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The Simple Equation for Fitness

Let’s talk about physical health, particularly our physical bodies and body weight, also called fitness. I could write a novel on this topic, you know. I have run the gamut on it. In my lifetime, I have been everything from obese all the way to the picture of health with nearly 0% body fat. And of course, I have been everywhere in between those two places, as well.

Fitness and Healing

14 years ago when I first started writing about health and wellness online, the landscape was vastly different. Social media was still fairly new and wellness influencers were not constantly in your face as they are today. Back then I started writing because I had an important story to tell. I had overcome a lifetime of mental illness and borderline obesity, and I had gotten healthy. When I look back at the first exhaustive post that I wrote on this topic here, Spiritual Wealth = Physical Health, I can see that I had a pretty good understanding of how I got healthy and why, but I was still young and I had a lot more to learn. Back then, I still did not grasp the depth of my personal trauma. Memories of some of the most traumatic childhood experiences that I endured would not surface for another 10 years, so I could not possibly understand, back then, how deep my wounds were and how all of that tied into my ability to be healthy.

The equation for fitness is extraordinarily simple. Anyone can get fit, lose or gain weight, lose or gain muscle, and so on, very easily, by following a very simple equation. And I will share that equation with you in this post. However, the reason why it isn’t just “that simple” is because for many people, lack of knowledge, broken belief systems, trauma and mental illness all factor into the equation, too. Knowing the “simple equation” to achieve fitness is completely worthless if you live in a body that is still working through trauma and living with a mind that is yet incapable of understanding the roadblocks in your path.

You can achieve fitness by following simple equations and taking simple actions, but if you are not also working on healing your personal traumas, no changes will be lasting. You will do more harm than good if you prioritize fitness over true, holistic healing.

Before I proceed, let me reiterate–as you embark on a plan to achieve fitness, weight loss, muscle gain or any other physical aspiration, make certain that you are already on a holistic healing path; or, make sure that you are embarking on a holistic healing path simultaneously. You will never have one without the other. Fitness and healing go hand-in-hand, and even the most well-adjusted, mentally healthy people in this world have healing to do.

The Simple Equations for Fitness

Of course fitness is a relative term. We all have a our own definition of what fit looks like and feels like. So we can take that into consideration. But for the vast majority of people, fitness goals fall into 1 of 3 primary areas: 1. to lose weight, 2. to gain weight/muscle or 3. to maintain fitness.

The Equation for Weight Loss or Gain
First, let’s talk about the equation for losing weight. To lose weight, you must burn more calories than you consume. See, I told you it was simple. That is the equation to lose weight. You must simply burn more calories than you consume. What are calories? Calories are units of energy that are released when your body breaks down (digests and absorbs) food. The more calories a food has, the more energy it can provide to your body. If you eat more calories than you burn in a given day, your body will store the extra calories as body fat and you will gain weight. If you eat less calories than you burn in a given day, your body will burn body fat and you will lose weight. If you eat just as many calories as you burn in a given day, you will maintain your weight.

As I said, and as you can now see, it is incredibly simple. The challenge for most people is that they are just eating and not paying attention to this process. Most people don’t know how many calories they eat in a day and how many calories they burn in a day. If you become aware of these things and simply start eating the correct amount of calories, and burning the correct amount of calories, you will lose weight. People complicate this matter and consider what kind of food they’re eating, what diet they follow, and so on. But all of those things are irrelevant when it comes to weight. You will gain or lose weight according to the amount of calories that you eat and burn, it doesn’t matter what kind of food it is.

To illustrate, let’s say you burn about 2,000 calories a day, which is the average for most people. If you eat 1,500 calories a day, and you burn 2,000, you will lose weight because that is a 500 calorie deficit. It doesn’t matter if you eat 1,500 calories worth of vegetables, 1,500 calories worth of meat, or 1,500 calories of chocolate or anything in between. Calories are calories. Yes, the food choices that you make will effect your health in other ways, but that is a conversation for another day. I’ve also written about this in the past, see these past posts for more: Whole Foods and Raw Foods. But if your goal is to lose weight, remember that calories are calories no matter where they come from. If you are only burning 2,000 calories a day, but you are eating 4,000 calories worth of broccoli a day, you will still gain weight.

