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Trading Cash for Experience: Mt. Fuji Restaurant

Preface: I’m not a fan of money, spending money, or obtaining material possessions. In my life, I practice minimalism whenever possible.

My opinions about money & possessions are largely shaped by my financial history (which you can read more about in previous posts). Despite the facts that I am frugal & that money is not my favourite thing, there is one thing that I am willing to spend my money on and that is: experience.

I absolutely love to experience new places & things—exotic locations, adventures, art, culture, delicious foods: YES PLEASE! The reality about these things is that (in most cases) they cost money. But I’m okay with that. I’m happy to trade my hard-earned dollars for beautiful experiences.

This series—Trading Cash for Experience—features a few of the occasions where I decide to trade my $ for experience. Enjoy!

June 20th was my boyfriend’s twenty-seventh birthday. I knew that I wanted to do something special, but the two of us are very similar in our distaste for material possessions. He already has everything that he needs. I knew that I would have to think outside of the box. So… I decided to go for an experience over a material gift.

Hibachi! I’ve been wanting to take Matthew to hibachi forever because he has never been. It just so happens that one of the greatest hibachi restaurants on the East Coast is only 20 minutes away from our house—Mt. Fuji!

Mt. Fuji Japanese Steakhouse is located on the side of a mountain in Hillburn, NY. The views from the restaurant’s sprawling window walls are phenomenal. The food is world-class and the hibachi chefs are amazing! I can not say enough good things about this place. (And no, this is not a paid endorsement of any sort, it’s plain & simply my opinion!)

Join me on a short photographic tour of our Mt. Fuji Birthday Celebration.

We started the night with delicious, chilled Ginjō Sake (Japanese rice wine). Typically, we opt for warm sake when we’re out for Japanese, but I wanted to try something different. The rice wine was somewhat bitter, but an excellent compliment to our dinner. Although it is served chilled, it goes down the throat with a warm swish.

When you go for hibachi at Mt. Fuji, the tables are set for eight. If you do not have a party of eight, you are seated with other guests. You can see a few of our table mates in the photographs. Our hibachi chef was called Johnny 5. He was a riot!

Our first course was hot onion & seaweed soup. This steaming soup is spectacular, a full-on party for the taste buds.

Our next course was sushi. I went with the Alaskan Roll—Salmon & Avocado Rolled with Seasoned Rice & Topped with Tobiko (Flying Fish Roe). Matthew opted for the Spicy Crunch Roll—Salmon with Tempura Crunch, Spicy Sauce & Tobiko. (We stay away from tuna since watching The Cove.) Of course we shared the rolls & both were excellent.

After sushi, the real fun began! Our chef, Johnny 5, started whipping up the side dishes, which all of the table mates get to share—veggie fried rice, lo mein, & grilled shrimp. While preparing the food, he did all sorts of amazing tricks like flipping shrimp tails into his hat, tossing an egg around on a fry flipper, and creating a flame-erupting miniature Mt. Fuji out of an onion!

After each of us was served our side dishes, Johnny 5 got to work on the main courses. Matthew had the Hibachi Filet Mignon with Scallops and I had the Hibachi Shrimp. (I can never get enough shrimp!)

By the time the main course got to my plate I was already full! But after sampling a few scrumptious bites, I couldn’t stop indulging. Everything on my plate was beyond delicious. Of course, I sampled Matthew’s plate too & found even more delight there!

When dinner was finally over we had to turn down the offer for dessert. I really thought I was going to have to be rolled out of the restaurant because I was that full! Our check came to $114.92 (including tip) which is our grocery budget for one and a half weeks(!)… but I was more than happy to pay it for the incredible experience & the delicious food. It was worth every penny.

We explored the outside of the restaurant—Japanese inspired statues, gardens, & koi ponds—for a few minutes. I snapped a few more photographs before we headed home & melted into food comas for the evening. (Note: I do not overindulge like this often, nor do I recommend the habit. However, birthdays only come around once a year & life is short!) 😉

I highly recommend Mt. Fuji if you are ever in the area. Check out their website & full menu at: http://www.mtfujirestaurants.com/.

