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Act, and God Will Act

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Act, and God will act. —Joan of Arc

I believe in the power of prayer.  I believe in the power of manifestation. I believe in the power of positive thinking.  Not only do I believe in these things, but I know these things.  I have prayed, and manifested, and practiced positive thinking. Through these things, I have known joy, beauty, and light. They have allowed me to overcome depression; to lose seventy pounds; and to travel the long path from darkness to light.

Yet, even with all that these things can do, there is another tool that is infinitely greater—action.

An Unloaded Gun
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about goals. It is absolutely critical to sit down and pour your heart into your goals; to be honest with yourself about what you really want. To say: This is where I want to be in six months. This is where I want to be in one year. This is where I want to be in five years. To be incredibly specific: I want to have this amount of money in the bank. I want to be living in this place. I want to be doing this for a living. I want to be surrounded by these people.  And so on…

The first step to getting what you want out of life is this: DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. But, remember, goal-setting is only the first step.

Specific, measurable goals are wonderful, but goals alone are like an unloaded gun. They’re useless. The thing that gives a goal its power are the actions that follow it.  Once you have set your goals, you must determine what—exactly—you will need to do to get there.  What will you need to give up?  How much blood, sweat, and tears will it take?  How long will you need?  How will your life have to change? 

When you’ve answered these questions, you will be ready to set your goals aflame and to begin making miracles happen. You can draw yourself a map of action items. And from there, you can turn your dreams into reality.

My Book Launches
It has been a dream of mine, for as long as I can remember, to write a book. However, for too long I’ve allowed my anxieties about (not) getting published to get in my way. The crazy thing is that I already have two books ready to be shared with the world! All of the praying, manifesting, and positive thinking is not going to get my books into people’s hands.  It is time for me to do something, to take action. This is why, I’ve decided that next month, I am going to start selling both of my books as e-books.

To show you what I mean by specific, measurable goals and detailed action mapping, here’s an example.

My Goal-setting and Action Mapping Process

Goal:

  • Sell 100 copies of my two books: A Taxonomy of Loss (a collection of poems) and Beat Your Depression and Overcome Your Anxiety (The Best of Evolution You 2009 – 2011).
  • Raise between $600 and $900 through book sales by June 1, 2012.

Action Map:
Week of November 13 – 20: Make final revisions to Beat Your Depression…; create PDF version with illustrations of A Taxonomy of Loss; draft email to professional contacts asking for support of book launch; draft post announcing book launches; create form for pre-registration

Week of November 20 – 27:  Publish post announcing book launches; open pre-registration list;  send email to professional contacts asking for support of book launch (guest posts, reviews, etc.)evolutionyou.net | super hero

Friday November 25: Launch discount pre-sale (for pre-registered list only); create draft of official launch post

December 1:  Publish official launch post; open sales to the public

December 15:  Create a “What I Learned” document about the entire process; create draft of “Big Push” post #2 for New Years Eve re-launch

December 31:  Publish 2nd “Big Push” post, New Years Eve re-launch

Notice how both my goals and my action map are incredibly specific. Goals and action plans are like treasure maps. The more specific and clear you are, the easier it will be to get where you’re going.

Act, and God will act.
The quote featured at the top of this post is one of my favourites. It deeply inspires me. I hope that it inspires you, too. Now it’s your turn. What have you been putting off? Can you believe that this year will be ending in less than two months? I am not a fan of resolutions. Instead, I encourage you to start setting goals right now and then, to start making them happen.  Don’t wait for the New Year hype.  Act, now, and God will act.

What have you been secretly wishing and praying for? What has been getting in your way? Stop idly sitting around with your wishes, hopes, and prayers and take action! Today is the day to push all of the bullshit aside and make it happen.

In love & light,
Dena

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    3 Simple Changes That Will Save Your Life

    This post could save your life. These 3 simple lifestyle changes saved mine. Today I am going to simply share facts with you. These facts (if you let them) will dramatically improve your quality of life. Making these changes can even increase your life span.

    1. Stop Smoking

    FACTS: According to the American Heart Association, cigarette smoking is the most important preventable cause of premature death in the United States, accounting for 440,000 of the more than 2.4 million annual deaths.

    Cigarette smoking causes lung cancer. In fact, smoking tobacco is the major risk factor for lung cancer. In the United States, about 90% of lung cancer deaths in men and almost 80% of lung cancer deaths in women are due to smoking. People who smoke are 10 to 20 times more likely to get lung cancer or die from lung cancer than people who do not smoke. The longer a person smokes and the more cigarettes smoked each day, the more risk goes up.

    Smoking also causes cancer of the voice box (larynx), mouth and throat, esophagus, bladder, kidney, pancreas, cervix, and stomach, and causes acute myeloid leukemia. Source.

    FACTS: One year after passing smoking bans, communities in North America and Europe had 17 percent fewer heart attacks compared to communities without smoking restrictions, and the number of heart attacks kept decreasing with time, according to a report in Circulation: Journal of the American Heart Association. Source.

