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Honey Bees + Financial Dreams

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honey bees + financial dreams

honey bees + financial dreams
honey bees + financial dreams

honey bees + financial dreams

Hello, friends! I hope that you are safe and well. Spring has truly sprung here in our little corner of the world. Our garden is beginning to take shape, the earth is awash in color, and the beautiful scent of spring is fresh in the air. It is such a beautiful thing to witness after the long, dark winter that we had. Spring warmth brings it with it so much promise. I am filled with hope at the moment and it’s got me thinking happy thoughts about our family’s long-term goals and dreams. I want to share a little bit more about all of that with you today.

So let’s start at the beginning, with the bees. From the time that I was a girl, I’ve been fascinated with honeybees. Every year my family would travel to the local county fair and I would spend hours in the bee exhibit watching the bees move through the observation hive. In spring, I would wait eagerly for the flowers to bloom so that I could watch the honey bees buzz from blossom to blossom collecting pollen. I have spent a lifetime loving the magic that bees make–from their perfect wax combs, to their sweet golden honey.

About ten years ago, my lifetime love for honeybees manifested into a dream that one day I would have my own honeybee hives. As it happened, my partner Jimmy had that same dream around the same time. But for both of us, life ended up taking unexpected turns that put our honeybee dreams on hold. In the decade that followed we both went through a lot, from marriage, to children, to struggle, to divorce, and finally the difficult process of beginning our lives all over again.

As anyone who has been through it knows, these kinds of life circumstances negatively impact so many areas of your life. Today I will talk about how it can affect your financial life and credit, and more importantly, what you can do to fix it and move forward. Going through a major life change, like a divorce, can lead to so much confusion in terms of your credit. Inaccurate items can pile up on a credit report quickly through the process of separation. Every year millions of Americans are denied loans for homes, cars, and other dreams due to errors on their credit reports. It can take up to four months to correct these errors, which is a lot of time when a person is working to rebuild their life.

There are many ways to move through the process of correcting errors on your credit report, but it can be complex and confusing. This is why our family has chosen Lexington Law Firm to help us navigate the process. Lexington Law understands the complex consumer protection laws that give us the legal right to dispute inaccurate items on our credit reports. They work with the credit bureaus and individual creditors to help people like us understand our rights and use the law to fix credit errors.

honey bees + financial dreams

honey bees + financial dreams
honey bees + financial dreams

We have just recently begun the process of credit repair and correction, but so far it has been going well. We are so excited to move through this process and get our finances exactly where we want them to be so that we can continue to rebuild our lives and make our dreams into our reality. Over the winter, we collected all of the items that we would need to begin our long-time dream of becoming beekeepers. Then, in April, our first two colonies of honeybees arrived. It was so exciting and our hearts were filled with so much joyous gratitude as we watched our mutual long-time beekeeping dream come true. It truly felt like an answered prayer.

Our first couple of months with the bees have been so much fun. They truly are the most incredible little creatures! We have done a lot to practice suburban homesteading here at our home, but one day we would love to expand our efforts further by owning more land. This is why it is so important for us to get our finances in good order. If you find yourself in a similar situation, I know that it can feel daunting to take on the task. But if you find the right team to help you, it is a manageable process–especially if you choose a trusted service provider. We feel assured knowing that Lexington Law is the oldest and most respected name in credit repair, and has the legal experience and technology to both advocate and drive results for its clients. We can rest easy knowing that we are working with professionals that have a deep knowledge of consumer protection laws and know how to leverage them for our benefit.

honey bees + financial dreams
honey bees + financial dreams

One of our primary goals through this process will be to push both of our credit scores into excellent levels. We want to grow our homesteading projects and that will take more land to make this dream come true. We would love to expand our bee hives and gardens, get lots more chickens, and one day even get goats and pigs. Some of these dreams are possible here at our home in the suburbs, but others will require more space.