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    Letting Go of the Past: Forgiveness

    Last week, I finished listening to Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now. It had been on my “to-read” list for years, when by a stroke of fate a dear friend offered to lend me her audio copy. I plan to do a full review of the book in the coming weeks but for now I want to focus on one important element—forgiveness of the past.

    Recently I started thinking about the first twenty-five years of my life. In The Power of Now, we learn that to live in the future or the past is to suffer. The only way to exist in true harmony is to live in the now. After all, the past is not real, the future is not real. The past and the future only exist in our minds. The only thing that is truly and completely real, is the now.

    The challenge with this, however, is that until we can accept, understand, and move on from the conditioning of the past, we can not experience true freedom. And in order to truly accomplish this, we must experience true forgiveness of the past—forgiving others & ourselves completely.

    As I reflected upon these truths, I realized that I have been holding on to a tremendous amount of pain from my own personal history. There is so much past that continues to haunt me and impact me in the now. One of the greatest sources of pain revolves around my former lifestyle.

    I spent so much of my life caught up in a false sense of self. I spent incredible amounts of money on material possessions that I now perceive as worthless (clothes, jewelry, useless electronics, etc.) For some reason, I fell into the marketing. I bought it—all of it. (You can read more about my journey into financial prison and my subsequent journey out in previous posts.)

    But that’s not really the point, the point is that I ended up here. I can sit around and feel sorry for myself, angry that so much of my life was wasted, frustrated that I’ve only paid off a fraction (albeit a substantial fraction) of my debts so far; but if I did all of that where would it get me? It wouldn’t get me anywhere except maybe on a private jet to my own personal pity party. No thank you.

    Instead of wallowing, I am grateful. Grateful that I have come this far. Grateful that I’ have learned these lessons and changed the direction of my life by the age of 25 (soon-to-be 26). Grateful to be surrounded by a community of people that support me and believe in me. Grateful to have discovered my life’s true purpose and passion. Grateful to be doing what I love (even if only part of the time). Grateful to be safe, secure, healthy, strong, and beautiful.

    As I move through these emotions of gratitude for what I have now and what I am now, I find that the pain of my history slips away. I believe that I am finally on a path toward true forgiveness of the past. The reality is that it happened. I made mistakes, like all fallible human beings do. However, without making those mistakes, I may never have come to this place, to this now.

    The past grants us wisdom & grace. The memories that haunt us the most, are usually the memories that taught us the greatest lessons. Forgiveness will come from acceptance. So, the trick to true forgiveness is true acceptance. Once we can accept our past unconditionally, we can live fully in the now.

    I am making my way on this journey slowly. For most of my life, I focused almost entirely on the past—heart breaks, mistakes, errors in judgment, loss, failures, and so on—but that was a tragic mistake. What I now know is that the past is gone, the only thing that matters is now. And likewise, the future is a distant place that exists only in my mind. The only thing that matters is right now.

    Transforming the way that I think has been a challenging process, but I have come a tremendous distance already and I will keep on pushing forward, always.

    Now I ask you, reader, what pieces of your past are you holding on to? Are you willing to accept those pieces unconditionally so that you may truly forgive and live in harmony & light? Will you join me on this journey?

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  5. I love to cook for myself and my girlfriend so much, but honestly, a great eating out experience is worth every penny if it’s really good. Hard to replace that. Happy Birthday to your boyfriend and nice job on the experience gift!

    1. @James – Thank you so much for stopping by. I absolutely love cooking, too! We have been in the middle of an entire home-renovation for over a year now (he’s a carpenter). But sometime within the next couple of weeks, my new kitchen will be finished! I can not wait.

      It really was an awesome time & I am glad I shelled out the ducats. 😉 Have a great weekend.

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