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Gandhi’s Top Ten Fundamentals for Changing the World


Image Credit: Francesca

While visiting Tumblr this morning, I found the beautiful graphic that you see above. Credit for the graphic goes to the talented, Francesca. I was inspired to share it along with my interpretation of each piece of wisdom.

1. Change yourself.
You don’t have to go far to hear people complaining. You’ll hear them in the coffee shop, in line at the post office, at the office, and just about anywhere else you go. They say things like: “If I were in control…” “If I had the money to…” “If I had the time I would…” What these people don’t know is that they already have all of the tools that they need to create the change that they want to see. Gandhi tells us to be the change we wish to see in the world and it really is that simple.

Rather than complaining your life away, start to be the change. If you want to see more kindness in the world, show more kindness. If you want to see more generosity in the world, be more generous. If you want to see more beauty in the world, create more beauty. Change yourself and so change the world around you.

2. You are in control.
The reason that you don’t take action, create positive change, and lead the life of your dreams is because you feel like you are not in control. You feel like you don’t have enough money, or enough talent, or enough faith. But you so! You are in control. The only things that are stopping you are your own self-limiting beliefs.

Instead of telling yourself that you can’t, tell yourself that you can. Remember the young girl who was blind, deaf, and barely able to speak. She told herself that she could and then grew up to understand French, German, Greek, and Latin; went to Harvard; wrote a book that was translated into twenty-five languages; met every President in her lifetime; and was awarded the highest civilian honor—the Presidential Medal of Freedom! (Her name was Helen Keller, by the way.)

3. Forgive and let go.
Whatever pain you are holding onto, let it go. If someone has wronged you, forgive him. If you have failed, forgive yourself. Nothing is so important. You do not need to hold onto pain. Its toxic poison will ruin you and break your spirit. Let it go. Forgiveness will set you free.

Gandhi says that forgiveness is choosing to love. When you choose love, you heal your own heart.

4. Take care of this moment.
Living in the past causes depression. Living in the future causes anxiety. The only thing that matters is this moment. If you do what is right in this moment then the past will not matter and the future will be good. Do not waste time thinking of the past or the future. Do not use up your precious, present moments. Be here now. Harness the power of now and be fully present in each moment.

5. Without action you aren’t going anywhere.
When you really want something the whole universe conspires to make it happen; but remember that it still takes work on your part. Dreaming and positive thinking are incredibly powerful tools, but they are not enough on their own. If you want to create the life if your dreams, you must take action. Here are a few things you can do to get on the path toward action: Use visualization to set & accomplish your goals. Get rid of the negatives in your life. Practice minimalism.

6. Everyone is human.
The truth is that people make mistakes. You yourself will make hundreds of mistakes in your lifetime. No person is perfect and when you truly practice love, you will accept all people—flaws & all.

We’re all human. Make it your practice to treat every person you come across with kindness, love, and respect. Your own life will become infinitely brighter as a result of your generosity.

7. See the good in people and help them.
Take kindness a step further. Go out of your way to help people. Volunteer at a soup kitchen. Help your elderly neighbor carry in groceries. Read the newspaper at your local nursing home. What you will find is that the more you give, the more you receive. There is infinite beauty in every human soul. If you take the time to give of yourself, you will see that beauty reflected in your own life tenfold.

8. Persist.
Like Samuel Beckett said, “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.” Anything that is worth anything in this life takes work. When you endeavor to do great things, you will inevitably fall at least once. The key to your success will be getting back up. Every. Single. Time. Even when your back is breaking and tears are falling. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.

Persist, push forward, and don’t ever give up (even if that means trying something else). If you do these things you will succeed.

9. Be congruent, be authentic, be true to yourself.
To be congruent, you must ensure that your thoughts are aligned with your words and your words are aligned with your actions. Do what you say. To be authentic, you must be real. Never be a fake. Remember that it is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. And finally, to be true to yourself, you must follow your heart. It is wonderful to have friends, fans, and followers, but at the end of the day you have to lay your head down on the pillow and feel good about you.

10. Continue to grow and evolve.
Life is a journey and on your path you will transform over & over again. Keep an open mind. Embrace change. Remember that possibilities & opportunities are endless. Never stop learning. Never stop growing. And never stop evolving.

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    My Journey to Financial Freedom | Part 2: The Climb

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    Three years ago, I was nearly $60,000 in debt. I had a Bachelor’s degree that didn’t appear to be worth its weight in salt and a job that couldn’t cover a fraction of my monthly bills. I was terrified.

    Today, I am closer to complete financial freedom than I ever dreamed possible. Last week, I paid off my last remaining credit card balance. This two-part post is a celebration of this incredible milestone in my journey.

    In part one, I explained how I got to that terrible place. In part two, I will explain how I’m getting out of it (and how you can do it, too).

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    1. Change the way you think about spending money. For most of my life, I believed that money was made to be spent. I believed that I *deserved* to spend every dollar that I earned on some material thing that would “make me happy.” I coveted material possessions—clothes, jewelry, electronics, cars. What I realize now is that money is not meant to be spent. You only need to earn enough money to survive. You should have enough money to buy only what you need. There is no need for excess.

    “You’re not your job. You’re not how much money you have in the bank. You’re not the car you drive. You’re not the contents of your wallet. You’re not your fuc*ing khakis.” (Fight Club)

    This shift in mindset is hard to adjust to at first. You may not like the reactions that you receive from people. Believe me, I’ve been called cheap a few times, but I pay no mind to it. I would choose cheap over poor any day.

