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Family Camping

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Back in February, we (my sister, my friend Kristyn, and myself) agreed that we would take a camping trip this spring. Being the planner that I am, I researched a few options and decided upon a local campground where we spent many summers as girls. We hadn’t been there in twenty years and returning after all this time filled me with a joy & nostalgia that brought tears to my eyes. Most fascinating & wonderful of all, is the fact that the place hasn’t changed a bit! It’s like a magic place where time stands still. I was so happy to re-discover it.

After the long, terrible winter — and after all of the challenges that my family has seen this past year — this trip was a beautiful, magical breath of fresh air. It was everything that we needed and more. I could go on and on about it, but I’ll let the photographs do the talking. I’ll weave a few stories throughout.

Day 1

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I don’t have any shots from the night that we arrived because we were running late and didn’t arrive until 7 pm. Plus, it torrentially poured that first night. We stayed in our cabin, ate pasta salad, drank beer & wine and talked into the night. Because of the anxiety of packing, traveling, and arriving — I didn’t sleep much that night. I woke up frazzled & foggy on that first day, but it turned out to be lovely. It rained on and off throughout the day, but the sun always came out at just the right times.

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We stayed in two little cabins — my family & Kristyn in one and my sister’s family in the other. We had the whole site to ourselves which was lovely and allowed us free reign over the grill & fire pit.

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The beach and boating dock were just a minute’s walk from our site.

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^^^ My new favourite picture of us. ♥ ^^^

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We saw lots of wildlife on the trip — all kinds of insects & spiders, snakes, frogs, chipmunks, raccoons, and turtles. Luckily we didn’t see any bears.

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Matthew was happily in charge of firewood and campfires. He and my sisters fiance, Brian, took turns being grill master.

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All of the rains stranded thousands of tadpoles in little gullies along the beach. My sister and little Brian worked to save as many as they could and set them back into the lake.

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^^^ A very curious little camper, indeed ^^^

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We didn’t see any beaver on our trip, but their handiwork was evident. It was fascinating to see the beaver-chewed trees, you could even see their teethmarks in the wood! I had never seen this in-person before.

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On the evening of our first full day, we had chicken/shrimp/veggie kabobs for supper along with sides of corn and pasta salad. I had prepared all of the kabob ingredients at home before we left and all we had to do was warm them up on the grill. It was the perfect camping food and I’ll do a how-to post soon.family camping

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After dinner, and more rain, the skies cleared. We roasted s’mores over the campfire and took a walk down to the lake.

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Little Brian was the best fisherman of the bunch.

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Day 2

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When we woke up on the morning of the second day, the sun was shining and the air had begun to warm. It was a perfect day for camping.

One of the things that surprised and delighted me throughout the trip was Roman’s behavior. I knew that he was going to love camping — the outdoors and his cousins are two of his favourite things — but I didn’t know just how much he would love it. That boy was in his element for sure.

Leading up to our trip, I was worried about whether or not he would sleep. It was only his second time sleeping away from home (the first time he was just three-months-old) and he never sleeps anywhere other than in his car seat or his crib. So, I didn’t know what to expect. Truth-be-told, I was terrified. Alas, I had nothing to worry about. He slept like a champ! He went down for all of his naps and slept through the night with an occasional midnight nursing. I’ll write more about tips for getting baby to sleep away from home soon.

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^^^ Here we are, the whole gang! ^^^

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^^^ my favourite camp-themed bunting from birdie baby boutique ^^^

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I brought along prizes for my nephew Brian for each day. One day it was a ping-pong set, one day it was sidewalk chalk, and one day it was a jumping frogs game. Brian is five-years-old and for four years, he was the only child in our family. Adjusting to having his baby brother, Aden, and his baby cousin, Roman, around has been tough on him at times. I love to encourage his good behavior with little treats and also to remind him how special he is, too.

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On this afternoon, M., Big Brian, and Little Brian went out on a row boat to do some fishing. They caught a few fish, but their most exciting catch of the day was a giant snapping turtle! It swam up to the boat, attacked the oars, and got its front paw stuck on a fishing hook! Unsure of what else to do, the guys towed him in toward shore. When one of the lifeguards saw what was happening, she said, “That’s old Lockjaw!” Apparently this snapping turtle is famous around these parts. The boys were thrilled and didn’t stop talking about Lockjaw for the rest of the trip.

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family campingWe put the little boys in their pajamas and headed out for a sunset/twilight stroll.

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Day 3

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The third day was the most gorgeous day weather-wise. The temperature went up to the low eighties and it was perfect for the sun, sand, and water. My sister and her crew packed up early & headed out to attend a barbecue elsewhere. We stayed on to bring Roman to the beach for his first play in the sand and dip in the water. It was so exciting and definitely a highlight of the trip for me and M. We’ve long been looking forward to putting Roman in the water. He enjoys bath time so much and we’ve wondered how he would do in “big” water.

I placed him down at the water’s edge and waited to see what he would do. He took off like a bolt of lightning straight into the water, headfirst. He loved it. He splashed and giggled and loved every moment.

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All in all, it was one of the best trips of my life. I am so grateful to get to experience the magic of the world again, and this time with my little boy by my side. I am also grateful to have such an amazing group of family & friends to cherish these memories with. I can’t wait to do it again.


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    Tired of Conflict Bringing You Down?

