On Transparency & Authenticity: Site Update

By acting bravely we become brave; not the other way round.

Ten months have passed since I started this blog. Wow. Almost a year. I am really proud of this fact and also a bit surprised. I have a tendency to start things without finishing them. When I started evolution you, I’d hoped that this project would be different. In fact—it went beyond hope—I believed that this was going to be different. In my heart, I knew that I had finally found my purpose in life—to help people create the lives of their dreams by sharing my journey & the lessons I’ve learned along the way.

When I started this blog, I knew how important transparency & authenticity were. I always wanted to (and have been) entirely upfront & honest with you, my readers. However, there was always a major component missing. While I always shared my truest intention—helping people to create the lives of their dreams by sharing my journey & the lessons I’ve learned along the way—I never thought that it was really enough. I wanted to be more transparent than that. The challenge has been that I couldn’t be 100% clear with you all about my intentions, because I wasn’t 100% sure myself. Until today…

I’ve been thinking about all of this for awhile now. I want you all to know why I have affiliate links on the sides of my pages and in some of my posts. I want you to know why I take the time to write at least 2 or 3 posts per week (sometimes 5) when I am already juggling so much in my life. I want you to know why this little space—evolution you—means so much to me. So here it goes…

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I have no desire to get rich through this blog. In fact, I have no desire to get rich in general. I believe that wealth is a quality of the spirit and has nothing to do with pieces of paper that a society deems to be “worth” something because they say so.

However, it would be nice to make money through this blog, simply so that I could devote more time to it. The reality of my life is that I am a twenty-six your old woman with tens of thousands of dollars in student loan debt and a few other monthly payments that force me to shell out “money” every month. That said, I work 40 – 60 hours a week earning a living outside of here. When you factor sleeping into the equation, that leaves me with about 60 hours for the week. During those 60 hours of “free time”, I am life coaching, bonding with my family (including my pets), housekeeping, enjoying nature, and so on. So at the end of the day, the time I have to devote to this space = not enough! I would truly love to spend more time devoted to evolution you and I believe that monetizing it in some way could allow me to do that, if I am willing to work hard enough.

So, how has it been working out for me? Well, let’s just say that in ten months, I haven’t seen a single, red cent. Apparently, I’ve earned just under $10.00 via Google Adsense but I’ve yet to see any of it and (for obvious reasons) I’m not quite holding my breath. On the other hand, I have received a couple of life coaching client referrals through this blog and for that I am grateful.

At the end of the day, my big pay off has been the heartwarming comments, emails, & messages that I’ve received from you all. There really are not words to say how much they have meant to me. For those thoughts alone, every moment that I have lovingly devoted to this blog has been worth it.

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The ads that you see on the right side of the site fall into a few categories. The Google Adsense ads are randomly generated based upon the content on the page. I can’t say that I endorse any of them 100% as they are pretty random. The featured sponsors are affiliate links or paid banner ads for products, causes, and services that I fully support & endorse. The Amazon book recommendations are books that I have personally selected and endorse 100%. And finally, the affiliate links that I embed within my posts/reviews are the things that I am most passionate about and promote above & beyond the rest. I will never include an affiliate link within a post unless I believe in it with my whole heart & highly recommend it to my readers.

The Big Pay Out
If you ask me why I write this blog and dedicate so much of my spirit to it—you’ll find that it truly has nothing to do with money. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: money does nothing to contribute to my (nor anyone else’s) happiness. This will be really apparent to you if you read any of my posts about minimalism or know me at all. My “big pay offs” come in other forms—words of gratitude, spiritual growth, my relationship with nature, and so on.

If I end up making money through this blog some day, that will be an added bonus that allows me to devote even more time here; and yes, that would make me very happy. I do not know if it will ever happen that way, but I am going to continue working really hard in that direction. I will continue to write posts from my heart & share as much great information/inspiration as I can find. I even have a few other plans coming up the pike for new features & even an e-book. And if all goes well, I will have one more enormous surprise to be revealed toward the end of this year. 😉

For now, I am so happy, so grateful, and so entirely humbled that you all have chosen to be a part of this space & a part of my tribe. I truly hope that this post has given you a better understanding about me & about evolution you. Thank you for joining me on this journey.

With all of my love——
Dena

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    3 Simple Changes That Will Save Your Life

    This post could save your life. These 3 simple lifestyle changes saved mine. Today I am going to simply share facts with you. These facts (if you let them) will dramatically improve your quality of life. Making these changes can even increase your life span.

    1. Stop Smoking

    FACTS: According to the American Heart Association, cigarette smoking is the most important preventable cause of premature death in the United States, accounting for 440,000 of the more than 2.4 million annual deaths.

    Cigarette smoking causes lung cancer. In fact, smoking tobacco is the major risk factor for lung cancer. In the United States, about 90% of lung cancer deaths in men and almost 80% of lung cancer deaths in women are due to smoking. People who smoke are 10 to 20 times more likely to get lung cancer or die from lung cancer than people who do not smoke. The longer a person smokes and the more cigarettes smoked each day, the more risk goes up.

