
The Power of Now
had been on my “to-read” list for years when, by a stroke of fate, a dear friend offered to lend me her audio copy. Based on my general understanding of the book and its content (prior to reading it) I felt that I would enjoy it; however, I was completely unprepared for the way that the book would speak to me, transform my perspective, and change my life.
The Unreal Past & Future
In The Power of Now
, we learn that to live in the future or the past is to suffer. The only way to exist in true harmony is to live in the now. After all, the past is not real, the future is not real. The past and the future only exist in our minds.
When I first heard this concept I refused to believe or comprehend it. Of course my past is real, I thought. Of course my future is real, too. How dare someone suggest that it is not? My ego lashed out; but then I thought more about it. I listened, opened my mind, and realized that it was true. I am going to ask you to walk through an exercise with me to help you understand.
Let’s recall a memory in which you are eating something. Let’s say, for example, it’s a hot summer day and you’re licking an ice cream cone. Now, where ever you are—right now, present moment, not in the memory—I’d like you to stick your finger right into the ice cream and then throw it to the floor. Can you do that? Can you touch that ice cream cone from your memory? No, of course you can’t (unless you’re on hallucinogenics but that’s another story).
The fact is that right now you can not touch that ice cream cone and therefore it is not real. It may seem real in your memory—in your mind—but it is not really “real”…not here, not now, not in existence. It is only a memory and it only exists in your mind.
This principle is also true for the future. Imagine any future scenario in your mind. You win the lottery. You get fired from your job. You purchase a house. You fall off of a cliff. You can play each of those scenes out in your head. You can fill in as much detail as you like. You can mentally experience the future, but the truth remains that the future scenario isn’t “real”. You can’t actually reach out and touch anything in the future right now. The future only exists in your mind.
When I finally grasped this concept I was shocked & amazed. It seems simple, but somehow I had been missing it for my entire life! To me, the past and the future were as real as the present. The past happened to me. The future was going to happen to me. I held on to these concepts for dear life. But then I realized the truth… the past and the present are not that important. They’re not even real. They are only in my head.
You might be feeling a bit angry right now. (I know because I was at this point.) You might be thinking, How dare you claim that my past is not real? I’ve suffered, I’ve lived, I’ve triumphed, I’ve done X, Y, and Z. And my future, that is real too! I am going to do things 1, 2, 3, and so on!
Your Ego Feeds on the Past & Future
Well, my friend, I am not sorry to break it to you. That voice of anger is fueled by fear and the fear is coming from your ego.
For your entire life, your ego has been calling the shots. He rules you by fear—fear over your past and fear over your future. So long as you believe in the reality of your past and your future, your ego has control over you. It uses every thing that ever happened in the past against you. It uses everything that you hope to happen in the future against you.
There is only one way to overcome your ego and that is to live completely in the now. Let go of the past and the future. Be fully present in this moment.
It is not easy. You’ve spent your entire life ruled by your ego, living in the past and present. But while it’s not easy, it is possible. It’s entirely possible for you to begin living entirely in the present moment, entirely in peace, love, & light, entirely free from the chains of your ego.
The Power of Now
is an excellent book and if you truly listen to every word and practice its teachings in your daily life, you will succeed. It has been quite a journey for me already and I’ve only been on it for a few weeks now! I am experiencing life in ways that I never dreamed possible. You can do it, too.
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Here are some of my favourite pieces from The Power of Now along with my interpretations of each.
You have it already. You just can’t feel it because your mind is making too much noise.
Eckhart Tolle tells us that that many people ask him to “give” them his gift. His response is always the same, You already have it.
This is entirely true. Each of us already has the immense power of now within. Tolle nor anyone else can “give” that to us—but what he can do (and does in the book) is to show you how to harness the power in your own life.
Not to be able to stop thinking is a dreadful affliction; but we don’t realize it because almost everyone is suffering from it. So, it is considered normal.
After reading (listening to) The Power of Now
, I realized that yes, the modern human being is suffering from a debilitating disease: compulsive over thinking.
It is so obvious to me now! How many millions of people are suffering from anxiety, depression, and so on? Most of these individuals are suffering as such simply because of compulsive over thinking.
When we stop our compulsive, ego-driven thoughts, we live in harmony. Sadly, however, most people just don’t know how to stop those thoughts.
We must become the silent observer, as Tolle describes in the book. The first step to overcoming the compulsive thoughts is to recognize them, to be the silent observer of your mind.
To see, but not see. To hear, but not hear.
Have you ever had a moment, an hour, or a day where you were entirely mindless?
For example, you are driving along the road completely spaced out from reality and suddenly you “wake up” and you don’t know where your head has been for some stretch of time. You know that you must have been seeing and aware, because you didn’t crash your vehicle. But you weren’t really there. You were seeing but not seeing.
Another example, you are in conversation with a friend or loved one and you begin zoning out. You hear words coming out of her mouth, but when she finally stops talking, you realize that you have no idea what she just said. You were listening, but you weren’t really there. You were hearing but not hearing.
