5 Tips for More Energy

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5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

The last seven months of my life have been incredibly transformational. It all started a year ago, when I restarted my yoga practice in February of 2018. For me, yoga is a game-changer. It provides me with a completely different way of life–wellness physically, mentally, and spiritually. It is something that I had been longing for, for so long, especially since becoming a mother and facing major upheaval in my life post-motherhood, including moving houses three times, a divorce, and so on.

Even after I began my love affair with yoga, there has been a lot of trial & error as I’ve struggled to find a balance between work life, mom life, and yogi life. I’ve often found myself praying for just a little more time in the day, or at the very least just a little more energy. It seems that both of these things are in short supply for for many of us. With all of that said, I have found a handful of things that have been super helpful in giving me more energy. I am excited to share them with you today.

Sleep — Let’s start with the most basic component of energy, sleep. Every person is different when it comes to how much sleep they need to function optimally. This is a matter of biology. My father is an example of a person who does not need much sleep. He functions best with 4-5 hours of sleep per night, and if he gets more than that, then he feels tired. It’s mind-boggling to me and I am forever disappointed that I didn’t get that gene! Disappointing though it may be, I am like my mother and I function optimally with 8 hours of sleep each night.

Unfortunately, for those of us who function best on 8 hours of sleep, that can be difficult to attain. There are a lot of factors that are outside of our control, such as what time we need to get up in the morning for work/school or whether our children sleep through the night or not. As much as we’d love to have more control over those things, we don’t. So what we need to do is to change what is within our control as needed. In terms of sleep, the main thing that we can control is when we put ourselves to bed.

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

For me, it’s rare that I sleep later than 6 am. Therefore, in order for me to get 8 hours of sleep, I must fall asleep by 10 pm. Knowing that it takes me a solid half hour to wind down and fall asleep, that means I need to be in bed by 9:30 pm. Now a lot of people will say that getting to bed at 9:30 pm is impossible and I get that, I really do. I used to feel that way too. But eventually I realized that, ultimately, it’s a matter of prioritization.

I have had to make a lot of major adjustments to make it happen. Dinner happens earlier, bedtime routines begin earlier, chores are finished earlier (or pushed to the morning), and so on. It isn’t easy, and it sure doesn’t happen every night, but for me, the effort is worth it.

It all comes down to self-care. If I make my sleep a priority, I am making my wellness a priority. I am setting myself up to be the best version of myself and therefore the best possible mother to my children, the best creator for my audience, and so on. You cannot pour from an empty vessel. How you prioritize your life and your time is up to you alone, and perhaps, it is one of the most important choices that we make each day.

Hydration/Diet — After sleep, diet and hydration are the next biggest factors for me in terms of my energy levels.. Again, optimal nutrition varies from person to person, depending on lifestyle and many other factors, but there are some basics that apply across the board.

First of all, it is critical that you stay hydrated. Dehydration not only leads to exhaustion and illness, but it also leads to overeating and lethargy. I aim to drink a minimum of 2 liters of water a day. I always have a large reusable water bottle with me wherever I go. Having the water nearby to sip throughout the day makes it that much easier to stay hydrated. Another critical piece of advice in terms of hydration and energy is avoiding alcohol. Alcohol is so detrimental in terms of health because it dehydrates you, it decreases your quality of sleep, and so much more.

In terms of eating, the best course of action is to eat small, healthy meals throughout the day. Fresh fruit, vegetables, and other real whole foods are where it’s at. Do not eat by the clock! Eat when your body tells you that it needs fuel. Most days I practice intermittent daily fasting, wherein I do not eat from 7 pm each night until about 12 noon the next day. I highly recommend looking into it as an option for yourself if you are seeking increased wellness.

Exercise — I’ve talked a lot about yoga in this post, but I realize that yoga isn’t for everyone. When it comes to exercise, I think the most important thing is that you find something that you love. For years, I forced myself to exercise in ways that I hated, namely cardio and weightlifting. It was such a nightmare. I dreaded going to the gym and I loathed the time spent doing those things. It was so foolish and it led to me wasting money on gym memberships that I hardly used and eventually giving up altogether more times than I can count.

Now, I go to yoga class between 2-3 times a week (I want to work up to 4-5 soon!) and I am in the best shape of my life. I also walk or hike outdoors several miles a day when the weather is good. I absolutely love yoga and walking. These things bring me joy and wellness–the best combination. Best of all, of course, is the increase in energy that comes with exercise.

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

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5 Tips for Energy for Busy Mamas

Superfoods — I try to include superfoods in my family’s diet at least a couple of times a week. I am always looking to add things like chia seeds, raw cacao, and acai berries to our smoothies, salads, muffins and cereal to give us that little extra boost to keep us going strong through our days.

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I hope that this post has been helpful to you, friends. These are some of my favorite tips and I thank you for allowing me to share them with you. If you have your own tips for optimizing energy, I would love to hear them!

Wishing you wellness and joy, now and always.

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    How to Overcome Fear & Stop Resisting

    “To offer no resistance to life is to be in a state of grace, ease, and lightness.” —Eckhart Tolle

    Stop resisting the will of the Universe. I’ve said this to myself thousands of times. It is perhaps one of the most powerful tools that has led me to peace of mind.