    Dealing With Conflict

    Conflict takes many forms—misunderstanding, frustration, ignorance, hatred, envy, and so on—but despite the cause, the result is largely the same: someone walks away with hurt feelings.

    The truth is, however, that this is not necessary. You can choose to be unaffected by conflict. It is not an easy thing to accomplish. You have, after all, lived your life believing that conflict equals pain. But with practice & patience you can learn to live above conflict in a place of true peace.

    “True peace can not be disturbed by gain or loss.”

    The reason that conflict hurts us is because we allow it to. Most pain comes from another person(s) or from our own minds. The key to being unaffected by conflict is to understand that anything that another person says to us (out of anger, frustration, etc.) is actually a reflection of her feelings about herself and is rooted in fear. Likewise, anything that our mind says to us (self-criticism, self-hatred, etc.) is also rooted in fear. All forms of discomfort—sadness, anxiety, worry, rage, hatred, envy, and so on—are rooted in fear.

    When you accept that angry words are actually reflections of fear, it makes them much less painful to tolerate. Even the angriest and most cruel of arguments is based in fear & insecurity.

    For example, you have a large project due at work. You bring it into your boss’s office an hour prior to the deadline. She notices that it is riddled with errors. Her face turns red and she begins to scream. “You idiot! How could you be so stupid? This is unacceptable. I can not believe I ever hired you. Get out!”

    On one hand, you are devastated. Her words have stung you at your core. You are insulted, sad, angry, afraid. But if you really stop to analyze the situation, why do you think she acted this way? Most likely, she is afraid. Most likely, she is terrified about the way that your “failure” is going to reflect on her. After all, wasn’t it her who hired you, gave you this assignment, failed to give you proper instruction, and so on? What will her boss think when she turns this project into him? Her explosion was based in fear.

    Another example, it is Saturday afternoon and you are sitting on the couch. Your husband comes in the door and notices that you have not swept the floors. He begins to speak angrily, “Haven’t you swept the floors? Didn’t you see this dirt? You’ve been so lazy recently.” You are crushed and devastated. How could he be so mean? But then again, you stop and analyze. The lawn is not mowed, the gutters are uncleaned, there are piles of crap strewn about the yard. Your husband is insecure about all of his unfinished chores and is projecting his self-frustration onto you. His remarks were based in fear and insecurity.

    If you take the time to truly analyze, you will find that almost every conflict is rooted in fear. Therefore, the vast majority of hurtful things that are ever said to you actually have absolutely nothing to do with you. This is an incredibly liberating concept (not to be confused with the rare scenario when you are actually wrong by the way). Still, just because the other person’s (or even your own self-inflicted) anger is based in fear, that still doesn’t make it right. Yes, perhaps both your boss and your husband were entirely out of line. It is alright for you to tell them so, but what is more important is the way that you process the conflict within yourself.

    Most people internalize the conflict. In any case, you take what was said and push it deep within yourself. Perhaps you believe the other person words. “Yes, I am lazy, stupid, ugly, etc.” The conflict turns into emotional pain and festers within you eventually becoming depression, anxiety, and so on. But as I mentioned at the start, none of that is necessary.

    You must accept the conflict (words) for what they are—someone else’s (or even your own mind’s) fears and insecurities. Fear is nothing to be afraid of or affected by. Most fear is completely unnecessary (read more about that).

    After the conflict, words, and judgments have passed, simply allow all of it to pass through and around you like water or air. Understand that it is something outside of you, that has nothing to do with you at all. It is not inside of you, it did not come from you, and you do not have to absorb it. Simply let it pass and then move on.

    Holding onto the pain of conflict is insane and unnatural. What do the birds do after the great storm has passed? They sing, of course! You will never hear the birds singing so sweetly and so loudly as they do after the storm has passed and the sun shines again. They do not mourn the broken nest, the wet feathers, or the lost supper. They simply sing and praise the light in gratitude. They rejoice that the sun has come again.

    In his book, The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment, Eckhart Tolle talks about his observation of duck fights. Two ducks approach one another. They squawk in anger for mere seconds. Then they turn away from one another, flap their great wings a few times, and swim on as if it never happened. This is true wisdom, true peace, in action. There is so much that we can learn from this simple observation.

    There is really no need to hold onto anger or discomfort. There is really no need to suffer. In life, you will find many reason to suffer. But a good reason to suffer, you will never find. Let conflicts pass through and around you. Do not hold onto them. You will almost always find that it never has anything to do with you anyway.

11 Comments

  1. These pictures are beautiful! I especially love the one of just you! So pretty mama! These photos got me excited for our camping trip in a few weeks! So glad you guys had such a great time!

  2. What a magical trip! You seriously look so happy and at peace, ‘specially in the photo of you and Roman.

    I love the campsite too! I never did much camping out in the west coast and if we did it was in the desert and swimming was at the ocean beach. I’m not used to lush forests with lakes and their sandy beaches that you find on the east coast. You’ve definitely got me jonesing to go camping now!

    1. The forests around here are truly beautiful. I try really hard not to take them for granted. Thanks. 🙂

  3. It looks like you guys had so much fun, I’m so glad the trip went well for you, especially with everything you’ve been dealing with the past few months.

  4. Such a wonderful post. Thank you so much for linking up to Lets Have An Adventure! Your photos are a delight and what a wonderful trip. Love it x

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