We don’t want anything to hold us back from pursuing these dreams, especially not something like credit that can be fixed with the right tools. We will be working with Lexington to get everything in order and I will be sharing our journey with you right here. Follow along with our credit journey over the next few months, and stay tuned for an opportunity to start your own credit journey!

honey bees + financial dreams

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    The Journey

    by Mary Oliver

    One day you finally knew
    what you had to do, and began,
    though the voices around you
    kept shouting
    their bad advice–
    though the whole house
    began to tremble
    and you felt the old tug
    at your ankles.
    “Mend my life!”
    each voice cried.
    But you didn’t stop.
    You knew what you had to do,
    though the wind pried
    with its stiff fingers
    at the very foundations,
    though their melancholy
    was terrible.
    It was already late
    enough, and a wild night,
    and the road full of fallen
    branches and stones.
    But little by little,
    as you left their voices behind,
    the stars began to burn
    through the sheets of clouds,
    and there was a new voice
    which you slowly
    recognized as your own,
    that kept you company
    as you strode deeper and deeper
    into the world,
    determined to do
    the only thing you could do–
    determined to save
    the only life you could save.

    sunset, flower

    Dear Friends,

    Tonight I simply want to remind you that every journey starts with a single step.

    Love,
    Dena

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    Letting Go of the Past: Forgiveness

    Last week, I finished listening to Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now. It had been on my “to-read” list for years, when by a stroke of fate a dear friend offered to lend me her audio copy. I plan to do a full review of the book in the coming weeks but for now I want to focus on one important element—forgiveness of the past.

    Recently I started thinking about the first twenty-five years of my life. In The Power of Now, we learn that to live in the future or the past is to suffer. The only way to exist in true harmony is to live in the now. After all, the past is not real, the future is not real. The past and the future only exist in our minds. The only thing that is truly and completely real, is the now.

    The challenge with this, however, is that until we can accept, understand, and move on from the conditioning of the past, we can not experience true freedom. And in order to truly accomplish this, we must experience true forgiveness of the past—forgiving others & ourselves completely.

    As I reflected upon these truths, I realized that I have been holding on to a tremendous amount of pain from my own personal history. There is so much past that continues to haunt me and impact me in the now. One of the greatest sources of pain revolves around my former lifestyle.

    I spent so much of my life caught up in a false sense of self. I spent incredible amounts of money on material possessions that I now perceive as worthless (clothes, jewelry, useless electronics, etc.) For some reason, I fell into the marketing. I bought it—all of it. (You can read more about my journey into financial prison and my subsequent journey out in previous posts.)

    But that’s not really the point, the point is that I ended up here. I can sit around and feel sorry for myself, angry that so much of my life was wasted, frustrated that I’ve only paid off a fraction (albeit a substantial fraction) of my debts so far; but if I did all of that where would it get me? It wouldn’t get me anywhere except maybe on a private jet to my own personal pity party. No thank you.

    Instead of wallowing, I am grateful. Grateful that I have come this far. Grateful that I’ have learned these lessons and changed the direction of my life by the age of 25 (soon-to-be 26). Grateful to be surrounded by a community of people that support me and believe in me. Grateful to have discovered my life’s true purpose and passion. Grateful to be doing what I love (even if only part of the time). Grateful to be safe, secure, healthy, strong, and beautiful.

    As I move through these emotions of gratitude for what I have now and what I am now, I find that the pain of my history slips away. I believe that I am finally on a path toward true forgiveness of the past. The reality is that it happened. I made mistakes, like all fallible human beings do. However, without making those mistakes, I may never have come to this place, to this now.

    The past grants us wisdom & grace. The memories that haunt us the most, are usually the memories that taught us the greatest lessons. Forgiveness will come from acceptance. So, the trick to true forgiveness is true acceptance. Once we can accept our past unconditionally, we can live fully in the now.

    I am making my way on this journey slowly. For most of my life, I focused almost entirely on the past—heart breaks, mistakes, errors in judgment, loss, failures, and so on—but that was a tragic mistake. What I now know is that the past is gone, the only thing that matters is now. And likewise, the future is a distant place that exists only in my mind. The only thing that matters is right now.

    Transforming the way that I think has been a challenging process, but I have come a tremendous distance already and I will keep on pushing forward, always.

    Now I ask you, reader, what pieces of your past are you holding on to? Are you willing to accept those pieces unconditionally so that you may truly forgive and live in harmony & light? Will you join me on this journey?

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