    Smoking also causes cancer of the voice box (larynx), mouth and throat, esophagus, bladder, kidney, pancreas, cervix, and stomach, and causes acute myeloid leukemia. Source.

    FACTS: One year after passing smoking bans, communities in North America and Europe had 17 percent fewer heart attacks compared to communities without smoking restrictions, and the number of heart attacks kept decreasing with time, according to a report in Circulation: Journal of the American Heart Association. Source.

    FACTS: If you quit smoking, you will:

    1. Prolong your life. According to the American Heart Association, smokers who quit between ages 35-39 add an average of 6-9 years to their lives. Smokers who quit between ages 65-69 increase their life expectancy by 1 – 4 years.

    2. Reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease. Quitting smoking reduces the risk of repeat heart attacks and death from heart disease by 50 percent or more. Quitting smoking also reduces your risk of high blood pressure, peripheral artery disease and stroke.

    3. Reduce your risk of developing a variety of other conditions including diabetes, lung cancer, throat cancer, emphysema, chronic bronchitis, chronic asthma, ulcers, gum disease and many other conditions.

    4. Feel healthier. After quitting, you won’t cough as much, have as many sore throats and you will increase your energy.

    5. Look and feel better. Quitting can help you prevent face wrinkles, get rid of stained teeth, improve your skin and even get rid of the stale smell in your clothes and hair.

    6. Improve your sense of taste and smell.

    7. Save money. Source.

    FACTS: What Happens When You Quit:

    After 20 minutes
    o You stop polluting the air
    o Your blood pressure and pulse decrease
    o The temperature of your hands and feet increases

    After 8 hours
    o The carbon monoxide level in your blood returns to normal
    o Oxygen levels in your blood increase

    After 24 hours
    o Your risk of heart attack decreases

    After 48 hours
    o Nerve endings adjust to the absence of nicotine
    o Your ability to taste and smell begin to return

    After 2 weeks to 3 months
    o Your circulation improves
    o Your exercise tolerance improves

    After 1 – 9 months
    o Coughing, sinus congestion, fatigue and shortness of breath decrease
    o Your overall energy level increases

    After 1 year
    o Your risk of heart disease decreases to half that of a current smoker

    After 5 – 15 years
    o Your risk of stroke is reduced to that of people who have never smoked

    After 10 years
    o Your risk of dying from lung cancer drops to almost the same rate as a lifelong non- smoker
    o You decrease the incidence of other cancers — of the mouth, larynx, esophagus, bladder, kidney and pancreas

    After 15 years
    o Your risk of heart disease is reduced to that of people who have never smoked

    If you smoke again (called a relapse) do not lose hope. Seventy-five percent of those who quit relapse. Most smokers quit three times before they are successful. If you relapse, don’t give up! Review the reasons why you wanted to become a nonsmoker. Plan ahead and think about what you will do next time you get the urge to smoke. Source.

    2. Maintain a Healthy Body Weight

    QUESTION: How many people get cancer by being overweight or obese? How many die?

    FACTS: In 2002, about 41,000 new cases of cancer in the United States were estimated to be due to obesity. This means that about 3.2 percent of all new cancers are linked to obesity.

    A recent report estimated that, in the United States, 14 percent of deaths from cancer in men and 20 percent of deaths in women were due to overweight and obesity.

    Colon cancer occurs more frequently in people who are obese than in those of a healthy weight. An increased risk of colon cancer has been consistently reported for men with high BMIs.
    Source.

    FACTS: Research has shown that as weight increases to reach the levels referred to as “overweight” and “obesity,” the risks for the following conditions also increases:

    * Coronary heart disease
    * Type 2 diabetes
    * Cancers (endometrial, breast, and colon)
    * Hypertension (high blood pressure)
    * Dyslipidemia (for example, high total cholesterol or high levels of triglycerides)
    * Stroke
    * Liver and Gallbladder disease
    * Sleep apnea and respiratory problems
    * Osteoarthritis (a degeneration of cartilage and its underlying bone within a joint)
    * Gynecological problems (abnormal menses, infertility) Source.

    3. Eat Whole Foods, Not Processed

    FACTS: The statistics are alarming:

    – One in three people will get cancer at some time in their life

    – Heart disease is the leading cause of death

    – Poor nutrition and physical inactivity together are the second
    actual cause of preventable death in the United States

    On the other hand new evidence shows that:

    – Eating five or more fruits and vegetables per day cuts cancer
    risk in half

    – People who eat more fruits and vegetables have a 30% lower risk
    of premature heart attack than people who eat a few

    – About 25% fewer strokes are projected for adults who eat 8 or
    more servings of fruits and vegetables per day

    – Fruits and vegetables may help keep blood sugar down and control diabetes.” Source.

    FACTS: Processed meat consumption results in 67% increase in pancreatic cancer risk.
    Source.

    FACTS: Inorganic phosphates are found in a variety of processed foods, including meats, cheeses, beverages and bakery products. They are added to increase water retention and improve food texture. Studies suggests a diet high in inorganic phosphates could speed growth of cancerous tumors and contribute to the development of tumors in those predisposed to the disease. Source.