    In the past four years, I overcame depression, anxiety, and I lost sixty pounds. When you overcome a lifetime of anxiety & depression, a lot of things change. For one thing, you begin to enjoy life. Simple things that you hadn’t noticed before fill your heart with joy—Spring, a cold glass of water on a hot day, a good workout, a kind word, a smile. When you are overcome by the effects of anxiety & depression, you do not have time to notice these simple pleasures. (They are often overshadowed by the negative, irrational thoughts swarming inside of your head.)

    Happiness begets happiness, as I like to say. However, even in my increased state of happiness, I knew that something still wasn’t right. It took me awhile to realize what it was. Only after months of careful self-observation did I realize what was happening.

    A hard day at work = I was disgusted, angry, plagued by head aches.
    A frustrating experience at a car dealership = I was furious.
    An upcoming flight and travel arrangements = I was anxious, worried, sick to my stomach.

    I was continually allowing my mind to make me angry, sick, sad, frustrated, etc. Yet, after each of these experiences I learned some valuable lesson or something really important & meaningful happened as a result.

    Hard days at work always lead me to clarity about how myself and my team could be more efficient.
    The frustrating experience at the car dealership actually prevented me from making a terrible mistake and purchasing the wrong car.
    Recent travel and trips have brought me incredible successes in my personal & professional life.

    Upon observing all of this, it hit me. Even when things seemed terrible, even when I was really upset, eventually the pain of the situation would subside. Moreover, I would come out on the other side wiser, stronger, and grateful. Every thing that happened (happens) to me is a direct result of the will of the Universe (you can call that God, fate, destiny, or any other name you’d like to give it, no matter). Yes, every thing that happens is a direct result of the will of the Universe and an opportunity to learn and grow. In order to live true happiness, I had to stop resisting the will of the Universe. Once I did this, my life changed in incredible (and previously unimaginable) ways. When I stop resisting and simply “go with the flow” I find that I am constantly filled with a deep calmness in my soul. I do not worry or suffer. I simply exist and let all scenarios play themselves out. I understand that even pain is necessary and that ultimately it will carry me to a place of light & peace.

    Fear is Unnecessary

    At the root of every single feeling of discomfort, lies one emotion: fear. Fear is the emotion responsible for all forms of suffering. Sadness, anxiety, worry, rage, hatred, envy, and all other forms of suffering are rooted in fear. However, once you stop resisting the will of the Universe, you will understand that fear and suffering are actually not necessary at all.

    The vast majority of fear and suffering is a result of living in an unreal world and/or allowing negative, irrational thoughts to control our minds. The unreal world is the world of sky rise buildings, electricity, paper money, McDonald’s, television, marketing, vanity surgery, reality TV, etc. The real world is the world of trees, dirt, sun, stars, wind, rain, whole foods, self-love, generosity, family, love, etc. Can you see the difference? Once you remove yourself from the suffocating chains of the unreal world, and begin living in the real world, you will find that most of the fears that you experience are completely unnecessary. The vast majority of anxieties that we suffer from are made-up.

    – fear of judgment
    – fear of failure
    – fear of humiliation
    – fear of public speaking
    – fear of making a mistake
    – fear of travel
    – fear of forgetting something
    – fear of being alone and so on

    Once you realize that these fears are made-up in the unreal world, they can hold no power over you. All of the above are irrational anxieties. None of those things would actually put your life in danger or expose you to any harm. The only place that they can affect you is in your head. But you must remember that you have control over what goes on in your head! You can use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to end the suffering.

    Eventually, you will realize that true fear might have a place in your life, but that is only when you are truly in danger. Perhaps while being chased by a bear or masked murderer, while falling from a cliff, etc. Yes, in those instances, your fear is justified and it can help you by creating adrenaline, increased strength, quicker reflexes and cognitive ability. But other than those “real” true fear situations, there is really no need for fear and certainly no need for emotional suffering.

    Live Without Resistance or Fear

    Once you learn to stop resisting the will of the Universe and to live without fear, you will experience an entirely new & improved sort of living. You will find that all of the things that you once desired, but were afraid to seek, are actually within your reach. For example, I was emotionally crippled by irrational anxiety for the first half of my life. This made it impossible for me to speak in front of people. I could not ask a question in a class of twenty, let alone get up in front of a group of people to speak. My anxiety over public speaking was so great, that it crippled me. I once experienced a debilitating panic attack at a dinner party of five family friends! But… that is ancient history.

    Now, my former self is hardly recognizable. I have spoken in front of groups of sixty people or more with grace and confidence. I know that my fear is irrational & unnecessary, so I overcome it. Sure, my heart rate may increase, I might sweat a bit—but I do not let it stop me! I remind myself that that the fear is not real and I move forward to success.

    You are entirely capable of achieving the same same sort of success in your own life—personal & professional. Whatever your fear is, you can overcome it.

    “You’ll seldom experience regret for anything that you’ve done. It is what you haven’t done that will torment you.” —Wayne Dyer

    To allow fear to rule your life, is not to live at all. So stop resisting the will of the Universe and stop allowing fear to rule your life. Begin living, truly living, right now. There is nothing in your way. What is your greatest fear? Can you believe that it is unnecessary? What would you do if you had no fear in your heart at all? How different could your life be?

    The only time you run out of chances is when you stop taking them!

    I am now offering personalized coaching sessions to individuals suffering from anxiety &/or depression. If you are interested in scheduling a session or would like to learn more, please contact me at denabotbyl[@]gmail[.]com for details and rates. Include CBT Session in the subject line.

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