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Family Camping

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Back in February, we (my sister, my friend Kristyn, and myself) agreed that we would take a camping trip this spring. Being the planner that I am, I researched a few options and decided upon a local campground where we spent many summers as girls. We hadn’t been there in twenty years and returning after all this time filled me with a joy & nostalgia that brought tears to my eyes. Most fascinating & wonderful of all, is the fact that the place hasn’t changed a bit! It’s like a magic place where time stands still. I was so happy to re-discover it.

After the long, terrible winter — and after all of the challenges that my family has seen this past year — this trip was a beautiful, magical breath of fresh air. It was everything that we needed and more. I could go on and on about it, but I’ll let the photographs do the talking. I’ll weave a few stories throughout.

Day 1

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I don’t have any shots from the night that we arrived because we were running late and didn’t arrive until 7 pm. Plus, it torrentially poured that first night. We stayed in our cabin, ate pasta salad, drank beer & wine and talked into the night. Because of the anxiety of packing, traveling, and arriving — I didn’t sleep much that night. I woke up frazzled & foggy on that first day, but it turned out to be lovely. It rained on and off throughout the day, but the sun always came out at just the right times.

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We stayed in two little cabins — my family & Kristyn in one and my sister’s family in the other. We had the whole site to ourselves which was lovely and allowed us free reign over the grill & fire pit.

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The beach and boating dock were just a minute’s walk from our site.

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^^^ My new favourite picture of us. ♥ ^^^

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We saw lots of wildlife on the trip — all kinds of insects & spiders, snakes, frogs, chipmunks, raccoons, and turtles. Luckily we didn’t see any bears.

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Matthew was happily in charge of firewood and campfires. He and my sisters fiance, Brian, took turns being grill master.

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All of the rains stranded thousands of tadpoles in little gullies along the beach. My sister and little Brian worked to save as many as they could and set them back into the lake.

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^^^ A very curious little camper, indeed ^^^

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We didn’t see any beaver on our trip, but their handiwork was evident. It was fascinating to see the beaver-chewed trees, you could even see their teethmarks in the wood! I had never seen this in-person before.

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On the evening of our first full day, we had chicken/shrimp/veggie kabobs for supper along with sides of corn and pasta salad. I had prepared all of the kabob ingredients at home before we left and all we had to do was warm them up on the grill. It was the perfect camping food and I’ll do a how-to post soon.family camping

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After dinner, and more rain, the skies cleared. We roasted s’mores over the campfire and took a walk down to the lake.

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Little Brian was the best fisherman of the bunch.

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Day 2

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When we woke up on the morning of the second day, the sun was shining and the air had begun to warm. It was a perfect day for camping.

One of the things that surprised and delighted me throughout the trip was Roman’s behavior. I knew that he was going to love camping — the outdoors and his cousins are two of his favourite things — but I didn’t know just how much he would love it. That boy was in his element for sure.

Leading up to our trip, I was worried about whether or not he would sleep. It was only his second time sleeping away from home (the first time he was just three-months-old) and he never sleeps anywhere other than in his car seat or his crib. So, I didn’t know what to expect. Truth-be-told, I was terrified. Alas, I had nothing to worry about. He slept like a champ! He went down for all of his naps and slept through the night with an occasional midnight nursing. I’ll write more about tips for getting baby to sleep away from home soon.

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^^^ Here we are, the whole gang! ^^^

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^^^ my favourite camp-themed bunting from birdie baby boutique ^^^

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I brought along prizes for my nephew Brian for each day. One day it was a ping-pong set, one day it was sidewalk chalk, and one day it was a jumping frogs game. Brian is five-years-old and for four years, he was the only child in our family. Adjusting to having his baby brother, Aden, and his baby cousin, Roman, around has been tough on him at times. I love to encourage his good behavior with little treats and also to remind him how special he is, too.

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On this afternoon, M., Big Brian, and Little Brian went out on a row boat to do some fishing. They caught a few fish, but their most exciting catch of the day was a giant snapping turtle! It swam up to the boat, attacked the oars, and got its front paw stuck on a fishing hook! Unsure of what else to do, the guys towed him in toward shore. When one of the lifeguards saw what was happening, she said, “That’s old Lockjaw!” Apparently this snapping turtle is famous around these parts. The boys were thrilled and didn’t stop talking about Lockjaw for the rest of the trip.

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family campingWe put the little boys in their pajamas and headed out for a sunset/twilight stroll.

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Day 3

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The third day was the most gorgeous day weather-wise. The temperature went up to the low eighties and it was perfect for the sun, sand, and water. My sister and her crew packed up early & headed out to attend a barbecue elsewhere. We stayed on to bring Roman to the beach for his first play in the sand and dip in the water. It was so exciting and definitely a highlight of the trip for me and M. We’ve long been looking forward to putting Roman in the water. He enjoys bath time so much and we’ve wondered how he would do in “big” water.

I placed him down at the water’s edge and waited to see what he would do. He took off like a bolt of lightning straight into the water, headfirst. He loved it. He splashed and giggled and loved every moment.

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All in all, it was one of the best trips of my life. I am so grateful to get to experience the magic of the world again, and this time with my little boy by my side. I am also grateful to have such an amazing group of family & friends to cherish these memories with. I can’t wait to do it again.


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    Three years ago, I was nearly $60,000 in debt. I had a Bachelor’s degree that didn’t appear to be worth its weight in salt and a job that couldn’t cover a fraction of my monthly bills. I was terrified.