Personally, I have had 3 episodes of substantial weight loss in my life. The first was when I was 21-years-old and I lost 70 pounds after being overweight most of my young life. The second was after my first 2 pregnancies and my divorce, when I was about 32-years-old and I lost about 60 pounds. And the third, is right now, when I am in the process of losing the 30 extra pounds that I gained in my twin pregnancy and the difficult postpartum year that followed. I have already lost 10 of those pounds and I have another 20 to go. Because I am in a mentally healthy place and I am following a simple program that has worked remarkably well for me twice before, this weight loss is happening fairly easily. I will share the exact details of this program in my next post if you are interested.

The Equation for Muscle Gain
The equation for muscle gain is a bit more complicated than the one for weight loss or gain, but in theory it is also simple. Muscle size increases when a person continually challenges the muscles to deal with higher levels of resistance or weight. This process is known as muscle hypertrophy. Muscle hypertrophy occurs when the fibers of the muscles sustain damage or injury. The body repairs damaged fibers by fusing them, which increases the mass and size of the muscles.

So, in order to gain muscle, first you continually challenge the muscles through weight lifting or exercise, and second you eat enough calories, and particularly enough protein. The exact equation for this varies vastly from person to person, but on average, consuming 20 grams of dietary protein during or immediately after exercise stimulates muscle protein synthesis, and leads to optimal muscle growth. If you want to dive further into this equation, just do a quick search and you will find a ton of resources.

The Equation for Maintaining Fitness
Maintaining fitness requires 1. eating the same amount of calories that you burn each day, and 2. continuing to challenge the muscles that you have built through adequate exercise.

And there you have it, the basic equations for weight loss, weight gain, and maintenance, and muscle building and muscle maintenance. Of course these are simple equations in theory, but in practice these ideas can be very complicated. Still, understanding these basics is the first step to establishing any sort of lasting fitness.

As I mentioned earlier, back when I started my own journey to wellness–about 2 decades ago!–the landscape of social media was very different. It was not like it is today where you have supposed “paths to fitness” constantly pushed in your face from every direction. Today someone will try to sell you a pill, a powder, or a plan every minute of the day and each person will swear they have the answer for you.

But the truth is that there is no magic solution! The solution is to educate yourself on what it actually takes to achieve the fitness that you want, and then figure out what you need to do to make it happen. I’ve never gone down the road of muscle building, although I did get pretty strong when I had a solid yoga practice and I would like to do that again soon. So I can’t teach anyone how to build muscle, etc. However I have lost a lot of weight a few times successfully and I can absolutely share the way that I did it. So that will be coming right up in my next post.

If you have any questions on this topic, please send them to me so that I can answer them in my next post, as well. Also, I am considering doing a third post in this series which would talk about trauma and fitness. Let me know if you would be interested in that as well. xo

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    Review: The Power of Now

    The Power of Now had been on my “to-read” list for years when, by a stroke of fate, a dear friend offered to lend me her audio copy. Based on my general understanding of the book and its content (prior to reading it) I felt that I would enjoy it; however, I was completely unprepared for the way that the book would speak to me, transform my perspective, and change my life.

    The Unreal Past & Future

    In The Power of Now, we learn that to live in the future or the past is to suffer. The only way to exist in true harmony is to live in the now. After all, the past is not real, the future is not real. The past and the future only exist in our minds.

    When I first heard this concept I refused to believe or comprehend it. Of course my past is real, I thought. Of course my future is real, too. How dare someone suggest that it is not? My ego lashed out; but then I thought more about it. I listened, opened my mind, and realized that it was true. I am going to ask you to walk through an exercise with me to help you understand.

    Let’s recall a memory in which you are eating something. Let’s say, for example, it’s a hot summer day and you’re licking an ice cream cone. Now, where ever you are—right now, present moment, not in the memory—I’d like you to stick your finger right into the ice cream and then throw it to the floor. Can you do that? Can you touch that ice cream cone from your memory? No, of course you can’t (unless you’re on hallucinogenics but that’s another story).

    The fact is that right now you can not touch that ice cream cone and therefore it is not real. It may seem real in your memory—in your mind—but it is not really “real”…not here, not now, not in existence. It is only a memory and it only exists in your mind.

    This principle is also true for the future. Imagine any future scenario in your mind. You win the lottery. You get fired from your job. You purchase a house. You fall off of a cliff. You can play each of those scenes out in your head. You can fill in as much detail as you like. You can mentally experience the future, but the truth remains that the future scenario isn’t “real”. You can’t actually reach out and touch anything in the future right now. The future only exists in your mind.

    When I finally grasped this concept I was shocked & amazed. It seems simple, but somehow I had been missing it for my entire life! To me, the past and the future were as real as the present. The past happened to me. The future was going to happen to me. I held on to these concepts for dear life. But then I realized the truth… the past and the present are not that important. They’re not even real. They are only in my head.

