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Gandhi’s Top Ten Fundamentals for Changing the World


Image Credit: Francesca

While visiting Tumblr this morning, I found the beautiful graphic that you see above. Credit for the graphic goes to the talented, Francesca. I was inspired to share it along with my interpretation of each piece of wisdom.

1. Change yourself.
You don’t have to go far to hear people complaining. You’ll hear them in the coffee shop, in line at the post office, at the office, and just about anywhere else you go. They say things like: “If I were in control…” “If I had the money to…” “If I had the time I would…” What these people don’t know is that they already have all of the tools that they need to create the change that they want to see. Gandhi tells us to be the change we wish to see in the world and it really is that simple.

Rather than complaining your life away, start to be the change. If you want to see more kindness in the world, show more kindness. If you want to see more generosity in the world, be more generous. If you want to see more beauty in the world, create more beauty. Change yourself and so change the world around you.

2. You are in control.
The reason that you don’t take action, create positive change, and lead the life of your dreams is because you feel like you are not in control. You feel like you don’t have enough money, or enough talent, or enough faith. But you so! You are in control. The only things that are stopping you are your own self-limiting beliefs.

Instead of telling yourself that you can’t, tell yourself that you can. Remember the young girl who was blind, deaf, and barely able to speak. She told herself that she could and then grew up to understand French, German, Greek, and Latin; went to Harvard; wrote a book that was translated into twenty-five languages; met every President in her lifetime; and was awarded the highest civilian honor—the Presidential Medal of Freedom! (Her name was Helen Keller, by the way.)

3. Forgive and let go.
Whatever pain you are holding onto, let it go. If someone has wronged you, forgive him. If you have failed, forgive yourself. Nothing is so important. You do not need to hold onto pain. Its toxic poison will ruin you and break your spirit. Let it go. Forgiveness will set you free.

Gandhi says that forgiveness is choosing to love. When you choose love, you heal your own heart.

4. Take care of this moment.
Living in the past causes depression. Living in the future causes anxiety. The only thing that matters is this moment. If you do what is right in this moment then the past will not matter and the future will be good. Do not waste time thinking of the past or the future. Do not use up your precious, present moments. Be here now. Harness the power of now and be fully present in each moment.

5. Without action you aren’t going anywhere.
When you really want something the whole universe conspires to make it happen; but remember that it still takes work on your part. Dreaming and positive thinking are incredibly powerful tools, but they are not enough on their own. If you want to create the life if your dreams, you must take action. Here are a few things you can do to get on the path toward action: Use visualization to set & accomplish your goals. Get rid of the negatives in your life. Practice minimalism.

6. Everyone is human.
The truth is that people make mistakes. You yourself will make hundreds of mistakes in your lifetime. No person is perfect and when you truly practice love, you will accept all people—flaws & all.

We’re all human. Make it your practice to treat every person you come across with kindness, love, and respect. Your own life will become infinitely brighter as a result of your generosity.

7. See the good in people and help them.
Take kindness a step further. Go out of your way to help people. Volunteer at a soup kitchen. Help your elderly neighbor carry in groceries. Read the newspaper at your local nursing home. What you will find is that the more you give, the more you receive. There is infinite beauty in every human soul. If you take the time to give of yourself, you will see that beauty reflected in your own life tenfold.

8. Persist.
Like Samuel Beckett said, “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.” Anything that is worth anything in this life takes work. When you endeavor to do great things, you will inevitably fall at least once. The key to your success will be getting back up. Every. Single. Time. Even when your back is breaking and tears are falling. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.

Persist, push forward, and don’t ever give up (even if that means trying something else). If you do these things you will succeed.

9. Be congruent, be authentic, be true to yourself.
To be congruent, you must ensure that your thoughts are aligned with your words and your words are aligned with your actions. Do what you say. To be authentic, you must be real. Never be a fake. Remember that it is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. And finally, to be true to yourself, you must follow your heart. It is wonderful to have friends, fans, and followers, but at the end of the day you have to lay your head down on the pillow and feel good about you.

10. Continue to grow and evolve.
Life is a journey and on your path you will transform over & over again. Keep an open mind. Embrace change. Remember that possibilities & opportunities are endless. Never stop learning. Never stop growing. And never stop evolving.