    2. Keep a budget. I highly recommend using Mint.com. I started using it in September and it has been one of the most transformational and useful tools throughout my journey to financial freedom. It allows you to sync up all of your accounts (loans, checking, savings, etc.) in one place. Then it keeps track of every transaction that you make and sorts/organizes all of the data for you. It allows you to track your spending over time and by category. It gives you incredible perspective and insight about where your money goes each month/year. It has been a truly eye-opening experience for me.

    If you’re unwilling to try Mint, you can keep a budget on a spread sheet or even by hand. However, the important thing is to be completely conscious about where every dollar you spend is going.

    3. Use a debit card. To reap the full Mint.com experience you should use a debit card for every purchase you make. Using the debit card will automatically flag each transaction you make into the appropriate category. So if you go to Shoprite, it will get marked as groceries. If you go to Home Depot it will get marked as home. If you stop at the gas station it will get marked as automobile, and so on.

    I use my debit card (linked to my checking account) for almost every single transaction that I make. I also have all of my monthly bills (like my auto insurance, utilities, and gym membership) automatically debited from the same checking account each month. It makes keeping track of my spending that much easier. Plus, I do not like dealing with cash. The debit card is quick, easy, and is accepted almost everywhere now.

    Whether or not you use Mint.com it is a good idea to use a debit card simply because you can review all of your purchases and purchase amounts on your monthly statement. Trying to keep track of receipts is a hassle that I don’t have time for.

    4. Pay off credit cards and cut them up. Paying off my credit cards was my first priority. For awhile I tried “credit card surfing.” Let me just tell you from experience, it’s overrated and it really doesn’t work. The idea is that you surf from credit card to credit card by transferring balances. A lot of companies will give you 0% APR for 6 months if you transfer your balances over to them. After the 6 months, you “surf” to a new card with another promotional rate.

    The problem with this tactic is that it gets messy quickly, it becomes difficult to keep up with, and if you lose track you will end up getting burned by high APRs, finance fees, cancellation fees, etc. Also, it probably doesn’t look great on your credit report if you’re opening up a new card every 6 months or so.

    It is much safer and wiser to just stop using credit cards! My theory is simple and has taken me very far: If you can not afford to buy it, then you can not afford it. Period. It is simple logic.

    5. Eat in. This is one of the easiest changes to make, but it also comes with an enormous, positive impact. When I started closely tracking my spending habits, I was shocked to see how much I was spending on eating out. A meal at a decent restaurant goes for about $25 per person. If you eat out twice a week, that is $3,120 a year. If you grab lunch out during the work week, it’s about $8 a day. That’s $2,080 a year. Put those together and you could be spending $5,200 a year or more on dining out! That is outrageous and completely unnecessary.

    Since I started eating in and packing lunches, I’ve taken my monthly food spending from $500 down to $200 or less! Over time, that means enormous savings. Check out 5dollardinners.com for some awesome, inexpensive recipes. I love it! Also, investing in a crock pot was one of the wisest decisions I ever made—chili, sausage & peppers, and goulash will be your new (delicious, cheap) best friends. (Here are some more tips for eating healthy & mindfully.)

    6. Direct deposit money into savings every month. This is my final—and perhaps most important—tip. When I began my journey to financial freedom, I opened a savings account with ING Direct. It is an easy-to-use online savings account and it gives you interest on the money that you save. It also allows you to set up easy direct deposits.

    I started out small, depositing $50 a month into my savings. As I learned to keep my budget tighter and tighter, I increased the amount that I put into my savings each month. Currently, I am putting away $500+ per month and hope to get closer to $1,000 per month in the very near future.

    When you direct deposit the funds, it comes out automatically. It is painless because you don’t have to do a thing. Because it’s automatic, after awhile you don’t even notice that it’s missing. (I remember reading that on another blog several months ago and thinking, “Are you out of your mind?! I’m not going to miss it? Yea right!”) But I can honestly say that after a few months, you adjust to the missing money. You truly do not miss it once it becomes normal for that amount to be deposited into savings automatically each month.

    It has been one of the best decisions that I’ve made and because I’ve worked so hard to get to this place—I don’t touch that money! I am keeping it there for a rainy day or to pay off my student loans someday in one fell swoop.

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    As I stated at the start of this post, three years ago I was almost $60,000 in debt; I was twenty-three years old; and I was scared to death. Today, I have my finances under control! I am on the road to financial freedom and you can get here, too. Truly, it is not as hard as it seems. With common sense and a bit of dedication, it will happen. Paying off my last credit card balance was like taking chains off of my wrists for the first time in seven years. The feeling was completely priceless. If I can do it, anybody can.

    So, what are your financial goals? Have you ever been in financial prison? How did you free yourself? If you’re still there, what are you going to do to break free?

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  9. Love the list. It all goes back to the one truth I always stick with through the turmoil of the journey and that is that being selfishly selfless is the best way to better the world. Since we are the world, and the universe, the best way to change the world is the change our self for the better constantly. The most selfish thing one could want for themselves is to be free from suffering, and it’s also what the world needs to be free from the most. Glad your continuing to better yourself and the world Dena!

    How are you doing lovely? Would love to hear some more about what’s happening in your world.

    Peace and Namaste from Nepal!

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    1. @ Brandon – The best way to change the world is the change our self for the better constantly. I absolutely love this idea, Brandon! It has been so wonderful to watch your journey unfold – a true & beautiful inspiration.

      My world has been relatively quiet as of late. Seeking peace. I should be posting some more substantial updates soon. Happy 2011, my friend! Keep creating positive change — you are amazing.

  10. Also, I love that there’s a bike on the title pic. The most fun way to better the world is to trade your car in for a bike~!

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