_denajoan!

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    How to Overcome Fear & Stop Resisting

    “To offer no resistance to life is to be in a state of grace, ease, and lightness.” —Eckhart Tolle

    Stop resisting the will of the Universe. I’ve said this to myself thousands of times. It is perhaps one of the most powerful tools that has led me to peace of mind.

    In the past four years, I overcame depression, anxiety, and I lost sixty pounds. When you overcome a lifetime of anxiety & depression, a lot of things change. For one thing, you begin to enjoy life. Simple things that you hadn’t noticed before fill your heart with joy—Spring, a cold glass of water on a hot day, a good workout, a kind word, a smile. When you are overcome by the effects of anxiety & depression, you do not have time to notice these simple pleasures. (They are often overshadowed by the negative, irrational thoughts swarming inside of your head.)

    Happiness begets happiness, as I like to say. However, even in my increased state of happiness, I knew that something still wasn’t right. It took me awhile to realize what it was. Only after months of careful self-observation did I realize what was happening.

    A hard day at work = I was disgusted, angry, plagued by head aches.
    A frustrating experience at a car dealership = I was furious.
    An upcoming flight and travel arrangements = I was anxious, worried, sick to my stomach.

    I was continually allowing my mind to make me angry, sick, sad, frustrated, etc. Yet, after each of these experiences I learned some valuable lesson or something really important & meaningful happened as a result.

    Hard days at work always lead me to clarity about how myself and my team could be more efficient.
    The frustrating experience at the car dealership actually prevented me from making a terrible mistake and purchasing the wrong car.
    Recent travel and trips have brought me incredible successes in my personal & professional life.

    Upon observing all of this, it hit me. Even when things seemed terrible, even when I was really upset, eventually the pain of the situation would subside. Moreover, I would come out on the other side wiser, stronger, and grateful. Every thing that happened (happens) to me is a direct result of the will of the Universe (you can call that God, fate, destiny, or any other name you’d like to give it, no matter). Yes, every thing that happens is a direct result of the will of the Universe and an opportunity to learn and grow. In order to live true happiness, I had to stop resisting the will of the Universe. Once I did this, my life changed in incredible (and previously unimaginable) ways. When I stop resisting and simply “go with the flow” I find that I am constantly filled with a deep calmness in my soul. I do not worry or suffer. I simply exist and let all scenarios play themselves out. I understand that even pain is necessary and that ultimately it will carry me to a place of light & peace.

    Fear is Unnecessary

    At the root of every single feeling of discomfort, lies one emotion: fear. Fear is the emotion responsible for all forms of suffering. Sadness, anxiety, worry, rage, hatred, envy, and all other forms of suffering are rooted in fear. However, once you stop resisting the will of the Universe, you will understand that fear and suffering are actually not necessary at all.

    The vast majority of fear and suffering is a result of living in an unreal world and/or allowing negative, irrational thoughts to control our minds. The unreal world is the world of sky rise buildings, electricity, paper money, McDonald’s, television, marketing, vanity surgery, reality TV, etc. The real world is the world of trees, dirt, sun, stars, wind, rain, whole foods, self-love, generosity, family, love, etc. Can you see the difference? Once you remove yourself from the suffocating chains of the unreal world, and begin living in the real world, you will find that most of the fears that you experience are completely unnecessary. The vast majority of anxieties that we suffer from are made-up.

    – fear of judgment
    – fear of failure
    – fear of humiliation
    – fear of public speaking
    – fear of making a mistake
    – fear of travel
    – fear of forgetting something
    – fear of being alone and so on

    Once you realize that these fears are made-up in the unreal world, they can hold no power over you. All of the above are irrational anxieties. None of those things would actually put your life in danger or expose you to any harm. The only place that they can affect you is in your head. But you must remember that you have control over what goes on in your head! You can use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to end the suffering.

    Eventually, you will realize that true fear might have a place in your life, but that is only when you are truly in danger. Perhaps while being chased by a bear or masked murderer, while falling from a cliff, etc. Yes, in those instances, your fear is justified and it can help you by creating adrenaline, increased strength, quicker reflexes and cognitive ability. But other than those “real” true fear situations, there is really no need for fear and certainly no need for emotional suffering.

    Live Without Resistance or Fear

    Once you learn to stop resisting the will of the Universe and to live without fear, you will experience an entirely new & improved sort of living. You will find that all of the things that you once desired, but were afraid to seek, are actually within your reach. For example, I was emotionally crippled by irrational anxiety for the first half of my life. This made it impossible for me to speak in front of people. I could not ask a question in a class of twenty, let alone get up in front of a group of people to speak. My anxiety over public speaking was so great, that it crippled me. I once experienced a debilitating panic attack at a dinner party of five family friends! But… that is ancient history.

    Now, my former self is hardly recognizable. I have spoken in front of groups of sixty people or more with grace and confidence. I know that my fear is irrational & unnecessary, so I overcome it. Sure, my heart rate may increase, I might sweat a bit—but I do not let it stop me! I remind myself that that the fear is not real and I move forward to success.

    You are entirely capable of achieving the same same sort of success in your own life—personal & professional. Whatever your fear is, you can overcome it.

    “You’ll seldom experience regret for anything that you’ve done. It is what you haven’t done that will torment you.” —Wayne Dyer

    To allow fear to rule your life, is not to live at all. So stop resisting the will of the Universe and stop allowing fear to rule your life. Begin living, truly living, right now. There is nothing in your way. What is your greatest fear? Can you believe that it is unnecessary? What would you do if you had no fear in your heart at all? How different could your life be?

    The only time you run out of chances is when you stop taking them!

    I am now offering personalized coaching sessions to individuals suffering from anxiety &/or depression. If you are interested in scheduling a session or would like to learn more, please contact me at denabotbyl[@]gmail[.]com for details and rates. Include CBT Session in the subject line.

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