    Today, I am closer to complete financial freedom than I ever dreamed possible. Last week, I paid off my last remaining credit card balance. This two-part post is a celebration of this incredible milestone in my journey.

    In part one, I explained how I got to that terrible place. In part two, I will explain how I’m getting out of it (and how you can do it, too).

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    1. Change the way you think about spending money. For most of my life, I believed that money was made to be spent. I believed that I *deserved* to spend every dollar that I earned on some material thing that would “make me happy.” I coveted material possessions—clothes, jewelry, electronics, cars. What I realize now is that money is not meant to be spent. You only need to earn enough money to survive. You should have enough money to buy only what you need. There is no need for excess.

    “You’re not your job. You’re not how much money you have in the bank. You’re not the car you drive. You’re not the contents of your wallet. You’re not your fuc*ing khakis.” (Fight Club)

    This shift in mindset is hard to adjust to at first. You may not like the reactions that you receive from people. Believe me, I’ve been called cheap a few times, but I pay no mind to it. I would choose cheap over poor any day.

    2. Keep a budget. I highly recommend using Mint.com. I started using it in September and it has been one of the most transformational and useful tools throughout my journey to financial freedom. It allows you to sync up all of your accounts (loans, checking, savings, etc.) in one place. Then it keeps track of every transaction that you make and sorts/organizes all of the data for you. It allows you to track your spending over time and by category. It gives you incredible perspective and insight about where your money goes each month/year. It has been a truly eye-opening experience for me.

    If you’re unwilling to try Mint, you can keep a budget on a spread sheet or even by hand. However, the important thing is to be completely conscious about where every dollar you spend is going.

    3. Use a debit card. To reap the full Mint.com experience you should use a debit card for every purchase you make. Using the debit card will automatically flag each transaction you make into the appropriate category. So if you go to Shoprite, it will get marked as groceries. If you go to Home Depot it will get marked as home. If you stop at the gas station it will get marked as automobile, and so on.

    I use my debit card (linked to my checking account) for almost every single transaction that I make. I also have all of my monthly bills (like my auto insurance, utilities, and gym membership) automatically debited from the same checking account each month. It makes keeping track of my spending that much easier. Plus, I do not like dealing with cash. The debit card is quick, easy, and is accepted almost everywhere now.

    Whether or not you use Mint.com it is a good idea to use a debit card simply because you can review all of your purchases and purchase amounts on your monthly statement. Trying to keep track of receipts is a hassle that I don’t have time for.

    4. Pay off credit cards and cut them up. Paying off my credit cards was my first priority. For awhile I tried “credit card surfing.” Let me just tell you from experience, it’s overrated and it really doesn’t work. The idea is that you surf from credit card to credit card by transferring balances. A lot of companies will give you 0% APR for 6 months if you transfer your balances over to them. After the 6 months, you “surf” to a new card with another promotional rate.

    The problem with this tactic is that it gets messy quickly, it becomes difficult to keep up with, and if you lose track you will end up getting burned by high APRs, finance fees, cancellation fees, etc. Also, it probably doesn’t look great on your credit report if you’re opening up a new card every 6 months or so.

    It is much safer and wiser to just stop using credit cards! My theory is simple and has taken me very far: If you can not afford to buy it, then you can not afford it. Period. It is simple logic.

    5. Eat in. This is one of the easiest changes to make, but it also comes with an enormous, positive impact. When I started closely tracking my spending habits, I was shocked to see how much I was spending on eating out. A meal at a decent restaurant goes for about $25 per person. If you eat out twice a week, that is $3,120 a year. If you grab lunch out during the work week, it’s about $8 a day. That’s $2,080 a year. Put those together and you could be spending $5,200 a year or more on dining out! That is outrageous and completely unnecessary.

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    When you direct deposit the funds, it comes out automatically. It is painless because you don’t have to do a thing. Because it’s automatic, after awhile you don’t even notice that it’s missing. (I remember reading that on another blog several months ago and thinking, “Are you out of your mind?! I’m not going to miss it? Yea right!”) But I can honestly say that after a few months, you adjust to the missing money. You truly do not miss it once it becomes normal for that amount to be deposited into savings automatically each month.

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    As I stated at the start of this post, three years ago I was almost $60,000 in debt; I was twenty-three years old; and I was scared to death. Today, I have my finances under control! I am on the road to financial freedom and you can get here, too. Truly, it is not as hard as it seems. With common sense and a bit of dedication, it will happen. Paying off my last credit card balance was like taking chains off of my wrists for the first time in seven years. The feeling was completely priceless. If I can do it, anybody can.

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11 Comments

  1. These pictures are beautiful! I especially love the one of just you! So pretty mama! These photos got me excited for our camping trip in a few weeks! So glad you guys had such a great time!

  2. What a magical trip! You seriously look so happy and at peace, ‘specially in the photo of you and Roman.

    I love the campsite too! I never did much camping out in the west coast and if we did it was in the desert and swimming was at the ocean beach. I’m not used to lush forests with lakes and their sandy beaches that you find on the east coast. You’ve definitely got me jonesing to go camping now!

    1. The forests around here are truly beautiful. I try really hard not to take them for granted. Thanks. 🙂

  3. It looks like you guys had so much fun, I’m so glad the trip went well for you, especially with everything you’ve been dealing with the past few months.

  4. Such a wonderful post. Thank you so much for linking up to Lets Have An Adventure! Your photos are a delight and what a wonderful trip. Love it x

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