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    Letting Go of the Past: Forgiveness

    Last week, I finished listening to Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now. It had been on my “to-read” list for years, when by a stroke of fate a dear friend offered to lend me her audio copy. I plan to do a full review of the book in the coming weeks but for now I want to focus on one important element—forgiveness of the past.

    Recently I started thinking about the first twenty-five years of my life. In The Power of Now, we learn that to live in the future or the past is to suffer. The only way to exist in true harmony is to live in the now. After all, the past is not real, the future is not real. The past and the future only exist in our minds. The only thing that is truly and completely real, is the now.

    The challenge with this, however, is that until we can accept, understand, and move on from the conditioning of the past, we can not experience true freedom. And in order to truly accomplish this, we must experience true forgiveness of the past—forgiving others & ourselves completely.

    As I reflected upon these truths, I realized that I have been holding on to a tremendous amount of pain from my own personal history. There is so much past that continues to haunt me and impact me in the now. One of the greatest sources of pain revolves around my former lifestyle.

    I spent so much of my life caught up in a false sense of self. I spent incredible amounts of money on material possessions that I now perceive as worthless (clothes, jewelry, useless electronics, etc.) For some reason, I fell into the marketing. I bought it—all of it. (You can read more about my journey into financial prison and my subsequent journey out in previous posts.)

    But that’s not really the point, the point is that I ended up here. I can sit around and feel sorry for myself, angry that so much of my life was wasted, frustrated that I’ve only paid off a fraction (albeit a substantial fraction) of my debts so far; but if I did all of that where would it get me? It wouldn’t get me anywhere except maybe on a private jet to my own personal pity party. No thank you.

    Instead of wallowing, I am grateful. Grateful that I have come this far. Grateful that I’ have learned these lessons and changed the direction of my life by the age of 25 (soon-to-be 26). Grateful to be surrounded by a community of people that support me and believe in me. Grateful to have discovered my life’s true purpose and passion. Grateful to be doing what I love (even if only part of the time). Grateful to be safe, secure, healthy, strong, and beautiful.

    As I move through these emotions of gratitude for what I have now and what I am now, I find that the pain of my history slips away. I believe that I am finally on a path toward true forgiveness of the past. The reality is that it happened. I made mistakes, like all fallible human beings do. However, without making those mistakes, I may never have come to this place, to this now.

    The past grants us wisdom & grace. The memories that haunt us the most, are usually the memories that taught us the greatest lessons. Forgiveness will come from acceptance. So, the trick to true forgiveness is true acceptance. Once we can accept our past unconditionally, we can live fully in the now.

    I am making my way on this journey slowly. For most of my life, I focused almost entirely on the past—heart breaks, mistakes, errors in judgment, loss, failures, and so on—but that was a tragic mistake. What I now know is that the past is gone, the only thing that matters is now. And likewise, the future is a distant place that exists only in my mind. The only thing that matters is right now.

    Transforming the way that I think has been a challenging process, but I have come a tremendous distance already and I will keep on pushing forward, always.

    Now I ask you, reader, what pieces of your past are you holding on to? Are you willing to accept those pieces unconditionally so that you may truly forgive and live in harmony & light? Will you join me on this journey?

  • Carousel — 04.09.10

    Hello Dear Readers & happy Friday! It’s been a bit quiet around here this week because I am preparing for vacation. Yahoo! I leave tomorrow morning and will be returning late next week. You will see a couple of guest posts during that time (if I can properly set that up in WordPress) and a guest post from me will be posted over at a friend’s blog. So keep your eyes open for those things, but my apologies in advance as I will not be replying to comments or emails because…

    I plan to be completely disconnected during my trip. That means no Blackberry, Twitter, Facebook, Web, Foursquare, and so on. I need a break from “virtual reality”, my friends. 😉 In fact, we all do from time to time!

    That said, let’s move on to this week’s Carousel. I’ve got some very sweet goodies to share with you this week.

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    Every Friday, I post my favourite links, posts, & resources from around the Web. Expect to learn, grow, & be inspired.