This is what it means to see, but not see; to hear, but not hear. It is living life in an unconscious state, on autopilot. Most likely you are daydreaming about the unreal past or future. You can overcome this state of nothingness and time wasting by harnessing the power of now and being fully present in each moment.
Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is the only chance for the survival of our species.
“Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is our only chance of survival as a race. This will affect every aspect of your life and close relationships in particular. Never before have relationships been as problematic and conflict ridden as they are now. As you may continue to pursue the goal of salvation through a relationship, you will be disillusioned again and again. But if you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation, and you will be aligning yourself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into this world. For those who hold to the old patterns, there will be increasing pain, violence, confusion, and madness.”
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I could write ten posts about The Power of Now
and I would only begin to scratch the surface. The book is extremely intensive. Tolle’s language is thick and weighted with meaning. The content is formatted as question and answer for the sake of clarity—but it is still heavy reading. As I mentioned earlier, I listened to the audio book and I would highly recommend this format. I have heard that reading the text can be confusing and I can understand why.
The audio book does span several hours, but it is entirely worth every moment. If you can not afford to buy the audio book, you should consider borrowing it from your local library.
If you decide to read or have read this book, I would love to hear your thoughts. Whether or not you decide to, I hope that you will consider the ideas that I have shared in this post.
Thinking about being somewhere else uses up your precious, present moments. Be here now. —Wayne Dyer
I am going to give it a try. Need to be more motivated in being more fit and healthy
@ Michelle – YAY! I am so happy to hear that you are joining me in the challenge. I thought I might be alone. This is going to be fun & I’ll be beside you every step of the way. ♥
I am so excited for a new better me! My nest is empty and I am trying to teach myself to find the ME I was 24 years ago before everyone else came before me! HERE WE GO!
@ Deb – And we have lift off! It’s time to spread those wings & fly out of that empty next. I am so excited that you are joining the challenge. It’s going to be an awesome couple of months. I’ll be right beside you every step of the way. ♥ Thank you so much for joining me on this journey!
I am joining this journey. I need to find the motivation and accountability so I can become a healthier me. I am 56 years old, 39% body fat and on cholesterol medicine; I don’t want to go down the heart disease path that my mother traveled.
@ Stormy – I am so glad that you are joining us in this challenge. No matter where you are now, you are completely capable of implementing positive change in your life. This is going to be the start of something great for you! I will be right beside you every step of the way. 🙂
Very neat idea, I am looking forward to seeing how it goes, maybe it will inspire me to be a bit more tenacious about my own workout regimen. I normally get up at 3:40 am and to the gym (24 hour East Shore) for my daily workout. I generally do 5 days a week, but, occasionally get lazy and skip a day, also always looking for different things to do to keep it interesting. Right now I’m in a rut and doing the same things every day so I’m hoping to pick up a few new ideas from your posts. Good luck!
@ Lou – You get up at 3:40 a.m.!?!?! Holy mackerel! Colour me impressed. 😉 I would love to know how you manage that. Are you one of those who requires limited sleep or do you go to bed really early? I would love to know. Sleep is something I’ve always struggled with (because I require a lot!). But I’d love to become more of an early riser like yourself! Any tips?
Oh Dena, you knew I would be here! 😀
This sounds great! I’m really looking forward to it!
Oh, and…3:40 A.M.!?!?!? Sometimes that’s when I get to bed and then I have to wake up at 8 when the boys wake up. 😀
@ Brad – I just read your response to my comment over at http://www.enemyoffat.com and it made me cry. I don’t know why — but I do know that they were tears of joy. I am just so incredibly proud & inspired by your journey. It broke my heart to hear that the accountability pictures initially launched you into a depression; but it gives me the greatest happiness to know that you’ve overcome it and are back on the road to success!!!
I am so glad that you are going to be participating in this challenge with me, Brad. I’ll be beside you every step of the way. Here we go!
Yeah, that’s the sad reality of how my weight affects me personally. It’s been a huge problem for me, and hindered me in my endeavors as well. The time I was referring to on Enemy of Fat was back in 2008, but since then I have prepared myself to be more accountable, which is why I relaunched the blog and am now even self-hosted. (this time I am more serious about it than I ever have been! I HAVE to succeed, and I will in 2011! 😀
I’m down 15 pounds in 6 weeks and am almost half way through with P90X — something I never thought I could complete!
Let’s do this! 😀
Dena – this challenge sounds great! I just signed up in the forums as AthleteAtHeart and tried to post a reply with my introduction but it didn’t show up. Not sure what’s going on but I’ll check back and try again later if I don’t see it. Can’t wait to get to know you and all the other challengers!
@ Stephanie – So glad that you’ve signed up for the challenge. It is going to be a lot of fun! Thanks so much for letting me know about the forum issue. It seems like the settings were off but should be fixed now. Your post is up. I’m going to go read it now & reply! Can’t wait to get to know and t start seeing great things happen.
xo,
Dena