    You might be feeling a bit angry right now. (I know because I was at this point.) You might be thinking, How dare you claim that my past is not real? I’ve suffered, I’ve lived, I’ve triumphed, I’ve done X, Y, and Z. And my future, that is real too! I am going to do things 1, 2, 3, and so on!

    Your Ego Feeds on the Past & Future

    Well, my friend, I am not sorry to break it to you. That voice of anger is fueled by fear and the fear is coming from your ego.

    For your entire life, your ego has been calling the shots. He rules you by fear—fear over your past and fear over your future. So long as you believe in the reality of your past and your future, your ego has control over you. It uses every thing that ever happened in the past against you. It uses everything that you hope to happen in the future against you.

    There is only one way to overcome your ego and that is to live completely in the now. Let go of the past and the future. Be fully present in this moment.

    It is not easy. You’ve spent your entire life ruled by your ego, living in the past and present. But while it’s not easy, it is possible. It’s entirely possible for you to begin living entirely in the present moment, entirely in peace, love, & light, entirely free from the chains of your ego.

    The Power of Now is an excellent book and if you truly listen to every word and practice its teachings in your daily life, you will succeed. It has been quite a journey for me already and I’ve only been on it for a few weeks now! I am experiencing life in ways that I never dreamed possible. You can do it, too.

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    Here are some of my favourite pieces from The Power of Now along with my interpretations of each.

    You have it already. You just can’t feel it because your mind is making too much noise.
    Eckhart Tolle tells us that that many people ask him to “give” them his gift. His response is always the same, You already have it.

    This is entirely true. Each of us already has the immense power of now within. Tolle nor anyone else can “give” that to us—but what he can do (and does in the book) is to show you how to harness the power in your own life.

    Not to be able to stop thinking is a dreadful affliction; but we don’t realize it because almost everyone is suffering from it. So, it is considered normal.
    After reading (listening to) The Power of Now, I realized that yes, the modern human being is suffering from a debilitating disease: compulsive over thinking.

    It is so obvious to me now! How many millions of people are suffering from anxiety, depression, and so on? Most of these individuals are suffering as such simply because of compulsive over thinking.

    When we stop our compulsive, ego-driven thoughts, we live in harmony. Sadly, however, most people just don’t know how to stop those thoughts.

    We must become the silent observer, as Tolle describes in the book. The first step to overcoming the compulsive thoughts is to recognize them, to be the silent observer of your mind.

    To see, but not see. To hear, but not hear.
    Have you ever had a moment, an hour, or a day where you were entirely mindless?

    For example, you are driving along the road completely spaced out from reality and suddenly you “wake up” and you don’t know where your head has been for some stretch of time. You know that you must have been seeing and aware, because you didn’t crash your vehicle. But you weren’t really there. You were seeing but not seeing.

    Another example, you are in conversation with a friend or loved one and you begin zoning out. You hear words coming out of her mouth, but when she finally stops talking, you realize that you have no idea what she just said. You were listening, but you weren’t really there. You were hearing but not hearing.

    This is what it means to see, but not see; to hear, but not hear. It is living life in an unconscious state, on autopilot. Most likely you are daydreaming about the unreal past or future. You can overcome this state of nothingness and time wasting by harnessing the power of now and being fully present in each moment.

    Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is the only chance for the survival of our species.
    “Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is our only chance of survival as a race. This will affect every aspect of your life and close relationships in particular. Never before have relationships been as problematic and conflict ridden as they are now. As you may continue to pursue the goal of salvation through a relationship, you will be disillusioned again and again. But if you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation, and you will be aligning yourself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into this world. For those who hold to the old patterns, there will be increasing pain, violence, confusion, and madness.”

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    I could write ten posts about The Power of Now and I would only begin to scratch the surface. The book is extremely intensive. Tolle’s language is thick and weighted with meaning. The content is formatted as question and answer for the sake of clarity—but it is still heavy reading. As I mentioned earlier, I listened to the audio book and I would highly recommend this format. I have heard that reading the text can be confusing and I can understand why.

    The audio book does span several hours, but it is entirely worth every moment. If you can not afford to buy the audio book, you should consider borrowing it from your local library.

    If you decide to read or have read this book, I would love to hear your thoughts. Whether or not you decide to, I hope that you will consider the ideas that I have shared in this post.

    Thinking about being somewhere else uses up your precious, present moments. Be here now. —Wayne Dyer

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