    1. Coming across hurting people: Every now & again, I come across a piece that touches me in a deep, profound way. Usually the piece is not too long, but it is always powerful and tugs at my heart strings in a soft, yet poignant way.

    This blog post is one of those pieces. If you read nothing else from this week’s Carousel, read this.

    2. Eco-Bootcamp: The sustainable, savvy heroines over at Your Daily Thread have kicked off a month long going green boot camp in honor of the 40th anniversary of Earth Day on April 22nd. Their goal is to turn Eco-zeros, to Eco-heroes even if you’ve never recycled before.

    3. Soda: A Sin We Sip Instead of Smoke? and Junk food ‘as addictive as heroin and smoking’: I am extremely passionate about healthy living & lifestyles. My passion has been really intense lately as I become increasingly aware of the disturbing truths about modern “food”.

    I view the recent elimination of sugary beverages (soda) from school systems as a huge triumph. I look forward to the continuation of this important trend. Education and awareness is crucial.

    4. create luck, embrace chance & tune in to your serendipity: What is it about lucky people? Have they all got horseshoes tucked into their backsides? 🙂 Amber doesn’t think so & neither do I.

    5. 7 Sources of Deep Clutter: Some great advice about how to eliminate the “shoulds, have-tos, and people-pleasing” bad habits that are cluttering your life & soul.

    (And as a side note, the Good Life Zen blog is really fantastic. Each post is insightful, inspirational, and well-written.)

    6. Remaining Calm in Stressful Situations: I like this post because it teaches us something that we can all benefit from (remaining calm) but I love it because it reminds us of something even more important — that mental/emotional stress does cause physical illness.

    7. 40 Belief-Shaking Remarks From a Ruthless Nonconformist: Ah, yes! We can always count on Friedrich Nietzsche to obliterate the complacent, feel-good beliefs that we hold about ourselves. This collection of quotes will stir your pot and get your wheels spinning.

    8. The Top 10 Online Habits That Make My Life Simpler: If you’re like me—meaning you spend several hours a day online—then you know that the Web can be the biggest time-vacuum known to man (if you let it). This post lists lots of simple yet effective ways that will help you make the most of your precious time spent online.

    9. Why You Should Be More Decisive: Truth: I am an extremely indecisive woman by nature. Those closest to me will tell you this.

    I have trouble deciding upon the simplest of things—which restaurant to visit, which shirt to wear, which road to take, whether or not to put salt on my food, which movie to watch, and so on. Well, a couple of years ago I found an ingenious method for dealing with this problem: I started flipping a coin! Yes, that’s my secret.

    While the coin-flipping model has worked well for me, I still really enjoyed this post. It teaches us why some people have so much trouble being decisive in today’s world and why it is really important that we become more decisive overall. Perhaps I should stop relying so heavily on the coin and start aiming to be more decisive myself…

    10. How To Fund Your Travels With Creativity: I have several friends who are currently living outside of the United States, seeing the world, gaining incredible life experience, and living the lives of their dreams. If you want to know how 95% of them are doing it, read this post. It will tell you exactly what they’re doing and how you can do it too.

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    That’s it for this week. I’ll see you all on the other side.

    In love & light,
    Dena

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  9. Love the list. It all goes back to the one truth I always stick with through the turmoil of the journey and that is that being selfishly selfless is the best way to better the world. Since we are the world, and the universe, the best way to change the world is the change our self for the better constantly. The most selfish thing one could want for themselves is to be free from suffering, and it’s also what the world needs to be free from the most. Glad your continuing to better yourself and the world Dena!

    How are you doing lovely? Would love to hear some more about what’s happening in your world.

    Peace and Namaste from Nepal!

    Brandon

    1. @ Brandon – The best way to change the world is the change our self for the better constantly. I absolutely love this idea, Brandon! It has been so wonderful to watch your journey unfold – a true & beautiful inspiration.

      My world has been relatively quiet as of late. Seeking peace. I should be posting some more substantial updates soon. Happy 2011, my friend! Keep creating positive change — you are amazing.

  10. Also, I love that there’s a bike on the title pic. The most fun way to better the world is to trade your car in for a bike~!

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