    FACTS: Carcinogens in foods that may be naturally-occurring, caused by preparing or cooking certain foods, or added to it, include safrole, estragole and benzene. Processed foods such as sausages, bacon and canned meats contain high amounts of the preservative nitrite, another known carcinogen. Other carcinogens to look for in food products include:

    * acetaldehyde
    * acetamide
    * azo color and compounds
    * benzidine
    * bis (2-Chloromethyl) ether
    * cadmium
    * chlorinated parraffin waxes
    * 3,3-dichlorobenzidine
    * dichloromethane
    * hexachlorobenzene
    * polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons
    * polychlorinated dibenzodioxins
    * polychlorinated dibenzofurans
    * sillica
    * trichloroethylene

    Though it is impossible to avoid every known carcinogen, to decrease risk of cancers and other illnesses, a balanced diet with more unprocessed, whole foods can decrease risk of some cancers and other diseases such as type two diabetes and heart disease. Source.

    FACTS: Nutrients in Whole Foods that Protect Against Cancer:

    1. Vitamin A: Strengthens the immune system. Essential for mineral metabolism and endocrine function. Helps detoxify. True vitamin A is found only in animal foods such as cod liver oil; fish and shellfish; and liver, butter and egg yolks from pasture-fed animals. Traditional diets contained ten times more vitamin A than the typical modern American diet.

    2. Vitamin C: An important antioxidant that prevents damage by free radicals. Found in many fruits and vegetables but also in certain organ meats valued by primitive peoples.

    3. Vitamin B6: Deficiencies are associated with cancer. Contributes to the function of over 100 enzymes. Most available from animal foods.

    4. Vitamin B12: Deficiencies are associated with cancer. Found only in animal foods.

    5. Vitamin B17: Protects against cancer. Found in a variety of organically grown grains, legumes, nuts and berries.

    6. Vitamin D: Required for mineral absorption. Strongly protective against breast and colon cancer. Found only in animal foods such as cod liver oil, lard, shellfish and butterfat, organ meats and egg yolks from grass-fed animals. Traditional diets contained ten times more vitamin D than the typical modern American diet.

    7. Vitamin E: Works as an antioxidant at the cellular level. Found in unprocessed oils as well as in animal fats like butter and egg yolks.

    8. Conjugated Linoleic Acid (CLA): Strongly protective against breast cancer. Found in the butterfat and meat fat of grass-fed ruminant animals.

    9. Cholesterol: A potent antioxidant that protects against free radicals in cell membranes. Found only in animal foods.

    10. Minerals: The body needs generous amounts of a wide variety of minerals to protect itself against cancer. Minerals like zinc, magnesium and selenium are vital components of enzymes that help the body fight carcinogens. Minerals are more easily absorbed from animal foods.

    11. Lactic Acid and Friendly Bacteria: Contribute to the health of the digestive tract. Found in old fashioned lacto-fermented foods.

    12. Saturated Fats: Strengthen the immune system. Needed for proper use of the essential fatty acids. The lungs cannot function without saturated fats. Found mostly in animal foods.

    13. Long-Chain Fatty Acids: Arachidonic acid (AA), eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexaenoic acid (DHA) help fight cancer on the cellular level. They are found mostly in animal foods such as butter, organ meats, cod liver oil and seafood.

    14. Co-enzyme Q10: Highly protective against cancer. Found only in animal foods. Source.

    In closing: I truly hope that you will begin living these simple lifestyle changes. If you are non-smoker, not obese, and already eating whole foods, then I challenge you to help to spread this message to as many people as you can. All of the suffering and the disease mentioned above is not necessary. It can be prevented.

7 Comments

  1. Nothing wrong with making cash for things you truly recommend. If readers trust you (which they do) they will have no issues with your recommendations.

    I’m nearly 3 years old, well my blog and I am close to making a surviving salary from it…. I have no problems with that and will continue to push quality content and revenue through hinest and transparent ways.

    1. @Forest – Thank you so much for your comment & more importantly, for your support. It means so much to be that even one person is behind me in this journey. I am so grateful to have this space & this ability to interact with such lovely people.

      I hadn’t realized that your blog was 3 years old — that is amazing. I can not imagine what a history and love you must have with it. I am really grateful to have you here & to have your guidance.

  2. Dena, at one point I think lots of people set out to make a little dough on their blogs. A very small amount of people actually ever do. I tried and failed after years of effort. I got my traffic ridiculously high with SEO and what not… all I got was certain lessons on networking, blogging and the absolutely pleasure of writing to an actual audience out of it… was it worth it? Absolutely! 🙂

    Keep it up. Love your writing and positivity!

    1. @JR – Thanks for the comment and for sharing your story. I’ve thought about messing with SEO & trying to generate more traffic, etc. However, I’ve decided against it for now. The way I feel is that what is meant to be will be. I have a plan to get much more active here in the not-so-distant future. For now, my focus is creating quality content & helping me people create happiness. If I start thinking about money too much, I know that could jeopardize my goals.

      Your kinds words mean so much to be, I am so glad that you like my writing & positivity. It is words like that, that make the effort I put into this all worth it. Thank you!

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