Day 8: 5 Current Goals

30-day-blogging-challenge

I am definitely a “goals” person, if there is such a thing. If there is any hope of getting yourself to where you want to be, you must have a map (A PLAN). And if you’re going to create a map, then you obviously need a destination (A GOAL). I set goals for myself all the time. At any given time I have a few “this week” goals; a few “this month” goals; and a few longer-term “this year/next year” goals. I’ve written in more detail about goals and my goal setting processes here and here.

At present, my top 5 goals are:

1. Work on physical fitness. Sadly, I am in the worst shape that I’ve been in, in 7 years. I stopped working out during my pregnancy and I never started again. I am so ashamed to admit it! But, it is what it is. I’ve lost a lot of my baby weight. I gained 50 pounds and have lost 30-35; but I still have another 15-20 pounds to go.

I had always hoped to have all of my baby weight off by six-months postpartum, and well, that came & went yesterday. Roman is finally sleeping well and I am healed from my “delivery ailments.” I already eat well but I need to start exercising. I am actually going back to the gym for the first time today in well over a year! My goal is to build up my endurance to where it was pre-pregnancy and to fit into all of my pre-pregnancy clothes again.

2. Grow my photography business/expand advertising. I launched Firefly Jar Photography in the spring and the response has been incredible. I’ve had several great sessions and have lots more planned for the upcoming year. I hope to continue to expand the business. I have to sit down and come up with a plan of action.

3. Create a blogging schedule & continue to work on monetization. Hopefully you all have noticed an uptick in my blogging. Now that I am home full-time and Roman is becoming more independent, I have a lot more time to work on this blog. I’ve been dreaming of turning this blog into “something more” for years and I am finally at a point where that is feasible. I’ve been increasing the site’s traffic, partnering with wonderful companies/small businesses on reviews & giveaways; and have even had a few small sponsorships. Hopefully, the next step will be to pick up some larger sponsorships. I’ve been blogging publicly for 5 years and I couldn’t even begin to quantify how much time & energy I have put into it. To finally be able to make it even remotely profitable would be wonderful. If I am going to be a stay-at-home-mom, I need to start bringing in at least a small income. Hopefully between my photography & this blog, I will be able to do that.

I would also like to create a blogging schedule to keep myself on track. Sometimes inspiration is flowing & I have more ideas than I know what to do with. Other times, I have complete writer’s block. A blogging schedule should help keep me on track. More about this soon.

4. Increase our self-sufficiency/sustainability. One of our long-term gals is to make our lifestyle as close to self-sufficient & sustainable as possible. There are two primary reasons for this. First is monetary — the more self-sufficient we are, the less money we will need, the more freedom we will have. Second is environmental — nature is of the utmost importance to us. Although we do not consider ourselves religious people, we are very spiritual and nature is our temple. Living sustainably & minimizing our environmental footprint is a top priority.

Realistically, I am writing this from my desk, sitting at my 27″ iMac using a WI-fi connection. I know that we will never be 100% self-sufficient or sustainable. However there are many things that we can do/are doing to get closer. We are purchasing a wood-burning stove today. There is an enormous forest behind our house and there are regularly fallen trees (both in and around our yard). Matthew has chopped up several of these fallen trees and we have enough firewood to warm our house for all of this winter and most of next. I am already planning two, big gardens for the spring. I would also like to learn how to preserve and can. We will be getting egg-laying hens in the spring. And finally, we plan to start fishing. There is plenty of good fishing around here and thus far it’s been a totally untapped resource for us. Much more on this subject to come.

5. Meditation/yoga. Another thing that has fallen off my plate since becoming pregnant has been meditation & yoga. I know that these things are vital to my spirit. I would like to start slowly by taking ten minutes each day to stretch and meditate.

* * *

If you are participating in my blogging challenge, please leave a link below in the comments so that we can all check it out! Also, you can click here to read all of the posts in this series. xo

* * *

you may also like

  • Carousel — 04.09.10

    Hello Dear Readers & happy Friday! It’s been a bit quiet around here this week because I am preparing for vacation. Yahoo! I leave tomorrow morning and will be returning late next week. You will see a couple of guest posts during that time (if I can properly set that up in WordPress) and a guest post from me will be posted over at a friend’s blog. So keep your eyes open for those things, but my apologies in advance as I will not be replying to comments or emails because…

    I plan to be completely disconnected during my trip. That means no Blackberry, Twitter, Facebook, Web, Foursquare, and so on. I need a break from “virtual reality”, my friends. 😉 In fact, we all do from time to time!

    That said, let’s move on to this week’s Carousel. I’ve got some very sweet goodies to share with you this week.