    FACTS: If you quit smoking, you will:

    1. Prolong your life. According to the American Heart Association, smokers who quit between ages 35-39 add an average of 6-9 years to their lives. Smokers who quit between ages 65-69 increase their life expectancy by 1 – 4 years.

    2. Reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease. Quitting smoking reduces the risk of repeat heart attacks and death from heart disease by 50 percent or more. Quitting smoking also reduces your risk of high blood pressure, peripheral artery disease and stroke.

    3. Reduce your risk of developing a variety of other conditions including diabetes, lung cancer, throat cancer, emphysema, chronic bronchitis, chronic asthma, ulcers, gum disease and many other conditions.

    4. Feel healthier. After quitting, you won’t cough as much, have as many sore throats and you will increase your energy.

    5. Look and feel better. Quitting can help you prevent face wrinkles, get rid of stained teeth, improve your skin and even get rid of the stale smell in your clothes and hair.

    6. Improve your sense of taste and smell.

    7. Save money. Source.

    FACTS: What Happens When You Quit:

    After 20 minutes
    o You stop polluting the air
    o Your blood pressure and pulse decrease
    o The temperature of your hands and feet increases

    After 8 hours
    o The carbon monoxide level in your blood returns to normal
    o Oxygen levels in your blood increase

    After 24 hours
    o Your risk of heart attack decreases

    After 48 hours
    o Nerve endings adjust to the absence of nicotine
    o Your ability to taste and smell begin to return

    After 2 weeks to 3 months
    o Your circulation improves
    o Your exercise tolerance improves

    After 1 – 9 months
    o Coughing, sinus congestion, fatigue and shortness of breath decrease
    o Your overall energy level increases

    After 1 year
    o Your risk of heart disease decreases to half that of a current smoker

    After 5 – 15 years
    o Your risk of stroke is reduced to that of people who have never smoked

    After 10 years
    o Your risk of dying from lung cancer drops to almost the same rate as a lifelong non- smoker
    o You decrease the incidence of other cancers — of the mouth, larynx, esophagus, bladder, kidney and pancreas

    After 15 years
    o Your risk of heart disease is reduced to that of people who have never smoked

    If you smoke again (called a relapse) do not lose hope. Seventy-five percent of those who quit relapse. Most smokers quit three times before they are successful. If you relapse, don’t give up! Review the reasons why you wanted to become a nonsmoker. Plan ahead and think about what you will do next time you get the urge to smoke. Source.

    2. Maintain a Healthy Body Weight

    QUESTION: How many people get cancer by being overweight or obese? How many die?

    FACTS: In 2002, about 41,000 new cases of cancer in the United States were estimated to be due to obesity. This means that about 3.2 percent of all new cancers are linked to obesity.

    A recent report estimated that, in the United States, 14 percent of deaths from cancer in men and 20 percent of deaths in women were due to overweight and obesity.

    Colon cancer occurs more frequently in people who are obese than in those of a healthy weight. An increased risk of colon cancer has been consistently reported for men with high BMIs.
    Source.

    FACTS: Research has shown that as weight increases to reach the levels referred to as “overweight” and “obesity,” the risks for the following conditions also increases:

    * Coronary heart disease
    * Type 2 diabetes
    * Cancers (endometrial, breast, and colon)
    * Hypertension (high blood pressure)
    * Dyslipidemia (for example, high total cholesterol or high levels of triglycerides)
    * Stroke
    * Liver and Gallbladder disease
    * Sleep apnea and respiratory problems
    * Osteoarthritis (a degeneration of cartilage and its underlying bone within a joint)
    * Gynecological problems (abnormal menses, infertility) Source.

    3. Eat Whole Foods, Not Processed

    FACTS: The statistics are alarming:

    – One in three people will get cancer at some time in their life

    – Heart disease is the leading cause of death

    – Poor nutrition and physical inactivity together are the second
    actual cause of preventable death in the United States

    On the other hand new evidence shows that:

    – Eating five or more fruits and vegetables per day cuts cancer
    risk in half

    – People who eat more fruits and vegetables have a 30% lower risk
    of premature heart attack than people who eat a few

    – About 25% fewer strokes are projected for adults who eat 8 or
    more servings of fruits and vegetables per day

    – Fruits and vegetables may help keep blood sugar down and control diabetes.” Source.

    FACTS: Processed meat consumption results in 67% increase in pancreatic cancer risk.
    Source.

    FACTS: Inorganic phosphates are found in a variety of processed foods, including meats, cheeses, beverages and bakery products. They are added to increase water retention and improve food texture. Studies suggests a diet high in inorganic phosphates could speed growth of cancerous tumors and contribute to the development of tumors in those predisposed to the disease. Source.

    FACTS: Carcinogens in foods that may be naturally-occurring, caused by preparing or cooking certain foods, or added to it, include safrole, estragole and benzene. Processed foods such as sausages, bacon and canned meats contain high amounts of the preservative nitrite, another known carcinogen. Other carcinogens to look for in food products include:

    * acetaldehyde
    * acetamide
    * azo color and compounds
    * benzidine
    * bis (2-Chloromethyl) ether
    * cadmium
    * chlorinated parraffin waxes
    * 3,3-dichlorobenzidine
    * dichloromethane
    * hexachlorobenzene
    * polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons
    * polychlorinated dibenzodioxins
    * polychlorinated dibenzofurans
    * sillica
    * trichloroethylene

    Though it is impossible to avoid every known carcinogen, to decrease risk of cancers and other illnesses, a balanced diet with more unprocessed, whole foods can decrease risk of some cancers and other diseases such as type two diabetes and heart disease. Source.

    FACTS: Nutrients in Whole Foods that Protect Against Cancer:

    1. Vitamin A: Strengthens the immune system. Essential for mineral metabolism and endocrine function. Helps detoxify. True vitamin A is found only in animal foods such as cod liver oil; fish and shellfish; and liver, butter and egg yolks from pasture-fed animals. Traditional diets contained ten times more vitamin A than the typical modern American diet.

    2. Vitamin C: An important antioxidant that prevents damage by free radicals. Found in many fruits and vegetables but also in certain organ meats valued by primitive peoples.

    3. Vitamin B6: Deficiencies are associated with cancer. Contributes to the function of over 100 enzymes. Most available from animal foods.

    4. Vitamin B12: Deficiencies are associated with cancer. Found only in animal foods.

    5. Vitamin B17: Protects against cancer. Found in a variety of organically grown grains, legumes, nuts and berries.

    6. Vitamin D: Required for mineral absorption. Strongly protective against breast and colon cancer. Found only in animal foods such as cod liver oil, lard, shellfish and butterfat, organ meats and egg yolks from grass-fed animals. Traditional diets contained ten times more vitamin D than the typical modern American diet.

    7. Vitamin E: Works as an antioxidant at the cellular level. Found in unprocessed oils as well as in animal fats like butter and egg yolks.

    8. Conjugated Linoleic Acid (CLA): Strongly protective against breast cancer. Found in the butterfat and meat fat of grass-fed ruminant animals.

    9. Cholesterol: A potent antioxidant that protects against free radicals in cell membranes. Found only in animal foods.

    10. Minerals: The body needs generous amounts of a wide variety of minerals to protect itself against cancer. Minerals like zinc, magnesium and selenium are vital components of enzymes that help the body fight carcinogens. Minerals are more easily absorbed from animal foods.

    11. Lactic Acid and Friendly Bacteria: Contribute to the health of the digestive tract. Found in old fashioned lacto-fermented foods.

    12. Saturated Fats: Strengthen the immune system. Needed for proper use of the essential fatty acids. The lungs cannot function without saturated fats. Found mostly in animal foods.

    13. Long-Chain Fatty Acids: Arachidonic acid (AA), eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexaenoic acid (DHA) help fight cancer on the cellular level. They are found mostly in animal foods such as butter, organ meats, cod liver oil and seafood.

    14. Co-enzyme Q10: Highly protective against cancer. Found only in animal foods. Source.

    In closing: I truly hope that you will begin living these simple lifestyle changes. If you are non-smoker, not obese, and already eating whole foods, then I challenge you to help to spread this message to as many people as you can. All of the suffering and the disease mentioned above is not necessary. It can be prevented.

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  1. Hi Dena,
    What if your goal doesn’t depend on you alone?  What if your goal is to have a new female best friend with abc qualities by June 2012.  How do you put an action plan in place for that?  I know you will probably say ‘Go out more’ etc but I don’t know.  Some things like writing a book or starting a blog depend on you alone and can be worked towards.  Others not so much.  I would like to hear your thoughts on this.  Thanks.

    1. Hey Chelsea,
      This is my first time on this site, but I found your comment really relevent. So many of us struggle with how to involve others in our expectations and goals, I know I do. I recently read an article online that really helped me believe the best way is to really believe that you have an awesome gal pal. How would you act if you did? Would you go out to activities you enjoy more? Would you be happier and even more friendly? Would be open to find more inspirational people in your life? What we think about seems to manifest itself in real life. This mindset would help you attract people who find you fun, exciting and inspirational (and hopefully your new bff). Here’s the article that helped me with something similair: http://galadarling.com/article/being-happy (Affirmations section especially). Hope this was at least a little helpful = )

    2. This is absolutely a workable goal!!

      For example:

      ***Goal: To attend at least 5 social outings within the next 5 months.

      ***Action plan:   A.)  Sign up for meetup.com — attend 2 meetup events this month
                              B.)  Sign up to volunteer at my local animal shelter – ask one of the other volunteers to coffee within 90 days
                              C.)  Attend a concert, poetry reading, or open MIC night at a local venue, strike up a conversation with at least two strangers
                              D.)  Get involved on campus.  (If you are a student) Join a club.  (If you are an alumni) Join the alumni association.
                              E.)  Join a Rotary or Church group.

      The ideas are limitless!  :o)

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