    ———————–

    Every Friday, I post my favourite links, posts, & resources from around the Web. Expect to learn, grow, & be inspired.

    1. Coming across hurting people: Every now & again, I come across a piece that touches me in a deep, profound way. Usually the piece is not too long, but it is always powerful and tugs at my heart strings in a soft, yet poignant way.

    This blog post is one of those pieces. If you read nothing else from this week’s Carousel, read this.

    2. Eco-Bootcamp: The sustainable, savvy heroines over at Your Daily Thread have kicked off a month long going green boot camp in honor of the 40th anniversary of Earth Day on April 22nd. Their goal is to turn Eco-zeros, to Eco-heroes even if you’ve never recycled before.

    3. Soda: A Sin We Sip Instead of Smoke? and Junk food ‘as addictive as heroin and smoking’: I am extremely passionate about healthy living & lifestyles. My passion has been really intense lately as I become increasingly aware of the disturbing truths about modern “food”.

    I view the recent elimination of sugary beverages (soda) from school systems as a huge triumph. I look forward to the continuation of this important trend. Education and awareness is crucial.

    4. create luck, embrace chance & tune in to your serendipity: What is it about lucky people? Have they all got horseshoes tucked into their backsides? 🙂 Amber doesn’t think so & neither do I.

    5. 7 Sources of Deep Clutter: Some great advice about how to eliminate the “shoulds, have-tos, and people-pleasing” bad habits that are cluttering your life & soul.

    (And as a side note, the Good Life Zen blog is really fantastic. Each post is insightful, inspirational, and well-written.)

    6. Remaining Calm in Stressful Situations: I like this post because it teaches us something that we can all benefit from (remaining calm) but I love it because it reminds us of something even more important — that mental/emotional stress does cause physical illness.

    7. 40 Belief-Shaking Remarks From a Ruthless Nonconformist: Ah, yes! We can always count on Friedrich Nietzsche to obliterate the complacent, feel-good beliefs that we hold about ourselves. This collection of quotes will stir your pot and get your wheels spinning.

    8. The Top 10 Online Habits That Make My Life Simpler: If you’re like me—meaning you spend several hours a day online—then you know that the Web can be the biggest time-vacuum known to man (if you let it). This post lists lots of simple yet effective ways that will help you make the most of your precious time spent online.

    9. Why You Should Be More Decisive: Truth: I am an extremely indecisive woman by nature. Those closest to me will tell you this.

    I have trouble deciding upon the simplest of things—which restaurant to visit, which shirt to wear, which road to take, whether or not to put salt on my food, which movie to watch, and so on. Well, a couple of years ago I found an ingenious method for dealing with this problem: I started flipping a coin! Yes, that’s my secret.

    While the coin-flipping model has worked well for me, I still really enjoyed this post. It teaches us why some people have so much trouble being decisive in today’s world and why it is really important that we become more decisive overall. Perhaps I should stop relying so heavily on the coin and start aiming to be more decisive myself…

    10. How To Fund Your Travels With Creativity: I have several friends who are currently living outside of the United States, seeing the world, gaining incredible life experience, and living the lives of their dreams. If you want to know how 95% of them are doing it, read this post. It will tell you exactly what they’re doing and how you can do it too.

    ———————–

    That’s it for this week. I’ll see you all on the other side.

    In love & light,
    Dena

10 Comments

  1. Lived reading your goals. 🙂 Congrats on the success you’ve been having with your blog! I’ve noticed you’ve been working with a lot more companies – you must be having a lot of fun with that!

    1. Thanks, Gillian! <3 It is fun! It can be a little bit overwhelming at times, but I am trying to stick with companies that I love & my readers will love, too. I hope I'm doing an alright job. 🙂

  2. yuor blog i sevolving, I can see! And I also glad for you. I am also happy, that somehow I came across it. 🙂
    Love yuor goals. Losing weight, yeah, that would be my case too! 🙂

  3. I love seeing everyone’s goals, it reminds me more of what I want in life too! Yoga and being more sustainable are definitely up there too.

    Good luck with the gym and working out! How easy it all seemed to loose the weight, right? And you would think running around with a baby all day would be a total weight loss helper. Carrying 20+ pounds, where are those bulging arm muscles?! ^_~

  4. (1) Keep trying to win the lottery
    (2) Get a promotion at work
    (3) Win a softball championship for my team
    (4) Continue to workout and build muscle
    (5) Start some kind of sports side job business that I can do part-time from home on nights or weekends.

  5. I’ve just stumbled across your blog, which is quite funny as I’m now doing this blog challenge too, I didn’t know where it came from! I’m loving it so far so thank you for coming up with it x

Leave a Reply to dragonfly Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *